Name Pickle

General Name Discussion
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On my last girl name in my sibling set of four, I am deciding between two names.

First I should probably tell you my three other names:
[name_f]Aubree[/name_f] Navayah
[name_u]Arya[/name_u] [name_f]Rose[/name_f]
Elleanora [name_f]Ruth[/name_f]-[name_f]Allean[/name_f]

So I really worry that [name_f]Ellie/name_f will feel different because she has two middle names and her sisters do not. So I feel that doing another name with two middle names would make it seem not out of place. I can’t change Elleanora’s name, so that’s not an option to me. The whole name is a honor name and has deep meaning to myself and my fiance.

So these are the names I’m deciding over:
[name_f]Thea[/name_f] [name_f]Lux[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Ann[/name_f]-[name_f]Kathleen[/name_f].

Our last name is the ever so common last name [name_m]Williams[/name_m].

I’m also in pickle for the boy names, last spot.

The top three are:
[name_m]Anthony[/name_m] [name_u]Michael[/name_u]
Niklaus [name_m]Robert[/name_m]
[name_m]Xavier[/name_m] [name_u]Ryan[/name_u]

My runner uppers are:
[name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m]

Both of these names are [name_f]Honor[/name_f] names again. [name_u]James[/name_u] is someone that helped me through a lot in my teen life. I look at him as a father figure when my father was absent in my life. [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] is my fiances middle name, and for some reason, I just feel a pull to use his middle name. My friend suggested putting a double middle name for it. So please let me know what you think is better here:
[name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] [name_m]Williams[/name_m]
[name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] [name_m]Williams[/name_m]
[name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Williams[/name_m]
[name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] Willams.

2

My favorites are [name_f]Freya[/name_f] and [name_m]Abel[/name_m]. But if you don’t love the double middle names, don’t use them. You said that your 3rd daughter’s name means a lot to you and that’s great. But if having a double middle for your fourth isn’t what you love, don’t feel obligated to do it. In the long run, your daughter is not going to feel out of place or different because her name carries a great meaning in your family. I think [name_f]Freya[/name_f] is a beautiful name but I would prefer just [name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Ann[/name_f] as a combination, it’s very sweet. [name_m]Abel[/name_m] is such a cool name a definitely matches your girls. I like [name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] or even [name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m]. Good luck!

3

I think that [name_f]Ellie[/name_f]'s second middle holds a lot of meaning to you, so I wouldn’t worry about her feeling out of place, since you can explain her that. I love [name_f]Thea[/name_f] [name_f]Lux[/name_f], [name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Lux[/name_f] and [name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Ann[/name_f] for a girl, and [name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] or [name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] for a boy.

4

I vote for [name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_f]Kathleen[/name_f] and [name_m]Abel[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u].