Building on what the above poster said, initials on monogrammed gifts your last name goes in the middle so it would be HGA. So that wouldn’t be that big of a deal. Honestly, I don’t think initials are that big of a deal. I grew up with a girl with MAS and a guy with [name_u]MAT[/name_u]. The biggest problem it ever was was when we as kids joked around about our initials. I think the problem is the name. [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] Grow sounds, I’m sorry if this is harsh, but ridiculous. I understand you like the name, because it is a pretty name, but you should stay away from all plant names, honestly. Someone said earlier anything would sound odd your last name, but I don’t think so.
Sorry, I think you should choose a different name.
Monograms are done either way. Most of my monogrammed stuff is first, middle, last, which is perfectly acceptable as far as monogram etiquette goes.