The Most Beautiful Name in the World?

When I was a little girl, I thought [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] was the most beautiful name in the world and in fact, told my mother that quite earnestly. :slight_smile: The only [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] I knew was on I [name_u]Love[/name_u] [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] and I was quite fond of her.

[name_u]True[/name_u], I lisped it as “Essel”, but still I was sincere.

Of course in the intervening years I thought how bizarre, what a horrible name, but more bizarre still, I have just overnight begun to love the name again.

Can’t say I still feel it’s the most beautiful, but there’s something about [name_f]Ethel[/name_f], [name_u]Joan[/name_u], [name_f]Margaret[/name_f], [name_f]Louise[/name_f], [name_u]Jean[/name_u] that I’m appreciating lately. Perhaps their common sense, adult quality? A certain solidity? A humility?

Wondering if anyone else on earth loves [name_f]Ethel[/name_f]?

[name_f]Ethel[/name_f] is really sweet. I also have a soft spot for no-nonsense ‘old lady’ names, like [name_f]Gertrude[/name_f] and [name_f]Dolores[/name_f].

Not [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] so much, but I get your thinking (I like [name_f]Esther[/name_f], [name_f]Frances[/name_f] and [name_f]Louise[/name_f]). I’m wondering when/if the next generation down will come back: [name_f]Christine[/name_f], [name_f]Janet[/name_f], [name_f]Susan[/name_f], [name_f]Mary[/name_f], [name_f]Patricia[/name_f], [name_f]Virginia[/name_f] etc.

As I didn’t grow up somewhere where [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] was used and haven’t seen any Ethels on TV, I don’t associate it with old ladies like others do. I find its sound attractive! I used to love the similar [name_m]Edel[/name_m] about a year ago.

I adore [name_f]Ethel[/name_f]. Like emmievis, where I grew up the name was hardly used. I do know an [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] now, she’s a co-worker. I think it sounds soft but not frilly.

I just can’t get behind [name_f]Ethel[/name_f], although I love some other “old lady chic” names like [name_f]Esther[/name_f]/[name_f]Hester[/name_f], [name_f]Agnes[/name_f], [name_f]Ida[/name_f] and [name_f]Pearl[/name_f].

I always give the same response to this question: to me, the single most effortlessly beautiful and perfect female name is [name_f]Eve[/name_f].

I actually kind of like [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] in an abstract way. The sounds are nice. But I just can’t imagine it on a baby or a free spirited young woman, and it feels perhaps a bit too stuffy for 2018. But I’ve never met one, so who knows?

From the names you mentioned I adore [name_u]Joan[/name_u]. Something about that name feels very strong and beautiful to me. (I like a lot of names with the “own” sound in them.) To borrow your words, to me they have a kind of “common sense, adult quality” and “a certain solidity.” Spot on. That’s why I like [name_u]Joan[/name_u] as a middle for [name_f]Aurelia[/name_f]. [name_f]Aurelia[/name_f] [name_u]Joan[/name_u], in my mind, balances the long, flowy feminine name with a grounded, strong middle. (For the record, I would probably consider [name_f]Aurelia[/name_f] the most beautiful name in the world.)

So I think [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] could definitely work if it’s paired right. That way she could always go by the other name if she prefers it.

[name_f]Ethel[/name_f] isn’t my bag, but a friend just named his daughter [name_f]Edie[/name_f], which is perfection.

Yes, [name_u]Joan[/name_u] is an amazing name! It is absolutely impossible for me to imagine an incompetent or weak [name_u]Joan[/name_u]. And [name_f]Aurelia[/name_f] is gorgeous. :slight_smile:

[name_f]Ethel[/name_f] isn’t on my list, but I do think it is super sweet.

I certainly have a soft spot for “old lady” names, and one of my top favorite names is [name_f]Dorothy[/name_f], and I often hear that this is too much of an old lady name, and they could never imagine it on anyone younger, but that has never swayed me.

I don’t personally like [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] because I think of [name_f]Ethyl[/name_f] alcohol when I first hear those sounds and kind of forget it is a name, but with current name trends I think it could be a good fit for a baby. From your list I love [name_f]Louise[/name_f]; I think the sounds are really pretty together.

A name I loved since I was little is [name_f]Silje[/name_f] (pronounced like Silka). A [name_m]German[/name_m] waitress named [name_f]Silje[/name_f] who was really young and pretty and sweet to me in particular worked at my favorite restaurant in town when I was little and always remembered me, so I always loved her name. I think I might try to use a similar name in [name_f]Sylvie[/name_f] to honor that.

I don’t really like it, it is an old lady name to me. The only [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] that I can think of is from Downton [name_u]Abbey[/name_u].

I love [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] but I’ve never actually met one. I adore “old-lady” names because the marjority of the time they’re very uncommon regarding the newborn generation, but they still have centuries of usage. Plus I think it’s downright adorable to hear a little baby be called [name_f]Hilda[/name_f] or [name_f]Millicent[/name_f]!

I am an avid “I [name_u]Love[/name_u] [name_f]Lucy[/name_f]” fan, so [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] has seemed like a charming name to me for years, as [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] Mertz is very funny and loveable. [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] has a soft, sweet, and smooth sound that seems timeless and gorgeous to me, and I can easily imagine it on a little girl, a young woman, and, of course, an older woman, too. :wink: In my eyes, it’s classic, and I can’t fathom how names like [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] ever got the words “clunky old lady” attached to them! It is very elegant and mature and is ripe for revival. I’ll stop now before I’ve gone and written myself a novella! :smiley: I just love [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] so much!

I think outside of context, [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] is actually beautiful. Eth is soft and ethereal sounding and -el is sweet and beautiful. However, it’s association with elderly women kind of sweeps that to the way side.

I don’t have the same feelings on [name_f]Ethel[/name_f], necessarily, but I feel like [name_f]Edith[/name_f] is in the same category and I love that one. There are several names from that era I wish I loved more but they seem stuck to me. [name_f]Mildred[/name_f] was a beloved great aunt, but I just can’t get behind it. [name_u]Joan[/name_u] is a real bad ass saint name that I wish I loved more. [name_f]Maude[/name_f] means “strong in battle” which I love, but the sound on my ears is too harsh. I love that there is legacy behind these names, tons of strong and notable women with the older names vs the more modern ones.

[name_m]Ah[/name_m], another [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] Mertz fan! :slight_smile:

Yeah, I can see calling it older, or even old lady, but not “clunky” — to me [name_f]Winifred[/name_f], [name_f]Gertrude[/name_f], and [name_f]Hortense[/name_f] are clunky with their hard sounds, though I love them too.

But [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] does as you aptly say have a “soft, sweet, and smooth sound”. I love [name_f]Bertha[/name_f], [name_f]Theodora[/name_f], [name_f]Theda[/name_f], [name_f]Theodosia[/name_f], and other names with that soft th sound.

I was never particularly fond of [name_f]Ethel[/name_f], but much like you, I was head over heels in love with [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] growing up. I named my favorite doll & two pets [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], and then I went through a phase where I didn’t like it as much… and now I’m beginning to love it again. It just feels so classy, sweet and timeless. I love the sound and natural flow of the name.

I agree! I love those names, too. You have good taste. :slight_smile: I could see [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] and [name_f]Theodora[/name_f] as sisters!

I have considered [name_f]Ethel[/name_f] as my mum’s foster mum (my [name_f]Nana[/name_f] and only grandparent I had a proper relationship with) was called [name_f]Ethel[/name_f], as was my paternal grandmother (who I also loved but who oddly disowned me in my 20s). Couldn’t bring myself to consider the name seriously and then had 4 boys…

I loved the name [name_f]Jolene[/name_f] (from the song…) as a child. No longer would consider using that!