New fem name?


[name_f]My[/name_f] name is [name_m]Caden[/name_m] (at the moment) Im AFAB, a minor, and genderfluid (Specifically demifloren, which is where part of my gender is nonbinary and the other part is fluid between genders that are not binary male or binary female.)

[name_f]My[/name_f] pronouns are they/them, ae/aer, and fae/faer, but they/them is always okay.

A little bit of background: i chose my name because it was similar to my deadname (Katie). When i’m masc and NB, [name_m]Caden[/name_m] fits fine, but ive realized i want a fem-leaning name for days where im more girl.

I would love it if you guys could give me some suggestions!

I’m not looking for anything too fem, more of gender-neutral-but-also-fem-if-you-stare-at-it-real-hard type of thing. One or two syllables would be great, if possible! [name_f]My[/name_f] interests the ocean, reading(mostly fantasy), history, birds, photography, and making pride moodboards for my friends. I also love traveling, flight, exploring and anything else related to that!

Here are some names i had on my masc/nb list in order of how much i like them, along with a couple of names that i almost like.







[name_u]Luca[/name_u] (taken by the fish-guy from the Disney movie, unfortunately. Otherwise it’d be higher up the list.)

[name_f]Fay[/name_f] (honor name, i like the faerie connections but its a little fem for me.)





[name_u]Cadence[/name_u] came to mind



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🌿🖤 suggestions

[name_u]Dale[/name_u] (the only irl [name_u]Dale[/name_u] I’ve met was a woman so I enjoy it on anyone)

repeats are second votes!

hope you find one that works for you!

First name that came to mind is [name_u]Cove[/name_u] or [name_u]Coast[/name_u]. Both are gender neutral, but lean feminine in my opinion, and since you said you like the ocean it felt like one of those could be a good fit for you.

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] @litoreus and thank you for sharing your story, truth and pronouns .

I will try to suggest some non- binary names that have similar roots to [name_u]Cade[/name_u]

[name_m]Cael[/name_m] / Kale/ [name_m]Cale[/name_m]
Kai/ [name_u]Cai[/name_u]
[name_m]Case[/name_m] / [name_u]Casey[/name_u]
[name_u]Carter[/name_u] /Karter

Other names that might peak your interest
Faye/ Fae/ [name_u]Fallon[/name_u]

Maybe Kay! Sounds like Fay and Caden and Katie… but more neutral and different.