[name_m]Wilder[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] hands down. It sounds amazing imo. [name_m]Leo[/name_m] wilder as a 2nd choice. Good luck
Theres other names i don’t hear despite their popularity. [name_m]Henry[/name_m] is not one of them. I know so many. Its lost any small appeal for me.
[name_m]Leo[/name_m] is my favourite, it hits the sweet spot between not too popular and not too out there, plus it’s super handsome. I don’t find the [name_m]Leo[/name_m] O’S… to be hard to say but if it really bothers you, maybe [name_m]Leon[/name_m], [name_m]Leopold[/name_m], Leore, [name_m]Leander[/name_m]…
[name_m]Henry[/name_m] is my second pick, although it rhymes with your surname, but I think [name_m]Henry[/name_m] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m] works better than [name_m]Henry[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m], it just flows better.