I love [name]Ashley[/name] for a boy, but think it’s dated and boring for a girl. It’s a shame that the society we live in views it as unaceptable for a boy just because it is popular with girls. It’s a silly and old fashioned belief, but one that we will be stuck with at least the time being. However I think the only way to challenge this mind set is to go agaisnt it and use names that are considered ‘girly’. If all else makes sure he has a strong, all male mn to fall back on, like… oh wait there doesn’t seem to be any left.