Hello all-
I recently posted on here about an agonizing name dilemma I was having. The name of our unborn daughter was [name]Mabel[/name] for four months. We kept the name a secret from all of our family and friends. My sister, who had also kept her name a secret, had a baby a boy a few weeks ago and announced his name… [name]Abel[/name]. Quite a bit of family drama has happened in the last few weeks over the whole [name]Mabel[/name]/[name]Abel[/name] similarity.
Anyway… My husband and I are having our fourth and final child and need an M name to complete the family. We’ve been deliberating for weeks. We need something unusual. (Our last name is extremely common.) It has to start with an M. It has to go with our other children’s names [name]Mary[/name] [name]Alice[/name] ([name]Mary[/name] [name]Alice[/name]), [name]Major[/name] [name]Gray[/name] ([name]Major[/name]), and [name]Milla[/name] [name]Josephine[/name] ([name]Milla[/name]). We have been stumped over name choices. Nothing has seemed quite right. We can’t seem to get past the fact that we’ve called our sweet girl (who is due in a couple of weeks) our little [name]Mabel[/name].
My mother (who is very dear to me) is named [name]Mayre[/name]. I’ve always liked the uniqueness of her name, but feel that it is problematic. Nobody ever seems to pronounce it correctly (including many of her close friends). I had initially excluded the name from our lists entirely because of all of the problems that my mother has had with her name. It is pronounced like “maybe”, except substituting the r for a b. She has been incorrectly called “[name]Mary[/name]”, “[name]Marie[/name]”, “[name]Mayer[/name]”, and may[name]REE[/name] (with the accent incorrectly on the last syllable). It is pronounced “MAYree”. This doesn’t seem difficult to me, but, then again, I’ve heard it all of my life.
My question, nameberries, is this… What do you think of this name? [name]Do[/name] you like it? [name]Do[/name] you think it would cause my daughter problems to have such an unfamiliar name? Also… I’ve thrown around the idea of spelling it differently…possibly Mayree? I just wanted a few opinions, since mine are obviously biased.
We are doing everything we can to appease my sister and her husband, though our first choice is the name [name]Mabel[/name]. It has been a very difficult situation. We are really trying to be peacemakers. I just need some feedback about this potential name. I’m usually not a fan of made up sounding names, but we are really trying to think outside of the box, since [name]Mabel[/name] seems like it would cause such hard feelings.
[name]Mayre[/name]?
Mayree?
Any other suggestions for different spellings?
or Neither?
Also… If you do like the name [name]Mayre[/name]/Mayree, can you think of a suitable middle name?