Vi0let is gorgeous!
[name_f][/name_f]Name regret is really normal and I think around this stage of your postpartum recovery your emotions are really normal. I had name regret regarding my daughter’s name. Her name is [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] and I felt so conflicted concerning her name. I felt that I made a terrible mistake the anxiety was overwhelming. The reasons why I doubted my decision was that [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] was constantly mispronounced and was seen as weird due to [name_f]Lily[/name_f] variants being rare (aside from the increase of Liliana) which made me doubt myself. But at the same time due to the increase of [name_f]Lily[/name_f] names her name seems to melt into the crowd. It was really odd conflicting thoughts and anxiety surrounding the decision I made. However as [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] grew she definitely grew into her name and I’m so happy that she’s [name_f]Lilia[/name_f]. The berries also helped massively with feeling confident with my decision making by encouraging me to make a pros and cons list surrounding the name. This list really helped as I realised the pros outweighed the cons. I think as I grew more confident as a mother, my postpartum hormones settled and she responded to her name I knew I chose the right one.