My boyfriend(23) and I(17) have been dating one year and I’m currently seven months pregnant with my son [name]Kyle[/name] [name]Desmond[/name]. My boyfriend and I used to get high and drink like all the other kids, but we slowed down once I became pregnant. I became full sober and happy about it and I plan on staying this way for the rest of my life. My boyfriend however, started drinking again and is starting to smoke cigarettes!!! I tell him he’s not a good influance on me and that I don’t want our son seeing him drink/smoke. (Watching my parents when I was younger is how I started.) My boyfriend has a friend whom he used to live with, his bestfriend’s ex-wife. She is 21 and acts like an immature teen, going bar hopping, talking rough and tough, and is influances my boyfriend to share these acts with her. He knows I dissaprove of her, ALOT, and he promised to stay away from here. I started hearing his phone go off so much more lately, so I was just a little curious and had to take a look. [name]Kiara[/name] and him were always making plans to go drink at bars with other friends and such. No there is no sexual contact between them, for she is a ‘big’ female and not his type, so no worries about that. But he keeps hiding her from me, I confronted him several (three or four) times about my discovering of her, he says he’s sorry and that he loves me and he will stop. [name]Every[/name] time he gains a little bit of my trust back, I find out they keep getting trashed together!! His birthday was last night so I let him go out and enjoy himself with his older brother. He had a spending limit and a time to be home (I’m pregnant, and very tired, he doesn’t have a key to the house yet so I have to stay up waiting for him. Also it’s hard to sleep alone now…) He was gone six hours, completely wasted, spend twice his limit, and said a random guy was buying him shots. I knew this is all lies, but he was throwing up every where and felt small pity, so I took him in. I’m trying to stay stress free by no longer thinking about him and her for the sake of my son and I. But as of this morning, I was cleaning the bedroom from his drunken mess, and found receipts from his debit card saying he was buying the shots and I checked his cell phone to see he and her were calling/texting all night, that they met up and all this crud… I’ve lost all trust and I’m sadly loosing love.
Also, he never cooks or cleans, I’m not sure he knows how. And being seven months pregnant, I can go longer bend and the stress is making me 15 pounds under weight… Should I kick him out and become a single mom??