Hey berries! So, it has almost been a month since I had my twins [name]Indiana[/name] and [name]Bentley[/name]! I was so excited but now I kind of want another baby at the same age. I am asking you guys for your opinion!!! 
You have month-old twins and 5 other children, and you want to get pregnant? Youâre either insane or this is fake.
Wow what rude responses.
Its a personal decision. If you have the means and the desire, go for it. Personally I would wait. I think your body really needs a year to recover, especially after having twins.
Not really, since I strongly suspect this is a fake account. Thereâs been a rash of these lately, women who claim to have a bunch of kids, and who all call themselves âwifeyâ and list their BFFs and such in their signatures and generally sound like theyâre 14-year-olds playing dress-up. Pretty sure itâs all the same girl, since every time one of them is called out they stop posting and a new one appears.
I think youâre highly underestimating the intelligence of a 14-year-old. Sounds much more like a 10-year-old to me.
I agree with the others. To even consider having another baby now is madness, especially after twins. If you are real, you need to let your body recover from the trauma of a multiple birth. [name]Even[/name] considering another child now would be absolute madness.
Edited to add: You posted a thread on April 21st saying your twins were born April 20th. That makes them three weeks old. Wow.
Quality over quantity please. Focus on loving and raising the ones you have. If youâre a troll⌠youâre dumb.
I seriously doubt this user is real.
I doubt this is a real scenario but rather a âtrollâ. I do want to stick up for large families though. Thereâs nothing wrong with having many children if that is what you and your husband want.
YES - You should definitely TTC #8 right now as a 25 yr old mother who is just two weeks post partum (sorry, but your twins are NOT a month old- [name]April[/name] 20th was 2 weeks ago). Likely your postpartum bleeding, which normally lasts 4-6 weeks for most people, is long gone for you and youâre highly fertile now!! [name]Hope[/name] you get pregnant real soon. If not, you can always adopt! I bet you can even find a baby who was born on [name]April[/name] 20th just like your twins. You should have him or her home in a matter of days. Keep us posted!
Iâll have to respectfully disagree with that. I think there are many, many things that will destroy the planet before overpopulation will. I believe a couple should be entitled to have as many children as they can manage, so long as they are financially, physically, and emotionally stable enough to do so.
Crunchymama, your post made me laugh. Thank you for brightening up what has been a pretty miserable day!
you are welcome
I agree with strawberry. overpopulation is not our biggest problem in this world and itâs not even a real issue in the United States where the birth rate is declining each year. Almost every large family I know is very environmentally responsible in that they tend to use more natural products, used items (instead of buying everything new), travel less/less carbon emissions, grow their own veggies (even if a small garden/quanity- or support local farmers), etc. I also do not know of any large families by choice (those couples who responsibly decide to increase their family not people who are faced with unexpected pregnancies, multiple baby daddies, etc) on welfare or using any public aid except maybe WIC, which many many people are eligible for and use even families with just one child.
Many people here know Iâm a huge adoption advocate, but itâs not for everyone. Itâs very time consuming, expensive, and intrusive (you must open your home and every aspect of your lives to social services so they can inspect you and approve you). Itâs not an option everyone can pursue. Itâs not as easy as most people think either. Iâm glad there are many restrictions and steps in place to help make the best decisions for the children involved, but the procedures often donât favor the adoptive family at all.
Crunchymama⌠I freaking love you. 
[name]Don[/name]'t have another child yet. Wait a year or so, get used to the idea of the children you have!
[name]Answer[/name]: NO.
I am VERY used to trolls, being a 13-year old who goes on sites FULL of other teenagers that love to do things similar to this, so my best guess is that this is one. Once they are called out, they almost always stop posting, which is probably why they havenât responded to these messages.
Also, this sounds like an 8-10 year old to me. Most people in my grade have a much higher intelligence level and are beyond the point they want to play âfamilyâ.
âI WAS so excited but now I want another oneâ. Good to hear you at least loved your kids for a couple days. Guess thatâs what motherhood is all about.
LOL if this person was real my honest response would be to seek medical attention for mental health because if all you can think about is getting pregnant immediately after birth I suspect psychological issues. [name]Love[/name] the children you have this is not an episode of baby hoarders.
Iâm 15. I wasnât like this when I was 14. I would say ages 8-11. No older than 12.
Anyway, (mom4) whoever you are, you are welcome to post opinions for names and develop lists on this site and we would be happy to help you out. As you can tell, Nameberryâs got loads of teenagers and kids :), but people really donât like being lied to so just be honest (unless you or your parents feel it would jeopardise your online security, in which case leave it out but donât make anything up.)
If you want to ask questions in the Momberries section about twins or kids for future reference then you are allowed to do so regardless of age, Iâm sure the posters here who are mothers/fathers would be happy to answer any questions or share experiences about parenthood, birth, adoption, families, etc. as long as youâre honest in return. You ARE allowed to post âWell, Iâm only [10 years old / a kid / a teenager / whatever] but I was wondering if you have experiencedâŚâ. Itâs absolutely fine.
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