Theodore and Eleanor, how bad is it really?

[name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] have been my top two names for nearly a year at this point, and have been on my name lists for as long as I remember! Realistically, I feel as if these two names are the ones on my list that I will actually use for a child. I love how they are classic and timeless, with loads of nickname potential, and I enjoy how they fit with both the very old man and old lady types of names I like (such as [name_u]Walter[/name_u] and Edith) and the more royal/posh types (such as [name_m]Ambrose[/name_m] and Beatrice). I’d likely use the nickname [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] for [name_m]Theodore[/name_m], and while I also really like the nickname [name_f]Nora[/name_f] for [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], I think I’d call my daughter [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] most of the time!
Anyways, despite the fact that I love these two names and think they make for the most perfect pair, I do have some worries about the two.
First, the connection to [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] [name_m]Roosevelt[/name_m]. For those who don’t know, [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] [name_m]Roosevelt[/name_m] was the 26th president of the United States, and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] was Theodore’s niece, and an activist in her own right. I feel as if people would certainly make connections to the two, especially if they were siblings. It’s not as if I don’t want my children’s names to have any connection to someone famous, it’s just that I don’t particularly want people to think I purposely named my kids after the Roosevelts.
Second, the fact that the names rhyme. I actually didn’t notice this until one of the Berries pointed it out! It’s not a huge deal to me (especially as I would likely have more children to separate the two names!), but I wonder if it’s something other people would notice very easily, and would think is a little too odd, or a little too matchy? [name_f]My[/name_f] own sister and I have names that rhyme and people think it’s quite cute for the most part (it can make it a bit more confusing, but our names also start with the same letter and are quite similar over all), and it’s never bothered me too much. I do, however, wonder if the fact that the names have the connection to the Roosevelts and that they do rhyme makes it all a bit weird? Both [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] are quite common names though, so do you think that people wouldn’t find it odd that they were used for siblings?
Am I over thinking this? How bad is it really?

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I love both of these names, and they go well together, in my opinion. I didn’t and probably wouldn’t think about [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] [name_m]Roosevelt[/name_m] and his niece until you mentioned them, and even if I did think of them, I wouldn’t assume you’d named your kids after them. [name_f]My[/name_f] first associations with those names would be [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] [name_u]Laurence[/name_u] from [name_m]Little[/name_m] Women and [name_f]Elinor[/name_f] Dashwood from Sense and Sensibility. :grin:

I don’t think the names rhyming makes them too matchy, especially if there are other kids. I guess it’s somewhat noticeable, but I don’t feel like it’s odd at all.

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I love them together!!

I don’t think they rhyme too badly for anyone to comment - I barely saw it at first. I knew it was one of the things you’d be asking just by seeing the title, and I was so prepared to say that they aren’t too close at all! As for the connection with [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], I’d be far more concerned with [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_u]Franklin[/name_u], because they were married, and served as [name_m]President[/name_m] and First [name_f]Lady[/name_f] together. Until I read she was Theodore’s niece I was convinced you’ve confused your Roosevelts! I love these names for you, and I think they’re perfect together.

[name_f]My[/name_f] first associations with the names anyways are with [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] [name_u]Laurence[/name_u] from Alcott’s books, and nothing notable for [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. :heart:

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I did think of the Roosevelts, and I’m not even American :sweat_smile: I think they’d be fine if there was a third sibling, but on their own it’s a little odd. I don’t think it has to be a dealbreaker, but for me it would be one.

As for the rhyming thing, I really don’t think it’s a big deal, I wouldn’t have noticed! The names have different sounds overall despite the shared ending.

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If you pronounce [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] the [name_f]English[/name_f] way, they don’t rhyme

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I did immediately think of the Roosevelts… (& the rhyming thing is probably not ideal, either, although not a deal-breaker!)

Having said that, I think that if you’re likely to use a nickname most of the time (e.g. [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] & [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] / [name_u]Theo[/name_u] & Eleanor), then it works fine! :slight_smile:

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[name_f]My[/name_f] mind instantly went to the Roosevelts. I didn’t however pick up on the rhyming until you mentioned it… although it then becomes a once you see it you can’t unsee it.

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I just went over this in history class (im a teen) like a week ago and I didn’t make the connection. I will say, if you name your kids [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] & [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], your other kids’ names will all have to have that ending.

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I wouldn’t go with them together, but I think you totally can.

The main reason I wouldn’t go with those is that I have such a long list of girl name loves that I could/would pick with brother [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] if I had a boy named [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] “Teddy”! I think [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] is an absolutely gorgeous name, and she’s one I instantly think of when I think about you having a daughter. The rhyme-iness isn’t my most favorite thing, but I don’t think it makes these two unusable utterly as siblings.

TLDR, use the names that you adore. And definitely keep them both on the list!

The only real dealbreaker no for me would be if you ever had 3+ kids. [name_m]Theodore[/name_m], [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], and… [name_f]Jane[/name_f] just doesn’t work to me. Two rhyming and one outside I dislike, personally.

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So - I would think vaguely of the Roosevelts (not massively, since I’m not in the US). I might consider the rhyme - though in my accent it’s not so obvious - but it’s not a huge deal. I think they’re popular enough that neither of those things feel in your face or overwhelming. There’s plenty of nicknames, and, for what it’s worth, I feel like I’ve met sibs [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]. (well, Elea.nor, Cl.ara and Theodo.re, but, you know)

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Both names are lovely!

Personally I did automatically think of Roosevelt’s and I’m not American that connection just jumped out at me straightaway. I would either assume you were a massive history nerd/Roosevelt’s fan or clueless as to who the Roosevelt’s were. However is this a major concern not really I think you could be asked questions but I would say most people would just accept the names and move on. Especially as they are both really mainstream. Concerning pronunciation I’m [name_f]English[/name_f] so there isn’t so much emphasis on the ‘nor’ so the names do not rhyme however I’m assuming your American (apologies if I’m assuming incorrectly) so there is that rhyming aspect with [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] + [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]. Again yes there is that flaw with the two names but for me that isn’t a major concern either. I strongly believe that the love of a name is more important and you clearly love both so I would say go for it :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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I don’t think there are many who would make that connection, and even if they did, does it really matter? [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] sound great together. I see no problem with this whatsoever. [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] should be the names you choose if they are the ones you love. I am assuming your family name won’t be [name_m]Roosevelt[/name_m]? :wink:

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Not bad at all, really it’s not much different than any two names than ending sound, like [name_f]Lily[/name_f] & [name_f]Callie[/name_f] or [name_m]Soren[/name_m] & [name_u]Kieran[/name_u].

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Its not bad at all!

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Not being American, it wasn’t immediately obvious but once I read the connection I was like ‘ohhh. Yeah. That.’ And again, they don’t rhyme to me (THEE-oh-door and ELL-uh-nuh) but with the American pn that repeated sound would put me off using them as sibs.

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American here - I did not think of the Roosevelts, nor did I notice the rhyming.

I think you’re overthinking! [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] go really well together, they’re both such classic names. And [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] + [name_f]Nora[/name_f] is adorable :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Personally, I don’t think of either of those things you mentioned when I hear [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] and [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] together!

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I think the Theodore/Eleanor [name_m]Roosevelt[/name_m] connection doesn’t matter at all; if you look hard enough there’s probably a connection like that in a lot of sibsets. In my [name_f]British[/name_f] accent [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] and [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] don’t ryhme, but I’ve never heard an American say those names together, so if there’s more of an emohasis on the ‘nor’ I might hesitate. In an ideal word would they be going by the full versions or nicknames? If [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] mostly went by [name_u]Teddy[/name_u], for example, or [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] mostly went by [name_f]Nell[/name_f], I don’t think the rhyming thing would matter nearly as much.

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Definitely overthinking it. They sound great as sibling names.

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Honestly, with both names being so popular at the moment, they seem perfectly normal for a sibling set! I did think of the Roosevelts, but not enough to assume they were named for them. It’s nowhere near [name_m]Romeo[/name_m] and [name_f]Juliet[/name_f] or [name_u]Rhett[/name_u] and [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] territory in terms of connections or rhyming, and both are well-loved, commonly used choices in the US right now. It makes perfect sense for them to be sibling names.

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