I pronounce [name]Cecily[/name] SESS-i-lee. The i is a short sound, as in the ‘i’ of ‘it’.
I think [name]Cecily[/name] is a lovely, vintage name, and while I knew of the meaning, it is not by any means obvious, so I do not think it matters at all. I think of [name]Cecily[/name] Cardew, a character in [name]Oscar[/name] Wilde’s The Importance of Being [name]Earnest[/name], and also of the woman who wrote the [name]Flower[/name] Fairies books.
Actually, [name]Cecily[/name] only means ‘blind’ by association. [name]Cecily[/name] is derived from [name]Cecilia[/name], which is in turn derived from the [name]Roman[/name] family name Caecilius. A family name was the second (I believe) of a [name]Roman[/name]'s names, with the first being a given name and the third identifying which tribe they originated from. Effectively, it was like a surname. Having one of these family names was a sign of prestige, as having three names marked you out as a [name]Roman[/name] citizen, as opposed to a slave or a free man from one of their colonies.
Presumably, one of the original bearers of the family name Caecilius was blind (from the Latin word ‘caecus’), but as with names such as [name]Smith[/name], it would have registered in [name]Roman[/name] people’s minds as only a family name, and the meaning would not have been really thought of.
I think more important is the fact, whether you are religious/[name]Christian[/name] or not, that [name]Saint[/name] [name]Cecilia[/name] was an early martyr - she stuck firmly to her beliefs, and that is something which is admirable from both a secular and religious point of view (she was martyred for refusing to worship the [name]Roman[/name] gods - this was before [name]Constantine[/name] made the [name]Roman[/name] Emipre [name]Christian[/name]). She is also the patron saint of music and musicians.
In addition, the Caecilii were a very powerful family, within the [name]Roman[/name] army and senate. Quite how powerful they were is shown by the fact that one member of the house was allowed to become one of the highly respected, very rare priestesses called ‘vestal virgins’. They had a great deal more power and independence than other [name]Roman[/name] women.
Sorry - I have gone off on such a tangent! In short, I love the name [name]Cecily[/name] and do not think that you should be bothered by the meaning.
Good luck! [name]Auburn[/name]