Oona is icky?

I realize [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is popular in other parts of the world but I am in the southern United States. Here popular names are like [name_f]Ava[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] or [name_f]Savannah[/name_f]. I have been having a hard time trying to name my 7th baby (2nd girl). [name_f]My[/name_f] kids names are [name_f]Felicity[/name_f], [name_m]Desmond[/name_m], [name_m]Roscoe[/name_m], [name_m]Leif[/name_m], [name_m]Enoch[/name_m], and [name_m]Hugo[/name_m]. Where I live all of the names are very unusual. [name_m]Desmond[/name_m] and [name_m]Enoch[/name_m] are the only ones I had heard on someone before. (Though I was told [name_m]Roscoe[/name_m] is a common dog name :roll_eyes:)

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I have posted a few times about various names but haven’t been in love with any. I thought I had a revelation the other day when I woke up with the name [name_f]Una[/name_f] / [name_f]Oona[/name_f] on my mind. I have no idea where I had heard it. I wasn’t sure if it was odd and clunky or I liked it. When I looked up the origin and meaning and saw in Norse it means ‘to enjoy, happy’ which ties to [name_f]Felicity[/name_f], I liked it more. And decided I loved it when I saw [name_f]Lady[/name_f] [name_f]Una[/name_f] was the man character in ‘The Faery Queen’ which I had read to my daughter, and didn’t realize the [name_m]Christian[/name_m] symbolism. Which probably explains why the name [name_f]Una[/name_f] was used for the character symbolizing the [name_m]Church[/name_m] as it means lamb in [name_f]Irish[/name_f].

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[name_m]The[/name_m] problem is everyone in my circle seems to get the ick from the name. I’ve heard ‘it doesn’t go with Felicity’, ‘It’s not my favorite’, ‘you’ve thought of better’, ‘what about ___’ all said with an initial cringe face. [name_f]So[/name_f] now I don’t know if I would be making a mistake to plow ahead with a name that most people dislike. To be fair all my kids like it, my husband is hesitant, and my closest sister was nice enough to say ‘she can see why I like it’.

I think [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is a little icky but I think [name_f]Una[/name_f] is very pretty, im not sure why the spelling difference makes the two variations so different in my mind, but id definitely go with [name_f]Una[/name_f]! it has a very classy yet fun and joyous European feel to it. im imagining it in my head with my [name_f]English[/name_f] accent but I realise it would sound quite different when said by someone with a strong southern American accent and from that perspective I can see why some people may be put off but I don’t think its that big of an issue. I think it’s one of those names that will definitely grow on people, but also one of the names you have to wait to meet your daughter to see if it fits her. the meaning is really pretty and I love the link to the meaning behind felicity. as for flowing with felicity, its not perfectly on vibe, but it doesn’t have to be! I think [name_f]Una[/name_f] goes very well with your boys’ names especially [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] and [name_m]Enoch[/name_m]! if you wanted to use a name that matches felicity a little more I think you could get away with [name_f]Tallulah[/name_f] nn [name_f]Una[/name_f]? maybe unity, [name_f]Lunetta[/name_f], Junia/Juna/June. I think [name_f]Una[/name_f] is fine by itself though. overall, if you love it, go for it! its not a wild name that will have a bad effect on your baby so all that matters is that you and your family love it, im sure shell grow into the name beautifully and then everyone will see your vision!

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I mean, perhaps biased as a [name_m]Brit[/name_m] but I think Oona/Una or even [name_f]Oonagh[/name_f] is just lovely[name_f][/name_f]. I don’t know what is so offputting about it? I love the lilting sound, the [name_f]Faerie[/name_f] [name_f]Queene[/name_f][name_f][/name_f] association, and the meaning in [name_f]Irish[/name_f] ‘lamb’ is very sweet. It also just means ‘one’ in Latin of course. [name_m]The[/name_m] Old Norse meaning[name_f][/name_f] is ‘to be satisfied/happy’.

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I like it with your kids names, yes it’s perhaps unexpected with [name_f]Felicity[/name_f] but the similar meanings bring them together. If your other names are also unusual for the area and people have got used to them, they can mind their own business and get used to [name_f]Una[/name_f] too!!

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I don’t like [name_f]Oona[/name_f]

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Double o’s [name_f][/name_f] [name_f][/name_f]- no just no

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As an American (Northeast), I love [name_f]Oona[/name_f] and I think it would fit beautifully with your children’s names.

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[name_m]Imo[/name_m], as long as you and your partner love the name then nobody else’s opinions should matter.

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I love [name_f]Oona[/name_f]! [name_f]Una[/name_f] is the first version of the name I ever encountered and it’s also lovely (U initial names are so rare there’s automatically a little sparkle when I see one) but the [name_f]Oona[/name_f] spelling is so punchy and cool. It’s literary, creative, bold, and makes me think of [name_f]Irish[/name_f] literature and green fields.

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I do see how people think it’s a departure from [name_f]Felicity[/name_f], which is a bit more extravagant, but it’s not that different and [name_f]Oona[/name_f] fits in very well with [name_m]Roscoe[/name_m], [name_m]Hugo[/name_m], and [name_m]Leif[/name_m] (amazing choices, by the way).

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I think an issue might also be your environment. I’m a theatre buff who has spent years researching my [name_f]Irish[/name_f] family history and I live in the UK, so [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is a completely normal name to me. For people who don’t have any of that, [name_f]Oona[/name_f] might just be too odd. However, it seems a lot of your names stand out. It’s really up to you how important these opinions are for you and your little one. I’m rooting for [name_f]Oona[/name_f], but I would understand if you went with something less controversial.

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I like [name_f]Una[/name_f] more than [name_f]Oona[/name_f] but it’s a pretty name!

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I think it goes well with your other children. I don’t think it has to go with just [name_f]Felicity[/name_f]. [name_f]Una[/name_f] and [name_m]Hugo[/name_m] are like a perfect pairing imo!! It fits really well stylistically with your other children.

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Also, if you named your baby [name_f]Una[/name_f], people would then associate it with this cute little baby and I think their perspective would change! I think this is why people suggest not sharing names until the baby is born, people can be mean. [name_m]You[/name_m] can name your baby whatever you want and [name_f]Una[/name_f] / [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is a completely normal and beautiful name!

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From their reaction, I’d have expected something awful tbh

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Also in the southern US—
[name_f][/name_f]I love [name_f]Oona[/name_f]! [name_m]Not[/name_m] icky at all. However, I do think spelling it [name_f]Una[/name_f] would go over better here/sound more familiar, and I would expect less raised eyebrows at [name_f]Una[/name_f] than [name_f]Oona[/name_f]. But at the end of the day, it’s your baby, so you should choose the name you love. Best of luck in your naming journey!

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Also, I love your kids’ names! They’re so vintage & lovely. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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I love [name_f]Oona[/name_f], and am not sure why it would be considered icky (and I live in the US). I prefer the [name_f]Oona[/name_f] spelling, and really enjoy [name_f]Oonagh[/name_f], too. [name_f]Una[/name_f] has never been my preferred spelling, it feels a bit lest distinct than [name_f]Oona[/name_f], I feel!

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Funnily enough, I can totally see [name_f]Oona[/name_f] with [name_f]Felicity[/name_f]. [name_m]Leif[/name_m], [name_m]Hugo[/name_m], [name_m]Enoch[/name_m], and [name_m]Roscoe[/name_m] as well. [name_m]Desmond[/name_m] would be the only one that does’t feel intuitive for me, but as a whole, I think the set works well. With the note that your husband is hesitant on her, though, maybe it’s not the one for you! I hope you find something that works and/or that your loved ones come around to sweet [name_f]Oona[/name_f]!

Oona/Una is an it girl name, she’s gorgeous! Your sibset shows you don’t want your kids to have common trendy popular names that follow[name_f][/name_f] what everyone else likes. [name_m]You[/name_m] chose names for free-thinkers! [name_f]Unique[/name_f], trend setters![name_f][/name_f] It’ll take one amazing una/oona in the area for people to fall for the name head over heels, trust me.

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Own it :blush:

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i love oona soo much and never did i think it was icky! if you love the name, go for it, ignore what your friends say because it’s truly a stunning name. in your scenario i would do una, just because it feels more familiar and your sibset feels more familiar.

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for you (or how it seems) you have a great connection to the name, it connects to your daughter’s name, connects to a book, has a great meaning, it all seems perfect! and plus lamb is such a cute meaning!

Maybe their cringing is coming more from a place of being unfamiliar with the name. I know for sure that not everyone I know has heard the name Oona/Una.

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I for one think it’s absolutely beautiful, light, airy, simple, straight to the point. I love [name_f]Oona[/name_f] in particular but both spellings are great.

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You’ll just have to decide how much these opinions matter to you. If you’re worried she won’t like her name when she’s older, don’t be. I see little to no teasing potential for [name_f]Oona[/name_f], and it doesn’t have a harsh, clunky or dated sound. If it’s your favorite and husband gets on board, I’d use it!

I guess it’s just because of cultural difference and unfamiliarity? Coming from an [name_f]Irish[/name_f] background myself, [name_f]Una[/name_f] / [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is a pretty standard name in [name_f]Ireland[/name_f] and among the [name_f]Irish[/name_f] diaspora e.g. the singer [name_f]Una[/name_f] [name_f]Healy[/name_f]. I think it’s a lovely name and people will get used to it.

Honestly, I think you’ve mastered the fact none of your kids names “go together”. They distinctively each have their own vibe and none of them [name_f][/name_f]- at least in my opinion [name_f][/name_f]- go together. I think [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is gorgeous, but I’m [name_f]Irish[/name_f] so I’m biased. I think that if you like the meaning then who cares what anyone else thinks?

I love [name_f]Oona[/name_f] (and Una)! It’s got a sweet and sparky sound, a hint of magic and mystique, a little off-beat and quirky, familiar enough (thanks to [name_f]Luna[/name_f], [name_f]Lula[/name_f], June) but somehow distinctive and intriguing, and it’s got multiple meanings/origins!

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I guess it’s the oooo sound people might find a bit of an ick? too much like eww or poo or prunes etc?

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I don’t know – maybe it’s just unfamiliar to those around you and they need to get used to it?

I would never have guessed that would be the reaction! maybe because the name is so unfamiliar in the US? I agree with others that I find Oona/Una to be sweet and distinct, and I love the meaning it has in your family

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my preferred spelling has always been Oona—something about it just feels more dreamy and mystical! however, I read [name_m]The[/name_m] Everlasting[name_f][/name_f] by [name_f]Alix[/name_f] E Harrow last year, in which the main character is named [name_f]Una[/name_f], and that book really made me appreciate the [name_f]Una[/name_f] spelling more. plus, she was an awesome character!

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I absolutely adore[name_f][/name_f] [name_f]Oona[/name_f], there is nothing icky about her to me at all! [name_f][/name_f] [name_f]Una[/name_f] feels like the Spanish word for 1, but I love the meaning of “lamb”, especially for the [name_m]Christian[/name_m] symbolism, I love the two o’s together (it feels so bubbly and fun!)! [name_f][/name_f] I think firstly of [name_f]Oona[/name_f] [name_m]Chaplin[/name_m], but there’s so much to love about [name_f]Oona[/name_f], and I think she is delightful[name_f][/name_f] with [name_f]Felicity[/name_f] and your sons! [name_f][/name_f] And even more, you sound more excited about her than you did [name_f]Mary[/name_f] and Eliza—she’s such a special name, and I would say ignore the naysayers and embrace her wholeheartedly! [name_f][/name_f] All the best!

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I am also in the [name_m]South[/name_m] and love Oona/Una! I’ve known one [name_f]Una[/name_f] here and never saw any comments. I think people always appreciate a name more once it’s on an actual person! [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is my preferred spelling, but I could see [name_f]Una[/name_f] being more convenient here. Either way it’s a lovely name!

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I second what everyone else is saying, but i just had to pop in and say that [name_f]Oona[/name_f] is an absolutely beautiful name, an I don’t see why anyone would have that reaction to it…She is both bouncy and whimsical and I just adore the look and sound. [name_f]She[/name_f] fits perfectly with your set, too!

I’m an [name_f]English[/name_f] berry with [name_f]Irish[/name_f] dad so of course I adore Una/Oona/Oonagh! I think she’s beautiful, strong, elegant, enchanting and is just stunning. I love the [name_f]Faerie[/name_f] [name_f]Queene[/name_f] association, the [name_f]Irish[/name_f] meaning lamb and Latin meaning ‘one’ along with the Old Norse meaning ‘to be satisfied/happy’ so many fabulous associations. [name_f]My[/name_f] favourite spelling is [name_f]Oona[/name_f] I love the double ‘o’ beginning such a clunky cool choice.

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To be honest your sibling set is eclectic and fun I think they work wonderfully together.

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