Old fashioned/vintage boys names that aren't "sissy"?

Backstory: My husband I love vintage, not-too-common names and have a little girl named [name]Agatha[/name] to prove it :slight_smile: We also have a list of gorgeous antique names ready for use if we have a baby girl. We are finding boys names much harder and when I posted our current list in here I got some feedback suggesting that some of the names just didn’t “go” with [name]Agatha[/name] and/or weren’t in that same vintage style.

So my question is; what boys’ names do you think fit the criteria of being vintage/antique/old fashioned, not too common (but not too out there either) and go well with [name]Agatha[/name]? The one sticking point is that many vintage male names sound a bit “sissy” (for want of a better word, I don’t really believe they are sissy). So names like [name]Cecil[/name] and [name]Cedric[/name] - while I can see that they fit most of my criteria, they are just too prissy for us to use. (Perhaps if I was living in a stately home in [name]England[/name] I would be braver!)

Please could you suggest some strong vintage boys names that aren’t surnames? Thank you!

I love, love [name]Agatha[/name]!! It’s one of my top contenders for this new one if she’s a girl. :slight_smile:

Some old-fashioned, but not “prissy” names (in my view, anyhow):

[name]Cyprian[/name]
[name]Hiram[/name]
[name]Miles[/name]
[name]Roscoe[/name]
[name]Silas[/name]
[name]Warren[/name]

I’m not sure whether you’re going more for vintage-classic or vintage-quirky, but I’m guessing vintage-quirky. Some of these suggestions are more classic than others:

[name]Titus[/name]
[name]Cyrus[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name]
[name]Clement[/name]
[name]Alonzo[/name]
[name]Walter[/name]
[name]Franklin[/name]
[name]Bertrand[/name]

Aw thanks esrever, we are so glad we chose the name [name]Agatha[/name].

From your list [name]Silas[/name] is the one I like best. I really like that it has literary links too.

I probably should have said that we like English-sounding names for the most part. I know [name]Agatha[/name] is originally Greek but culturally has that English vibe.

That’s a good question holey! I would say we went vintage-quirky with [name]Agatha[/name] but are leaning towards vintage-classic with boys names. It’s so hard to find old classic names that aren’t too popular though! [name]Frederick[/name] would be my pick from your list. I also really like [name]Clement[/name] (and think its great with [name]Agatha[/name]) but not sure I could convince DH.

Thanks [name]Lori[/name]! I didn’t know [name]Agatha[/name] was an “[name]Edna[/name]” name but it makes sense. I like a few of the names in your list but, with the exception of [name]Archibald[/name] and [name]Theodore[/name], suspect they’d be too “out there” for my hard-to-please husband.

[name]Jules[/name] is perfect He is adventurous, manly, handsome and has a great personality
also
[name]Barnaby[/name] He is just adorable and cute and cuddly
and
[name]Sterling[/name] A man with style

best wishes,

rollo

This is exactly what I look for in boys’ names, and it’s definitely hard to find. I feel like [name]Edmund[/name] (my absolute favourite) manages to hit the mark. I’d also second the suggestions of [name]Frederick[/name], [name]Theodore[/name], [name]Bertrand[/name] and [name]Bartholomew[/name]. Other options:
[name]Clifford[/name] (esp nn [name]Ford[/name], or even [name]Cliff[/name])
[name]Ernest[/name]
[name]Albert[/name]
[name]Alfred[/name]
[name]Alasdair[/name]/ [name]Alastair[/name]
[name]Arthur[/name]
[name]Conrad[/name]
[name]Duncan[/name]
[name]Hector[/name]
[name]Hugh[/name]/ [name]Hugo[/name]
[name]Jonas[/name]
[name]Otto[/name]
[name]Piers[/name]/ [name]Pierce[/name]
[name]Vincent[/name]
[name]Winston[/name]

Good luck! [name]Agatha[/name] is a lovely choice :slight_smile:

[name]Agatha[/name] and brother…

[name]Leo[/name]
[name]Basil[/name]
[name]Rupert[/name]
[name]Horatio[/name]
[name]Tobias[/name]
[name]Oscar[/name]
[name]Oliver[/name]
[name]Maxwell[/name]
[name]Solomon[/name]
[name]Walter[/name]
[name]Jasper[/name]
[name]Henry[/name]
[name]Eli[/name]
[name]Cyrus[/name]
[name]Simon[/name]
[name]Phineas[/name]
[name]Gideon[/name]
[name]Cornelius[/name]
[name]Timothy[/name]
[name]Thaddeus[/name]
[name]Peter[/name]
[name]Cassius[/name]
[name]Rufus[/name]
[name]Virgil[/name]
[name]Sebastian[/name]
[name]Stuart[/name]
[name]Tristan[/name]
[name]Nigel[/name]
[name]Julian[/name]
[name]Graham[/name]
[name]Edmund[/name]
[name]Colin[/name]
[name]Felix[/name]
[name]Otis[/name]
[name]Benedict[/name]
[name]Ignatius[/name]
[name]Laurence[/name]
[name]Vincent[/name]
[name]Hugo[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name]
[name]Harvey[/name]
[name]Randolph[/name]
[name]Oswin[/name]
[name]Conrad[/name]
[name]Clarence[/name]
[name]Dexter[/name]
[name]Bernard[/name]
[name]Lionel[/name]
[name]Duncan[/name]
[name]Calvin[/name]
[name]Richard[/name]
[name]Gregory[/name]
[name]Boniface[/name]
[name]Bartholomew[/name]
[name]Jerome[/name]
[name]Roland[/name]
[name]Victor[/name]
[name]Reuben[/name]
[name]Reginald[/name]
[name]Winslow[/name]
[name]Raymond[/name]
[name]Preston[/name]
[name]Winston[/name]
[name]Truman[/name]

Some of these may already have been mentioned, but it might be good to know that someone else also likes the name :slight_smile:
With [name]Agatha[/name] as a sister, one of these would be nice:
[name]Augustus[/name] or [name]Augustin[/name]
[name]Edmund[/name]
[name]Bertram[/name]
[name]Byron[/name]
[name]Orson[/name]
[name]Walden[/name]
[name]Alistair[/name]
[name]Stellan[/name]
[name]Leon[/name]
[name]Moses[/name]
[name]Rufus[/name]
[name]Rupert[/name]
[name]Grover[/name]
[name]Quincy[/name]
[name]Abel[/name]
[name]Noble[/name]

I really like Soames. it is vintage English and goes well with [name]Agatha[/name], which I love!

A few thoughts:

[name]Alban[/name]
[name]Alistair[/name]
[name]Amos[/name]
[name]Arlo[/name]
[name]Atticus[/name]
[name]Conrad[/name]
[name]Everett[/name]
[name]Ezra[/name]
Falco
[name]Fergus[/name]
[name]Fletcher[/name]
[name]Finian[/name]
[name]Fraser[/name]
[name]Gideon[/name]
[name]Giles[/name]
[name]Kilian[/name]
[name]Ivo[/name]
[name]Jesse[/name]
[name]Jonas[/name]
[name]Leif[/name]
[name]Leon[/name]
[name]Malachi[/name]
[name]Maxwell[/name]
[name]Miles[/name]
[name]Ned[/name]
[name]Linus[/name]
[name]Raphael[/name]
Ruan
[name]Silas[/name]
[name]Tobin[/name]
[name]Vernon[/name]
[name]Vincent[/name]

Titch, you have the exact same criteria for a boy’s name as we do (and we’re in Australia too). It’s a tough one!

We’re ruled out traditional but popular names like [name]William[/name], [name]Thomas[/name] and [name]Oliver[/name]. At the same time we don’t want names that are too ‘nerdy’ like [name]Herbert[/name] or [name]Walter[/name].

Names that we’ve mulled over are -

[name]Arthur[/name] ([name]Art[/name] or [name]Artie[/name])
[name]Alfred[/name] ([name]Alfie[/name])
[name]Felix[/name]
[name]Frederic[/name]
[name]Solomon[/name]
[name]Amos[/name]
[name]Abraham[/name] ([name]Abe[/name])
[name]August[/name] or [name]Augustus[/name] ([name]Augie[/name] or [name]Gus[/name])
[name]Fergus[/name]
[name]Jude[/name]
[name]Abel[/name]
[name]Julian[/name]
[name]Miles[/name]
[name]Rory[/name]

As I said in response to your last post, [name]Agatha[/name] is a fabulous name. I still think [name]Theodore[/name] would work well with [name]Agatha[/name] but I note that your husband is not a fan. I’m biased of course! Good luck and keep us posted.

Thanks [name]Rollo[/name], I’m not keen on shortened names on their own and [name]Julian[/name] isn’t my style. [name]Sterling[/name] feels a bit “Dynasty” somehow and [name]Barnaby[/name] is definitely cute but I can’t imagine it on a thirty year old man somehow.

[name]Caroline[/name] it is so hard isn’t it, so much easier with girls’ names of this sort. I like [name]Edmund[/name] too and [name]Theodore[/name] is already on my list, I like the nn [name]Bertie[/name] (I’m crazy about P.G. Wodehouse and [name]Bertie[/name] Wooster and Jeeves) but I might prefer [name]Bertram[/name] over [name]Bertrand[/name]. DH has already vetoed [name]Bartholomew[/name]. Some good names on your list but none are THE [name]ONE[/name]. Does THE [name]ONE[/name] even exist I wonder??

Thank you [name]Mischa[/name] for all the suggestions, [name]Felix[/name] is one I hadn’t considered and DH really likes it so it’s going on the list! And you have reminded me of a name I considered before we know [name]Agatha[/name] was a girl – [name]Benedict[/name]. I love it and think my husband might too!

Niteowl it is good to know if other people like a few of the same names, especially with the slightly more unusual ones. [name]Edmund[/name] has come up a few times which is interesting. We have discussed [name]Edward[/name] and [name]Edwin[/name] but not [name]Edmund[/name] yet so it’s a definite maybe. I really like [name]Moses[/name] but think it might be too “out there” for my DH sadly.

Bigsweater I have never heard of the name Soames. [name]Do[/name] you know what it means/where it comes from?

[name]Elea[/name] thanks for your list, there are a few standouts for me; [name]Amos[/name] and [name]Fraser[/name] in particular.

Thanks cbuxton. You understand our dilemma have it exactly! I think [name]Theodore[/name] is great and my husband does love [name]Theo[/name] so I am sure I could persuade him if need be, although it would be nice if we could both agree on something that really grabbed us. We have many of the same names as you on our list and I really like the others. I especially like [name]Abraham[/name] but again my boring, I mean conservative, husband is the sticking point LOL.

Ha titch, sounds like we both have boring, I mean conservative, husbands!

Titch, it sounds as if you’re making some progress and I really appreciate your responsiveness to all these great suggestions. I think [name]Felix[/name], [name]Edmund[/name], [name]Benedict[/name], [name]Amos[/name], and [name]Theo[/name] are all fantastic companions with [name]Agatha[/name] and definitely fit the vintage-quirky yet masculine and not-too-out-there criteria. I do love [name]Lionel[/name] too, which I know someone mentioned, along with [name]Leopold[/name], though they may be more “out there” or sissified than the other choices. These may be too “out there” too, but just to offer a few more options: [name]Montgomery[/name]/[name]Monty[/name], [name]Otis[/name], [name]Romulus[/name], [name]Inigo[/name], [name]Homer[/name].

Wanted to comment on [name]Agatha[/name] being an [name]Edna[/name] name. In the nearly 20 (!!!) years since 1994, [name]Agatha[/name] has transcended dowdiness and become more chic/stylish, while I’m afraid [name]Edna[/name] herself is still back there in a faded housedress. In our original Beyond [name]Jennifer[/name] & [name]Jason[/name], which came out in 1988, we grouped [name]Agatha[/name] with the [name]Baby[/name] Men & Women names – a grownup-sounding and at the time really “out there” group. But some of those names have become positively trendy: [name]Beatrice[/name], [name]Eleanor[/name], [name]Ella[/name], [name]Eve[/name], [name]Hazel[/name], [name]Imogen[/name], [name]Madeleine[/name], [name]Natalie[/name], and for boys, [name]Gus[/name], [name]Harry[/name], [name]Joseph[/name]. Amazing!

They are thorns in our cool baby-naming sides cbuxton!

Thank you [name]Pam[/name], I love Nameberry and all the great people who take the time to offer suggestions and make comments; it really helps with the short listing process. Your suggestion of [name]Montgomery[/name]/[name]Monty[/name] is great and is one for my list I think.

Thanks for the update on the [name]Edna[/name] names, I agree that [name]Agatha[/name] has moved on, it has a real spark that [name]Edna[/name] is missing in my (biased) opinion. [name]Eleanor[/name], [name]Imogen[/name] and [name]Beatrice[/name] are all on our girls list so that is clearly my style :slight_smile:

Casting my votes for [name]Barnaby[/name], [name]Alisdair[/name] and [name]Jasper[/name]! [name]Love[/name] all those names

Thanks [name]Lauren[/name]-[name]Kay[/name] I agree [name]Jasper[/name] is great but it’s the name of my (long term) ex boyfriend so it would feel a bit weird to use it! [name]Barnaby[/name] feels a bit babyish for a man somehow but [name]Alisdair[/name] is one I hadn’t considered - will put it to DH.

[name]Louis[/name]
[name]George[/name]
[name]Roger[/name]
[name]Clarence[/name]
[name]Arthur[/name]

Well I came in to pitch support for [name]Edmund[/name] and [name]Alastair[/name] but I see they are well covered.

[name]Cyrus[/name] has already been mentioned but I do love it. It slightly edges [name]Silas[/name] for me (but I do like [name]Silas[/name]).

Is [name]Thaddeus[/name] an option? I rather like [name]Thaddeus[/name]. To me it has all the appeal of [name]Theodore[/name] without the comparative popularity, and I like [name]Thad[/name] as much as I like [name]Theo[/name] and more than [name]Ted[/name].

[name]Lemuel[/name] is one of those odd eccentric antiquities I don’t think sounds feminine. I am much fonder of it and [name]Kemuel[/name] than I am of [name]Samuel[/name]. I have known Lemuels [name]IRL[/name] it’s not just a only-on-Nameberry name, though admittedly at least two of them would be over a hundred now if they were still alive.

[name]Agatha[/name] is such a great name, it’s hard to pair up something equally unusual-but-heard of, which is a nice balance.

Speaking of classic names that are in infrequent rotation, my sister has just made an impassioned defense of [name]George[/name], which made me reevaluate it slightly, I can’t say I had ever pictured [name]George[/name] on an infant. I still prefer [name]Gideon[/name], though.