So first, I don’t care if they’re sleeping in the same room with you but your parents don’t get anymore say than if they lived in Timbuktu. They can talk all they want but you do not have to listen to them.
It’s sad that your partner agreed to [name_u]Hazel[/name_u] and vetoed it, especially as aforementioned eye color can change drastically in first months/years of life and hair can darken later in life.
If you really think [name_f]Stella[/name_f] suits her best, it’s a lovely combination with big sis’s name. But if you don’t, then don’t be afraid to advocate for [name_u]Hazel[/name_u]! I totally understand the popularity throwing you off though!
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] is lovely! A potential honor for [name_f]Stella[/name_f] could be [name_f]Estelle[/name_f] or [name_f]Estella[/name_f] if those catch your fancy!
Best wishes!