Typically, I would vote for [name_f]Autumn[/name_f]. I love the sound, it has a good meaning, it’s feminine, bright and energetic. [name_f]Autumn[/name_f] makes me imagine beautiful colors everywhere. It makes me think about nature, music and dancing. It feels warm, gentle and romantic.
However, I believe [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is PERFECT for you! Your description of [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is magical and so special. Your list of pros and cons about [name_f]Autumn[/name_f] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] shows clearly which name is your dream choice. I love the story, all connections and the reasons why you want to use [name_f]Daphne[/name_f]! It is a stunning name. [name_u]Strong[/name_u], with a distinct sound and a lovely meaning. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is a stunning traditional, elegant and memorable name. [name_u]An[/name_u] underused gem! Curiously, [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] also makes me think about warm autumnal colours like red, brown, yellow and orange.
Between [name_f]Autumn[/name_f] [name_u]Willow[/name_u] and [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] [name_u]Willow[/name_u], I also prefer [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] [name_u]Willow[/name_u] to avoid two word names together.
You may also like [name_f]Willa[/name_f], [name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f], [name_f]Winifred[/name_f], [name_f]Winnie[/name_f], [name_u]Winter[/name_u], [name_f]Wisteria[/name_f] or [name_u]Wren[/name_u].
Follow your heart! Best of luck.