For the two plants issue: since [name]Rose[/name] is the last name, I wouldn’t let it bother me
I would definitely use [name]Noelle[/name] spelling, it’s so lovely and then the pronounciation is clear too.
I don’t have any experience about being called by my middle name. The only thought that occurred to me is that she will officially be [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Rose[/name] on paperwork, etc. In that case, the two plant thing does put me off. I would use [name]Noelle[/name] [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Rose[/name]. [name]Noelle[/name] [name]Rose[/name] is beautiful and [name]Noelle[/name] [name]Ivy[/name] isn’t a bad flow at all.
nope–we’re talking about a girl 