I am no expert on this subject but I did spend some time looking at a few studies. [name]Friend[/name] of mine got all cuckoo for home birth after seeing the [name]Ricki[/name] [name]Lake[/name] documentary and after 3 hospital births that produce beautiful healthy babies decided to go all natural home birth for #4. [name]Long[/name] story short: midwife was very late arriving, baby was footling breech, baby was born safely, thank God, on the floor of her living room surrounded by several burly paramedics.
My friend said when the midwife realized the baby was footling, she yelled, “I can’t do this!”
The whole thing made me wonder: why didn’t they know the baby was footling? Is that something that happens during birth? At the very least, shouldn’t she have known the baby was breech? And isn’t that presentation contraindicated for a home birth?
My friend was very shaken up. Her husband described the baby’s blue foot dangling out of her, and thought when he saw it that he was dead. For a few days she questioned her decision. Then she forgot the fear, like one does, and decided home birth was awesome and magical.
I don’t know if her midwife was a CPM or not. And again, no expert. But from what I know about my friend’s birth experience, the situation feels really hinky to me.
So I started researching home birth. I started with the Skeptical OB. Interesting website. But I have a rule where if I’m serious about learning about something I go beyond opinions. I don’t want to be sold anything, or if I am sold I want to make the decision to buy.
I looked at a lot of the source material. I am not a physician or a medical professional but I can more or less ascertain whether the data supports the opinion. More or less.
I came away from my several months or so of interest in this topic feeling really disillusioned with home birth. Of course I think it’s anyone’s right. It’s just such a first world problem to me. I think of the poor women around the world who’d give their right arms to labor in hospitals with first class doctors and medicine and machines that go “bing!” (Sorry, [name]Monty[/name] Python reference!) And I sort of scratch my head at how we have swung from the 50s and 60s, when we were so enamored with our ability to make childbearing pleasant that women were all but unconscious, and fed their new babies from bottles wearing rubber gloves, to the opposite end of that pendulum arc: giving birth at home, our dreadlocks dangling in the patchouli scented water of our birthing tub, nursing little [name]Indigo[/name] right away, eating our placentas.
I’m exaggerating a little of course, to make a point. And I think there is a lot to be said for respecting natural processes in many different areas of our lives. I am just concerned that too many women choose home birth without knowing the risks, and worst of all, without understanding their midwife might be a total quack.
My friend and I have kind of tacitly agreed not to discuss the issue. I’m
33 and struggling with infertility, and she’s 29 and had 4 kids without trying. So it’s hard for me to listen to her bitch about not having the right kind of birth experience, when all I want is a parenting experience. I don’t care if the baby is dragged out of me with a team of oxen. As long as we come through it safe and healthy, I will be happy. And in my - I have to say, at this point - pretty informed opinion, a hospital birth is the best way to achieve a safe birth.
There should definitely be licensing requirements for midwifes. Rigorous ones. In every state. Too many women and children have been injured or died due to lack of information and gross incompetence. The blog Hurt by Home Birth is full of their stories, and they are nightmarish.