I think it helps to decide how much you want the second child’s name to parallel your loaders daughters name and it what ways. [name_u]Raven[/name_u] strikes me as a nature name with some mystical over tones. It also evokes color imagery (black). It also has a feminized version of a male name as a nickname.
If you like nature names, [name_f]Amber[/name_f] and [name_u]Aspen[/name_u] seem like the best choices. I prefer [name_u]Aspen[/name_u] as [name_f]Amber[/name_f] seems a bit 80s to me.
If you look the color tie-in, [name_f]Amber[/name_f] and [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] work. I prefer. [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] for the same reason above.
[name_u]Ryan[/name_u] seems way too close too [name_u]Raven[/name_u] to be a good sibling name. Most of the other names on all three lists seem too plain or common next to [name_u]Raven[/name_u].
[name_f]My[/name_f] favorite on you lists is [name_u]Josie[/name_u]. It strikes me as spunky. I like the two syllable, 5 letter parallel to [name_u]Raven[/name_u]. [name_u]Rae[/name_u] and [name_u]Jo[/name_u] are cute together.
[name_f]My[/name_f] top 5 girl picks are:
[name_u]Josie[/name_u]
[name_f]Amber[/name_f]
[name_f]Allyson[/name_f]
[name_f]Lainey[/name_f]
[name_f]Molly[/name_f]
All of your boys names are much more traditional than a [name_u]Raven[/name_u]. All of your husbands seem much more trendy than [name_u]Raven[/name_u]. And your daughters fall into several camps
If I was naming a brother for a [name_u]Raven[/name_u], I would consider names like:
[name_m]Forest[/name_m]
[name_u]Steele[/name_u]
[name_u]Glenn[/name_u]
[name_m]Cole[/name_m]
[name_m]Clay[/name_m]