Waiting for sparks to fly

We are almost 25 weeks pregnant with our baby boy and are still trying to come up with a name. My husband admitted to me that he hasn’t felt like we found THE name. Essentially he is waiting for tears when he tries on THE wedding gown, know what I mean? Anyhow, our current list is below. Would love to hear your thoughts and other name suggestions. Our last name is one of the most common in the US, beginning with T.

[name]Birch[/name]
[name]Elliot[/name]
[name]Harris[/name]
[name]Miles[/name]
[name]Wes[/name]

Thanks, Berries!

With an extremely common last name (which I will think of as [name]Thompson[/name]), I imagine you’d want a relatively uncommon first to help him stand out and be googleable.

[name]Birch[/name]: certainly unique, clipped and masculine. It’s a nice nature name with good wintery imagery. Would need to be paired with a longer, classic middle (i.e. [name]Birch[/name] [name]Alexander[/name] [name]Thompson[/name]).

[name]Elliot[/name]: more and more popular, with a studious and quiet vibe. Would not use, in general, names that end with -t given that “[name]Thompson[/name]” starts with one.

[name]Harris[/name]: A last name that’s less common than ‘[name]Thompson[/name]’ will work [otherwise people can confuse first and last names]. It’s also dignified and masculine.

[name]Miles[/name]: again, a name rising in popularity, but which is quirky, cool and has centuries of history.

[name]Wes[/name]: the only name on your list I don’t care for, as it feels very incomplete. Prefer [name]Weston[/name] or similar (unless your last name really is [name]Thompson[/name], in which case any -n name is out).

Suggestions:

[name]Graham[/name]
[name]Clark[/name]
[name]Alastair[/name]
[name]Desmond[/name]
[name]Ephraim[/name]
[name]Gideon[/name]
[name]Inigo[/name]
[name]Arlo[/name]
[name]Jasper[/name]
[name]Leander[/name]
[name]Lucian[/name]
[name]Julian[/name]
[name]Marius[/name]
[name]Merrick[/name]
[name]Rutherford[/name]
[name]Quentin[/name]
[name]Raphael[/name]
[name]Simon[/name]
[name]Thaddeus[/name]
[name]Malcolm[/name]
[name]Davis[/name]
[name]Adrian[/name]
[name]Dominic[/name]
[name]Elias[/name]
[name]Grady[/name]
[name]Jonas[/name]
[name]Pierce[/name]
[name]Tobias[/name]
[name]Weaver[/name]

Thanks, [name]Blade[/name], and indeed our last name is [name]Thompson[/name]. So any first name ending in -on just does not seem to sound right. My husband is more on the traditional side but does like [name]Birch[/name] and I really like your suggestion of [name]Birch[/name] [name]Alexander[/name]. I hadn’t thought of that and it sounds great. I’ve added it to the list.

Thanks a ton for the suggestions. I will run these by the hubs. =)

Have you considered [name]Wesley[/name] or [name]Westley[/name] instead of just [name]Thompson[/name]? Other ideas that come to mind based on your list:

[name]Walker[/name]
[name]Lincoln[/name]
[name]Hollis[/name]
[name]Dex[/name]

Good luck!

EDIT: Totally meant Wes up there, not Thompson. :wink:

Thanks, alzora! Yes, [name]Westley[/name] would be more likely but I don’t think I am completely sold on [name]Wes[/name] anyhow.

[name]Love[/name] [name]Dex[/name] (and [name]Dax[/name]) but hubs nixed both.

The surname as a first name is not really my style. [name]Harris[/name] is only a contender because my husband’s father was [name]Harold[/name]. [name]Harris[/name] is my way of honoring him.

I like [name]Wes[/name] a lot. I’ve thought of constructing a new name out of [name]Wes[/name] and [name]Scott[/name] (dad’s name) and making Wescott. I probably wouldn’t use it because I like “real” names, but [name]Wes[/name] is a dashing nickname. [name]West[/name] is another option, though it does have a slightly different vibe. I think [name]Weston[/name] is my favorite formal version.

On a whole, I don’t love nature names but I make an exception for the name [name]Lake[/name]. You might like it if you like [name]Birch[/name], though it does feel slightly more feminine.

[name]Elliot[/name] and [name]Harris[/name] feel not very exciting to me, but I love [name]Miles[/name]. I like [name]Milo[/name] even a tiny bit more, but [name]Miles[/name] is so gentle and handsome.

[name]Blade[/name] had a bunch of great recommendations, but I’ll try a few more:
[name]Eamon[/name]
[name]Quentin[/name]
[name]Julian[/name]
[name]Jones[/name]
[name]Sterling[/name]
[name]Jude[/name]

[name]Birch[/name] - do not like this at all
[name]Elliot[/name] - love this one!
[name]Harris[/name] - its an ok name
[name]Miles[/name] - love it!
[name]Wes[/name] - to nicknamey

Suggestions:
[name]Gavin[/name]
[name]Wesley[/name]
[name]Harrison[/name]
[name]Elijah[/name]
[name]Luca[/name]
[name]Milo[/name]
[name]Theo[/name]
[name]Nikko[/name]
[name]Jayden[/name]
Colbat