Which name do you prefer? My husband likes John but I prefer James in general. We like nicknames Jamie and Johnny. But not Jim or Jimmy. Our last name rhymes with Kramer so part of me is concerned James would be too many “aim” sounds. I don’t mind picking a popular name. But I do hear James ALL the time. Which also makes me second guess a bit. Hoping to convince my husband to use the middle name Theodore. So another nickname option for both could be JT.
I prefer [name_m]James[/name_m] typically, but I also love [name_m]John[/name_m] and based on your post I think I like [name_m]John[/name_m] better for y’all!
Thanks! This is about where I’m at now too.
[name_f]Love[/name_f] both and actually have multiple of each in my family! But for you, I voted for [name_m]John[/name_m] 
I love both names!
[name_f][/name_f]I have a [name_m]James[/name_m] he goes by [name_m]Jaime[/name_m].
[name_f][/name_f]I see what you mean about the “aim” in fn and last name.
[name_f][/name_f]I also love the pairing of [name_m]John[/name_m] Kramer [name_f][/name_f]— but this is the name of the older guy in the saw series who sets up games (if that matters to you).
JT is so cute. [name_f][/name_f] You could even switch or call him by his middle name if you like teddy or theo or (insert another nn for Theodore)