Sibling name help

Our first daughter’s name is:

Ell0ry Elizab3th (honor name) Jünglyn (Korean heritage middle name) and long last name starting with “Cone” and ending with X

As we think about future siblings, I’m finding it tricky to match the uniqueness of our daughter’s name while looking at names still on our list. I love gender neutral and surname names, especially for girls, as well as Biblical names. My husband leans more toward traditional names typically. Open to all suggestions! Here are some favorites/current ideas below:

Girls - Addison, Hollis, Margot (it’s getting a little trendy for my taste though), Rowan. Husband loves Adelaide/Ada and Addy nickname.

Girl middle ideas: Mariette (honor name), Grace, Joy, Eden, Ezer, Ever

Boys: Luke, Shepherd, Leland, Keller, Wells, Lowen
(Truly, our favorite boys name is Luke - would that be too mis-matched with our daughter?)

Boy middle ideas: Wilson (honor), John (honor), Jude - open to all other suggestions

Hollis Mariette
Rowan Everly
Adelaide (Addison?) Ezer
Margot Eden

Leland Jude
Shepherd Luke
Keller John
Wells Shepherd

[name_u]Love[/name_u] [name_u]Hollis[/name_u] [name_f]Mariette[/name_f] with your daughter’s name! Both surname-y first names with more familiar counterparts (a multitude of [name_f]El[/name_f]- names, Holly) and a more feminine middle name. I also like the symmetry of the double ‘l’ without excessive matchiness. In truth, I actually think they all fit well for different reasons. [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f] [name_u]Ezer[/name_u] is a particularly unexpected combo (in a good way) and almost the reverse style of EE. [name_f]Margot[/name_f] is definitely having a moment right now, and I expect that trend to continue for at least a few more years. [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] fits well, but also slightly on the trendy side for both boys and girls. [name_u]Addison[/name_u] is almost a bit past its prime these days; I much prefer [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f].

For boys, I think [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m] [name_m]Luke[/name_m] is a great choice. [name_m]Luke[/name_m] itself would fit just fine, especially since it’s almost expected that people have different styles for boy and girl names. I especially like it with a more surname-y middle – [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m], [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_u]Leland[/name_u] (fun alliteration). I’d just avoid [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_u]Wilson[/name_u] as he’s a fairly well-known actor (and [name_u]Owen[/name_u] Wilson’s brother!) [name_u]Keller[/name_u] and [name_m]Wells[/name_m] are bit too close to your daughter’s name for me. Not unusable, but an easy tool for elimination. [name_u]Leland[/name_u] brings a bit of vintage to your sibling set though it’s a bit ‘d’ heavy with [name_u]Jude[/name_u]. [name_u]Lowen[/name_u] is also a cool choice, though paired with your daughter it’s almost like you split up the name [name_f]Elowen[/name_f].

Suggestions:

[name_u]Adair[/name_u], [name_u]Arden[/name_u], [name_u]Alden[/name_u] (could maybe still get [name_f]Addy[/name_f] at a stretch?)
[name_u]Linden[/name_u]
[name_u]Briar[/name_u]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u]
[name_u]Aspen[/name_u]
[name_u]Blair[/name_u]
[name_u]Greer[/name_u]
[name_u]Marin[/name_u], [name_f]Maren[/name_f]
[name_u]Fallon[/name_u]
[name_f]Mavis[/name_f]
[name_u]Flannery[/name_u]
[name_f]Carys[/name_f]
[name_u]Navy[/name_u]
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f]
[name_f]Mabel[/name_f], [name_f]Maple[/name_f]
[name_f]Ingrid[/name_f] (nn Indie?)
[name_u]Wren[/name_u]
[name_u]Harlow[/name_u]
[name_u]Sage[/name_u]
[name_u]Piper[/name_u]
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f]

[name_m]Caleb[/name_m]
[name_m]Isaac[/name_m]
[name_m]Ford[/name_m], [name_m]Ashford[/name_m]
[name_m]Booker[/name_m]
[name_u]Forest[/name_u]
[name_u]Wilder[/name_u]
[name_u]Gable[/name_u]
[name_m]Hart[/name_m]
[name_u]Sullivan[/name_u]
[name_u]Montgomery[/name_u]
[name_m]Orson[/name_m]
[name_u]Monroe[/name_u]
[name_u]Lyle[/name_u]
[name_u]Clancy[/name_u]
[name_m]Linus[/name_m]
[name_u]Alden[/name_u]
[name_u]Linden[/name_u]
[name_m]Warren[/name_m]
[name_m]Lachlan[/name_m]
[name_m]Ross[/name_m]
[name_u]Perrin[/name_u], [name_u]Perry[/name_u]
[name_u]Rhodes[/name_u]
[name_u]Merritt[/name_u] (could be an honor for Mariette?)
[name_m]Truett[/name_m]
Brannoc
[name_m]Conall[/name_m]
[name_m]Ossian[/name_m]
[name_m]Lorcan[/name_m]

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This is so helpful! Thanks for the time to reply and share suggestions!

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[name_f]My[/name_f] favorite choices for you are [name_u]Hollis[/name_u], [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m], and [name_m]Wells[/name_m]!

Other ideas with Ell0ry…
[name_f]Anniston[/name_f]
[name_u]Arden[/name_u]
[name_u]Aspen[/name_u]
[name_u]Auden[/name_u]
[name_u]Blair[/name_u]
[name_u]Billie[/name_u]
[name_f]Birdie[/name_f]
[name_f]Brynn[/name_f]
[name_u]Cleo[/name_u]
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f]
[name_u]Clarke[/name_u]
[name_u]Collins[/name_u]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_u]Drew[/name_u]
[name_u]Delaney[/name_u]
[name_u]Finley[/name_u]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f]
[name_u]Frankie[/name_u]
[name_u]Greer[/name_u]
[name_u]Harlow[/name_u]
[name_u]Henley[/name_u]
[name_u]Holland[/name_u]
[name_f]Hattie[/name_f]
[name_u]Haven[/name_u]
[name_u]Indie[/name_u]
[name_u]Juniper[/name_u]
[name_u]Juno[/name_u]
[name_u]Kit[/name_u]
[name_u]Lennox[/name_u]
[name_u]Lennon[/name_u]
[name_f]Luella[/name_f]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]
[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]
[name_u]Lux[/name_u]
[name_u]Marlowe[/name_u]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_u]Monroe[/name_u]
[name_u]Murphy[/name_u]
[name_u]Merrit[/name_u]
[name_f]Maeve[/name_f]
[name_u]Noa[/name_u]
[name_u]Navy[/name_u]
[name_f]Opal[/name_f]
[name_u]Oakley[/name_u]
[name_u]Piper[/name_u]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f]
[name_u]Quincy[/name_u]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_u]Rue[/name_u]
[name_u]Reese[/name_u]
Remi/Remington
[name_u]Romy[/name_u]
[name_u]Romilly[/name_u]
[name_u]Rory[/name_u]
[name_u]Ripley[/name_u]
[name_u]Sage[/name_u]
[name_u]Sailor[/name_u]
[name_u]Sloane[/name_u]
[name_u]True[/name_u]
[name_u]Winslow[/name_u] “Winnie”
[name_u]Winter[/name_u]
[name_u]Wren[/name_u]
[name_u]Waverly[/name_u]

[name_u]Abbott[/name_u]
[name_u]Adler[/name_u]
[name_u]Anderson[/name_u]
[name_u]Ashton[/name_u]
[name_u]Barrett[/name_u]
[name_u]Blaine[/name_u]
[name_u]Bridger[/name_u]
[name_u]Callahan[/name_u]
[name_u]Calloway[/name_u]
[name_u]Chandler[/name_u]
[name_u]Clancy[/name_u]
[name_m]Coleman[/name_m]
[name_u]Dayton[/name_u]
[name_m]Duncan[/name_m]
[name_u]Finnegan[/name_u]
[name_m]Fletcher[/name_m]
[name_u]Forest[/name_u]
[name_m]Foster[/name_m]
[name_m]Ford[/name_m]
[name_u]Grady[/name_u]
[name_u]Griffin[/name_u]
[name_u]Hartley[/name_u]
[name_u]Hendrix[/name_u]
[name_u]Huxley[/name_u]
[name_u]Hayes[/name_u]
[name_u]Jennings[/name_u]
[name_u]Jensen[/name_u]
[name_m]Jones[/name_m]
[name_u]Lennox[/name_u]
[name_u]Lennon[/name_u]
[name_u]Mercer[/name_u]
[name_u]Miller[/name_u]
[name_u]Merritt[/name_u]
[name_u]Monroe[/name_u]
[name_u]Murphy[/name_u]
[name_u]Porter[/name_u]
[name_u]Quincy[/name_u]
[name_u]Quentin[/name_u]
[name_u]Remington[/name_u]
[name_u]Ridley[/name_u]
[name_u]Rhodes[/name_u]
[name_u]Schuyler[/name_u]
[name_u]Sullivan[/name_u]
[name_m]Truman[/name_m]
[name_m]Truett[/name_m]

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You have some great ideas so far!

I like [name_u]Hollis[/name_u] Marriette, [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] [name_u]Everly[/name_u] and [name_f]Margot[/name_f] [name_u]Eden[/name_u] - they feel nicely balanced!
[name_m]Shepherd[/name_m] [name_m]Luke[/name_m] and [name_m]Wells[/name_m] [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m] are brilliant!

In terms of [name_m]Luke[/name_m], I don’t think it’s too at odds with your daughter’s - I think the [name_f]El[/name_f]- start makes it feel familiar despite its uniqueness, so they don’t sound outlandish together. You could do a bolder middle - like [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_m]Shepherd[/name_m], [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_u]Willoughby[/name_u], [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_u]Leander[/name_u], [name_m]Luke[/name_m] [name_u]Marlowe[/name_u]

Some ideas for you:

[name_u]Delaney[/name_u]
[name_u]Madigan[/name_u]
[name_u]Auden[/name_u]
[name_u]Adair[/name_u]
[name_u]Marlowe[/name_u]
[name_u]Kerrigan[/name_u]
[name_u]Merritt[/name_u]
[name_f]Cosette[/name_f]
[name_u]Indigo[/name_u]
[name_u]Clarke[/name_u]
[name_u]Adley[/name_u]
[name_u]Shiloh[/name_u]
[name_f]Leonor[/name_f]

[name_m]Jonty[/name_m]
[name_m]Abner[/name_m]
[name_m]Colson[/name_m]
[name_u]Monty[/name_u]
[name_u]Rudy[/name_u]
[name_m]Lachlan[/name_m]
[name_m]Locke[/name_m]
[name_m]Orson[/name_m]
[name_m]Reeves[/name_m]
[name_m]Wells[/name_m]

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Great choices. He have you thought about [name_u]Emerson[/name_u]?

Thanks everyone for your thoughts and replies! Appreciate the suggestions and feedback!