I am really liking the name [name_f]Lavender[/name_f]. I keep going back to it, but can’t think of any nicknames we like for it. Any suggestions? 
[name_f]Lavender[/name_f] could be…
[name_m]Den[/name_m]/Denvie/[name_u]Denver[/name_u]
[name_f]Addie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ava[/name_f], or maybe [name_f]Eva[/name_f] or [name_f]Ada[/name_f]
[name_u]Vinnie[/name_u]/[name_f]Vennie[/name_f]
[name_f]Liv[/name_f] or [name_f]Livy[/name_f] (I guess, Lav/Lavy would be pretty obvious choices so [name_f]Liv[/name_f] isn’t far off, and you don’t have the whole toilet thing)
What about [name_u]Avi[/name_u]? Aye-vee or ahv-vee (ahv as in apple)
[name_f]Lena[/name_f]?
[name_f]Neve[/name_f]?
[name_f]Veda[/name_f]?
[name_f]Ava[/name_f], [name_f]Lana[/name_f], Lavvie, [name_f]Vendela[/name_f].
I would suggest [name_f]Enna[/name_f] & [name_u]Love[/name_u]
Lav could work.
I think Lady would be a super cute nn for [name_f]Lavender[/name_f].
Sorry for any repeats…didn’t read replies
[name_f]Lavender[/name_f] could be
[name_f]Lola[/name_f]
[name_f]Lollie[/name_f]
Aven
[name_f]Ava[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f]
[name_f]Evie[/name_f]
[name_u]Van[/name_u]
[name_f]Lani[/name_f]
[name_u]Lanie[/name_u]
[name_u]Lane[/name_u]
[name_f]Elle[/name_f]
Most are kind of a stretch but I think [name_f]Evie[/name_f] or [name_u]Lanie[/name_u] could work
Maybe Vanie/Vany?
I ran into a mother in passing who called her daughter Enda. I was grocery shopping, so I didn’t stop to ask. But it sounds fun and spunky, and a twist to such a delicate girly name. [name_f]Ava[/name_f] or [name_f]Avie[/name_f] could work too 
Forget my suggestion I second this!
Lav? [name_u]Love[/name_u]? 
Lav or Lavie is sometimes slang lavatory… We say toilet here in Australia but quite a few people I know call it a “lav”, so I’d steer clear of it.
I really like Ender or [name_f]Avie[/name_f] for [name_f]Lavender[/name_f].
[name_u]Valo[/name_u], means light and simple and sweet