Pretty please, help

[i]Hello all…

I really need your help cause Iam losing my mind.

This is my full list of favorite female names. Can you please choose your top fuve and explain to me the reasons behind your pick?

[name_f]Persephone[/name_f]
Proserpine
[name_f]Iphigeneia[/name_f]
[name_f]Hera[/name_f]
Nocturne
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Virginia[/name_f]
[name_f]Eulalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ligeia[/name_f]
[name_f]Elektra[/name_f]
[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Psyche[/name_f]
[name_f]Saskia[/name_f]
Innocentia
Terpsichore
Mimi
Roxane
Penthesilia
[name_f]Andromache[/name_f]
[name_f]Pandora[/name_f]
[name_f]Kassandra[/name_f]
Melinoe

I would really appreciate if you help me. Thanks :)[/i]

Out of those, I think my top fave would have to be [name_f]Annabel[/name_f]. I think it sounds pretty and not-too-common without trying too hard. I also love the -bel spelling as opposed to -belle. (Also I’m a sucker for literary names, and this one reminds me of [name_f]Annabel[/name_f] [name_u]Lee[/name_u].) There were actually a lot of names on your list that I like, so here is a bit more explanation:

[name_f]Persephone[/name_f]: I totally dig [name_f]Persephone[/name_f] as a goddess, but I think Nameberry has burned me out on this name. I feel like I see it everywhere on here. Plus, there’s a lot of people who are under the impression it’s pronounced Purse-phone, and not [name_m]Per[/name_m]-sef-on-ee. Naming your kid after the queen of the underworld is pretty cool, but being called Purse-phone isn’t.
[name_f]Iphigeneia[/name_f]: This name is one I stumbled across recently. I like it, it’s fun to say, but I just don’t love it for some reason. I have no real complaints; if I met a kid with this name, I would certainly think it was unique.
[name_f]Hera[/name_f]: I think this is a pretty name, it’s one of my top choices after [name_f]Annabel[/name_f]. The only thing I can see that might be wrong with it is that [name_f]Hera[/name_f] was super spiteful. People might bring that up all the mean things goddess [name_f]Hera[/name_f] did. (I also prefer it pronounced Heer-uh, even though I know that Hehr-uh is correct. [name_m]Don[/name_m]'t ask me why.)
Nocturne: This one feels a little bit like it’s trying too hard. I like the musical connotations, and I usually love names that mean night/darkness/etc. I could see it as a middle name, but as a first it just feels really heavy.
[name_f]Virginia[/name_f]: Eh. Never really liked this name personally.
[name_f]Eulalie[/name_f]: Fun to say, but it’s not something I’d take very seriously as a name.
[name_f]Ligeia[/name_f]: This one just sounds really awkward to me. It doesn’t sound very wearable.
[name_f]Elektra[/name_f]: My mind immediately goes to [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] [name_f]Electra[/name_f]. I feel like this could be a superhero name, and not a baby name.
[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f]: This is another one of my top faves from your list. It’s pretty and not overused.
[name_f]Psyche[/name_f]: A guilty pleasure name for me. I feel like this name would be too associated with the word psyche, and not the goddess.
[name_f]Saskia[/name_f]: This name is alright. It’s simple and pretty.
Innocentia: Not a fan of this one. I don’t know why I dislike it so; it’s a combination of it sounding strange to me, and I don’t like how strong the [name_m]Innocent[/name_m] part of it is.
Terpsichore: For some reason the Ter- beginning reminds me of turtles, or turpentine. Again, kind of a heavy name and really hard to grow into.
Penthesilia: This name sounds like a medication or a disease to me.
[name_f]Andromache[/name_f]: Kind of hard to grow into and not something I can imagine a child being named.
[name_f]Pandora[/name_f]: This one’s cute. I don’t know if I could imagine a grown woman with this name, but I like that [name_f]Dora[/name_f] and [name_m]Pan[/name_m] are easy nicknames.
[name_f]Kassandra[/name_f]: I’m used to the [name_f]Cassandra[/name_f] spelling, but I like this name.
Melinoe: Reminds me of melanoma.

@vestigesofsummer: thank you very much for your help. I have the same problem with [name_f]Persephone[/name_f]. [name_f]Do[/name_f] you think Proserpine is better? I lov the connection with the [name_m]Dante[/name_m] [name_m]Gabriel[/name_m] Rosetti’s painting and the nicknames [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] and [name_f]Nina[/name_f] but I have got very negative answers with this one. What do you think?

Anyone else?

[name_f]Saskia[/name_f]
[name_f]Elektra[/name_f]
[name_f]Kassandra[/name_f]-I like the K with the traditional sounding name. It gives [name_f]Cassandra[/name_f] energy and individuality.
[name_f]Persephone[/name_f]- I loved this name for years until I found out the meaning but if that doesn’t bother you then this name is a wealth of nn possibilities and lots of quirky features. *

I think I picked these out particularly because they are mostly uncommon but familiar. It is a perfect balance. I feel that it might be hard for eg. an Innocentia not to despise her name in this day and age. It might be a little hard to live with (can you imagine trying to introduce yourself with the name [name_f]Psyche[/name_f]?). I would move these types of names to mn only.

[name_f]Annabel[/name_f], [name_f]Mimi[/name_f], [name_f]Roxane[/name_f] and [name_f]Virginia[/name_f] are perfectly okay names but I don’t feel they fit with your list (some are too dated and some too ‘ordinary’.

*and I know I can’t count. I couldn’t pick out a fifth favourite although there were others that I liked.

I like [name_f]Annabel[/name_f] and [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f]. They are literary without being over the top.

Most of the other names are not my style.

[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Mimi[/name_f]
[name_f]Roxanne[/name_f]
[name_f]Virginia[/name_f]
[name_f]Kassandra[/name_f]

Because they sound like “normal” names. I would personally never use a really out there name

[name_f]Persephone[/name_f] - I think this sounds really cool in English and I assume that it sounds similar in Greek
Proserpine - I have no clue how to pronounce this but it looks so cool and quirky, yet soft and romantic at the same time!
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f] - something a bit more ‘plain’ perhaps but effective
[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f] - stunning, took me a while to love but then I wondered why I didn’t since it combines everything I love in one name
[name_f]Kassandra[/name_f] - edgy yet feminine
Melinoe - I love these kinds of names and I wish there were more of them!

[name_f]Hera[/name_f] - I love the simplicity of it but it’s still a very strong name. Brave sounding.

[name_f]Annabel[/name_f] - Not a huge fan of this spelling but I love the name. I love all [name_f]Anna[/name_f]/[name_f]Annie[/name_f] nicknames.

[name_f]Virginia[/name_f] - Lot’s of nickname potential, beautiful name with history behind it. I like [name_f]Ginny[/name_f] a lot.

[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f] - [name_m]Just[/name_m] a beautiful classic name, it’s gorgeous.

I love [name_f]Persephone[/name_f], [name_f]Saskia[/name_f] & [name_f]Cassandra[/name_f]. They are beautiful, wearable, and pronounce-able.

You and I have very different naming styles haha… but some feedback is better than none, right?

[name_f]Saskia[/name_f] is my favorite. I know it’s not Russian but it sounds Russian to me and despite having no connection to the country or culture whatsoever, I seem to love most Russian names. I also tend prefer names that end in “a”, though that is not intentional on my part. Great name and I wish I could use it.

[name_f]Virginia[/name_f] is my second favorite. I think this is an unappreciated gem! The fact that it means virgin and has the word virgin in it doesn’t both me in the slightest. It’s a classic but you never hear it anymore. Plus, [name_f]Virginia[/name_f] the state is a wonderful place, with deep historical roots, southern charm, and a lot of beautiful, untouched land to explore and enjoy. Nickname [name_f]Ginny[/name_f] is awesome bonus points.

[name_f]Hera[/name_f]. This one is iffy for me. I like the sound better than most of your other options (there’s that ‘a’ again) but the connection with the goddess is a turn-off because imo [name_f]Hera[/name_f] was one of the least likable of the Greek pantheon! I don’t remember much but she always seemed to be bitter and jealous of [name_m]Zeus[/name_m]’ philandering and never really had a cool story? Similar in style and theme, I prefer the name [name_u]Hero[/name_u] x 100.

I don’t really like any of the other options, sorry. Good luck narrowing your list down!

[name_f]Saskia[/name_f] - so, so sweet! [name_u]Unique[/name_u] with a charming sound.
[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f] - Familiar and unique
[name_f]Eulalia[/name_f] (more than [name_f]Eulalie[/name_f]) - Different, super sweet, nice rolling sound.
[name_f]Roxane[/name_f] - I love the nickname [name_f]Roxy[/name_f]. I’ve considered ‘[name_f]Roxana[/name_f]’ myself
[name_f]Hera[/name_f] - This is a strong female. I like it.

Thank you all very much for your help :slight_smile: