Need help expanding list!

Not currently expecting, but over the next few years we’re hoping to add to our family, and I like having a bit of a short-list sitting there… but we’ve had to cross one of our boy options off and find ourselves down to only one ‘maybe’ name we agree on, [name_m]Jeremy[/name_m]. And we both hate the nickname [name_u]Jerry[/name_u]. Hubby hates [name_u]Jem[/name_u] as well. I’m hoping for mn R@lph.

Daughter’s name is R0byn, and if have another girl would probably go with [name_f]Elsie[/name_f]. We both liked [name_u]Tristan[/name_u] but now very close family have had one so it’s really not usable. I like [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m], but names ending in l don’t go with our surname. I absolutely adore [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], and have since I was a kid, but hubby hates it: he thinks it sounds pretentious and what upper class stuck-up parents would choose. He likes [name_m]Patrick[/name_m], I think it sounds a bit… flat.

We both kind of like [name_m]Oscar[/name_m] and [name_m]Griffin[/name_m], but go on and off [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], and think in reality [name_m]Griffin[/name_m]'s just a bit too out-there and nerdy for us. Is there something we’re missing that might work? Any suggestions appreciated!

[name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_m]Jeremy[/name_m] nn [name_u]Remy[/name_u]?

Your names feel very 70’s/80’s/90’s to me so I scouted the top lists of 1975 , 1985 and 1995 & I found

1975 -

Aaron
Keith
Dennis
Troy
Jesse
Bradley
Kenneth
Ian
Eddie
Heath
Toby
Wade
Kurt
Joey

Personally would lead towards Ian , Wade or Jesse

1985 -

Brandon
Scott
Evan
Brent
Curtis
Austin
Caleb
Ross
Calvin
Dylan
Cole
Spencer
Dale
Bryce
Marshall
Trent
Morgan

I personally am leaning towards Scott , Ross or Cole

1995 -

Patrick
Mitchell
Nathaniel
Derek
Isaiah
Colin
Preston
Trenton
Harrison
Landon
Russell
Gavin
Nolan
Brennan
Vincent
Donovan

I’d personally go Brennan , Gavin or Mitchell

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there.

I love [name_f]Elsie[/name_f]! It’s very cute w/[name_f]Robyn[/name_f] too, so you’re set there.

Here are a few boy ideas that you may like:

[name_m]Adrian[/name_m]

[name_u]Alden[/name_u]

[name_u]August[/name_u]

[name_m]Archer[/name_m]

[name_m]Bastian[/name_m]-is this less pretentious? :wink: I agree that [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is sort of stuck up sounding, but I too love it. I also think that [name_m]Bastian[/name_m] is super cool. Especially w/the nn Bash.

[name_u]Casey[/name_u]

[name_m]Clark[/name_m]

[name_m]Crispin[/name_m]

[name_u]Emmett[/name_u]

[name_m]Eli[/name_m]

[name_m]Gideon[/name_m]

[name_m]Holden[/name_m]

[name_m]Louis[/name_m]

[name_u]Lane[/name_u]

[name_m]Malcolm[/name_m]

[name_m]Milo[/name_m]

[name_m]Nathan[/name_m]

[name_m]Philip[/name_m]

[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]

[name_u]Sullivan[/name_u]

[name_m]Thatcher[/name_m]

[name_m]Vincent[/name_m]

[name_m]Wyatt[/name_m]

[name_m]Zachary[/name_m]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps. :slight_smile:

[name_u]Jay[/name_u] is a great nn for [name_m]Jeremy[/name_m].

Some that came to mind:

[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]
[name_m]Russell[/name_m]
[name_m]Brody[/name_m]
[name_m]Gethin[/name_m]
[name_m]Gideon[/name_m]
[name_m]Kian[/name_m]
[name_m]Casper[/name_m]
[name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_u]Evan[/name_u]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Ewan[/name_m]
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_m]Elijah[/name_m]
[name_m]Vincent[/name_m]
[name_m]Graham[/name_m]
[name_u]Sawyer[/name_u]
[name_m]Chester[/name_m]
[name_m]Abram[/name_m]
[name_m]Pascal[/name_m]
[name_u]Paxton[/name_u]

If he finds [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] too “posh”, could you compromise on just [name_m]Bastian[/name_m]?

Or a tried-and-true classic, like:

[name_m]Joseph[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
[name_m]Alexander[/name_m]
[name_m]Peter[/name_m]
[name_m]Henry[/name_m]
[name_m]Edward[/name_m]
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]Julian[/name_m]

Or a fresh yet sensible/traditional name, like:

[name_m]Silas[/name_m]
[name_m]Jasper[/name_m]
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Edwin[/name_m]
[name_m]Simon[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugh[/name_m]
[name_m]Orson[/name_m]
[name_m]Louis[/name_m]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_m]Maxwell[/name_m]
[name_m]Franklin[/name_m]
[name_m]Asher[/name_m]
[name_m]Leon[/name_m]/[name_m]Leonard[/name_m]
[name_m]Miles[/name_m]
[name_m]Frederick[/name_m]

I love [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m] too! So beautiful. As an alternative, you could use [name_m]Nathan[/name_m] or [name_m]Nate[/name_m] to eliminate the ending? If I had a [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m], I would call him nn [name_m]Nate[/name_m] all the time anyway, so it wouldn’t make much difference to me.

Or, if the ending is really what makes the name for you, you could add a middle name? Then again, the middle name isn’t used all that much… at the end of the day, if [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m] is the name for you, I’m sure that with the help of this many berries, you could find a way to use it! I was about to suggest a hyphenated last name, but then I realised you already had a daughter - R0byn is beautiful, by the way! The best solution is probably [name_m]Nathan[/name_m] nn [name_m]Nate[/name_m], which I still love - I just love [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m] a little more!