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Sorry for the constant posts, I’ve been stuck at home with kidney stones :sweat_smile:

Please Rate my top 5 fem names. These are all honors for me so I have trouble deciding which I like more.

Lila - One of my mom’s best friends when I was young. Also a nod to my aunt laur.a, who I called Lala. :notes: Reminds me of lilacs in the spring. :lotus:

Nora - An honor for my foster mom Elinor. Also a name of my dp’s ex, but I don’t think you can own such an internally popular name :woman_shrugging:t2:. Reminds me of paper lanterns and the color gold. :izakaya_lantern:

Flora - Another foster parent honor :sweat_smile: Flora is such a sweet and mystical name, however, I had a hard time seeing it on a young person. Until I rewatched some winx club episodes :fairy:t5:

EsmĂ© - This is the only name in my top 5 that isn’t a direct honor, but my name is Be.atriz, which means beloved as well :heart_eyes: A charming underused classic. :gem:

Elodie - For my aunt melani.e. I worry about Alodia being the patron saint of child abuse, especially with my past it feels like that could be bad luck, even tho it is a diminutive. But the melodious sound and meaning “foreign riches” I think make up for it. This makes me think of ballet :ballet_shoes: and mud pies :pie: :woman_farmer:

Thanks!!
-Bee :yellow_heart:

BTW: B3atriz does not mean beloved. It means “she who brings happiness”, which is still a cool meaning

In order:

For me
[name_f]Nora[/name_f] - [name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lila[/name_f] - [name_u]Esmé[/name_u]

For you
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_u]Esmé[/name_u]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]

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[name_f]Lila[/name_f] - I’m not usually a Lila/Layla/Lola etc fan, I think they sound a little babyish, BUT having said that I love the meaning behind this name for you so I’ll give it 6/10

[name_f]Nora[/name_f] - I agree, nobody owns [name_f]Elinor[/name_f] and it sounds like your personal connection is an important one. Also, [name_f]Nora[/name_f] is adorably vintage and wearable at any age. 8/10

[name_f]Flora[/name_f] - I feel like I’ve been waxing lyrical about [name_f]Flora[/name_f] a lot recently, I love her and think she’s mischievously sweet on a young girl. Again, excellent vintage vibes but not clunky, she feels fresh and timeless. 9/10

[name_u]Esmé[/name_u] - goes super well with your name! Such a pretty and underrated gem. 7/10

[name_f]Elodie[/name_f] - oh wow I like [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] a lot but I don’t love the connection you pointed out. [name_m]Even[/name_m] as a name person that’s new to me, so I don’t think most people would associate with that, but if it would bother you then I would avoid it. Otherwise a very pretty balletic name. For just the name itself, 7/10

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hope you feel better soon!

Out of 10:

[name_f]Lila[/name_f] - 7.5 (bright, charming and zippy - I like the lilac feel)

[name_f]Nora[/name_f] - 7 (vintage and charming, with quiet strength)

[name_f]Flora[/name_f] - 9 (bright, strong and elegant)

[name_u]Esme[/name_u] - 8 (stylish with a distinctive sound and sweet meaning)

[name_f]Elodie[/name_f] - 9 (love this name, melodic, beautiful and warm. )

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lila - 8.5/10 - i love the sound and vibes of lila, and her meaning for you!
nora - 5/10 - really not for me but i think she goes well with your other favourites
flora - 6.5/10 - i can’t get over the ‘floor’ sound for me, but i’d love to see others use her!
esme - 7/10 - i agree with your assessment of her as charming + she feels versatile and sparkly
elodie - 8/10 - i love elodie, such a pretty sound!

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Gosh as someone who suffers from reoccurring kidney stones they suck and I hope you make a feel better soon :pray:t4:

Lila ~ bright happy name that has a jazzy vibe I lift it’s someone who plays the saxophone in a popular jazz club that wears bright coloured clothes and has a gorgeous cloud of Afro hair around her face.

Nora ~ massively grown on me I think she’s a sweet vintage choice that feels bright and playful. Nora gives off cottagecore vibes my only hang up is the association with the ex partner personally I wouldn’t use a name associated with my partners ex. Still that’s personal preference if you’re cool with it then that’s fine! I think I would not Elinor by going Leonora or Eleanora.

Flora ~ adore Flora!!! She’s so sweet, youthful, has tons of springtime imagery and feels refreshing, I met a Flora the other day and had a complete namenerd moment she’s truly beautiful.

Esme ~ another gorgeous name! Esme is pretty, feminine, has a gorgeous meaning ‘beloved’ and looks so attractive. I wanted to point that your name means ‘she who brings happiness’ so not the same but they are both lovely meanings.

Elodie ~ I really like this name and I always thought that St Alodia is the patron saint of runaways – children who have lost all hope of discovering a path to the future. The meaning associated with St. Alodia is “great power; great courage. In my opinion it was a Saint that protected children so I always interpreted the saint positively. Rather than a negative association with child abuse. However if that is the case it too would make me hesitant to use the name. I really like Elodie she’s elegant, melodic and has a pretty European flair. But like you I’m not feeling about iffy about this child abuse association.

My favourites are Esme + Flora :tulip:

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Just replying with my impressions on name, without taking into account your attachments/ honours.

Lila - I like this name but perhaps it’s a little too lean and “pretty girl” for me. I would probably go Lara, Lillia, or even a hyphenated, like Lila-Rose. Having said that, if you’re a cool person, Lila is cool; if you’re not, it’s feels a bit too cutesy if that makes sense. 6.5/10

Nora - it’s such a smart, reliable, bookish girl name! I would probably use it as a nickname for another name but it’s a name for all ages / contexts. Nora’s get things done. 8/10

Flora - a posh girl name to me, which isn’t good or bad, just the association. I really like it! It’s a fun, attractive, and romantic name. 8.5/10

Esme(e) - I’m really liking this name - which is funny because I didn’t growing up (it was my great aunt’s name). I’m also liking Idamae (someone on here posted it) and Ismay. They seem a little fresher to me. Either way, Esme seems arty, self-reliant and alluring. 7.5/10

Elodie - I didn’t use to like this name but it’s hot on here these days so I’m coming around. It’s very sprightly and inviting - especially if it’s said with French pace. 7/10

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[name_u]Esmé[/name_u] - always loved that one! Sounds like milk with honey. Sweet, warm and kind sounding name.

[name_f]Lila[/name_f] - love the thought of lilacs :blush: I like it’s pretty! I’m even thinking ‘Lilac’ would be sweet.

[name_f]Nora[/name_f] - I personally prefer Elinor/ [name_f]Eleanore[/name_f] etc, but [name_f]Nora[/name_f] is very sweet :blush::sunny:

[name_f]Flora[/name_f] - would be my top fave together with [name_f]Elodie[/name_f], but I’m thinking what if someone would think it sounds like to word ‘floor’. Florabel and Florabeth are in my top 10 faves, but I keep thinking about this ®floor’ thing myself. But yes, it’s beautiful!!!

[name_f]Elodie[/name_f] - That association ruins it completely for me! I’m incredibly sorry to hear about your associations. :sob: I def wouldn’t use it, if it makes you even think about it. But it sounds perhaps the prettiest of them all
 Perhaps [name_f]Melody[/name_f]? [name_f]Melodie[/name_f]? [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] sounds gorgeous
 [name_f]Alodia[/name_f] is not that similar to me, but yeah


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In order of preference:
[name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_u]Esme[/name_u]

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@heartwings that must have been a language miscommunication with the person who told me that! Oops :sweat_smile: still pretty ntl :smiling_face:

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Thank you! This is only the second time I’ve ever had them and I have no idea how you deal with this chronically :worried::worried:

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This is what I thought too!! Alot like Mary and Mara, I think it’s open to interpretation and theological thought :sweat_smile:

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Lila-- 7/10: I think it is pretty, classic, and well known, and works on any age. However, I do think it has been a bit overused at this point.
Nora-- 6/10: I don’t mind this name, but I find it a bit underwhelming and bland. I think it would be a very nice nickname for [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] though.
Flora-- 9/10: I think this is such a pretty, underused name that would sound both charmingly old fashioned, and stylish today. I think its meaning is very nice, and it brings to mind flower fields and cottage-core theme.
Esme-- 5/10: It isn’t ugly, and sounds sophisticated and classy, but I don’t particularly like the “Ezz” sound, and it also sounds kind of
 stuck up? I can’t help associating it with [name_u]Esme[/name_u] Squalor from Unfortunate Events, but since that is the only place I’ve come across it, it might be an unfair association.
Elodie-- 6.5/10: I do think the sound of it is pretty, and is kind of whimsical and fairyish. However, it is very uncommon and might get mispronounced.

Gosh they are so horrible honestly so I feel your pain I hope you recover soon I always end up having surgery it’s a bit exhausting! [name_f]Hope[/name_f] you feel better soon and I hope you don’t ever suffer them again :blue_heart:

Regarding St [name_f]Alodia[/name_f] I think it’s up to how you interpret the saint and if you do have concerns then I wouldn’t use the name. Personally I see the saint in a different light so it’s up to you and your viewpoint.

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feel better soon!


in order of my favourite to least favourite:

[name_f]Flora[/name_f] - I think the “Fl-” makes [name_f]Flora[/name_f] sound so elegant! I also love the meaning, being a nature lover.

[name_f]Elodie[/name_f] - a beautiful [name_u]French[/name_u] name. I don’t think many people (if any) would make the [name_f]Alodia[/name_f] connection, I’ve loved the name [name_f]Elodie[/name_f] for ages and had no idea about it!

[name_u]EsmĂ©[/name_u] - I do love the meaning, I like this name but probably wouldn’t use it as it gives me “snooty” vibes.

[name_f]Lila[/name_f] - this name seems a bit childish to me, not sure why
 I do much prefer the spelling [name_f]Lyla[/name_f]!

[name_f]Nora[/name_f] - too old-fashioned for my liking. I know it’s popular in the US right now but I honestly can’t imagine it on a kid.

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[name_f]Lila[/name_f] - 6/10, I like it, but its not my favorite
[name_f]Nora[/name_f] - 7/10, I’ve been loving [name_f]Nora[/name_f] recently, but its common where I live so I would never use it
[name_f]Flora[/name_f] - 6/10, like as a nickname for [name_u]Florence[/name_u], but would never use it
[name_u]Esme[/name_u] - 4/10, cute, but bad associations and would never use
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f] - 8/10, I love [name_f]El[/name_f]- names and this is def a cute one!

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[name_f]Lila[/name_f] 8 , it has sentimental value to me, I like it both spelled Lie-la and Lee-la.
[name_f]Flora[/name_f] 8, it makes me think of a beautiful young girl in the 20s.
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f]: 7. It’s a nice, elegant name, especially if pronounced in the [name_u]French[/name_u] way, but I do not like it particularly.
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]: 6, it loses a lot in comparison to [name_f]Elinor[/name_f] imo
EsmĂš: 6. Not my cup of tea

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