Thanks in advance if you make it to the end…
I had posted last week about the trouble my husband and I are having agreeing on girls’ names. I have been feeling unsatisfied with the list we had narrowed down to. The list included [name_u]Piper[/name_u], [name_f]Zoe[/name_f], [name_f]Katherine[/name_f], [name_f]Caroline[/name_f], [name_u]Valentine[/name_u], and [name_f]Greta[/name_f], among a few others.
Over the past week, I have been scouring name lists but not coming up with much that I like that my husband hasn’t already said a firm no to. I just read him another list and he said no to all 15 or so names without even batting an eye at a single one.
He asks why I am trying to go back to square one when we already have a list we’ve narrowed down and I said that I just feel like all the names I felt something for were stripped from the list and we are left with names that I’m just ok with.
So basically the only names I think I might want to use from our list are [name_u]Piper[/name_u] or [name_f]Zoe[/name_f].
[name_u]Piper[/name_u] was my favorite for a while, but it’s losing its luster for me. It’s not as popular as [name_f]Zoe[/name_f], which is a plus. In fact one of my friends had never even heard the name before. But that means people have few associations with Pipers. I’ve only heard of the show [name_u]Orange[/name_u] is the [name_m]New[/name_m] [name_m]Black[/name_m], but I know the main character is named [name_u]Piper[/name_u]. I don’t know if I want people to have that association as one of their only associations with the name. Plus, I know a lot of people hate the name altogether. I also worry that it is a little too trendy and that it will feel dated.
So that leaves me with [name_f]Zoe[/name_f]. Is it as trendy as [name_u]Piper[/name_u]? I think it at least has a bit more history to it. [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] is certainly more popular than [name_u]Piper[/name_u]. And once you combine its popularity with that of [name_f]Zoey[/name_f], I’m sure it’s very high on the list. However, my son’s name is [name_m]Daniel[/name_m], which was in the top ten the year he was born, but so far he hasn’t been in a class with another [name_m]Daniel[/name_m]. However he does have two Noras in his class. He has a [name_f]Zoey[/name_f] too…
I said to my husband about it being popular and his response was “God forbid we pick a name other people like…” and I agree he has a point.
So all this long-windedness is to say that I think I want to use [name_f]Zoe[/name_f].
Now we must pick a middle. Our last name starts with Z, is three syllables and is Germanic…
I really liked [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Alexandra[/name_f] until I googled it. There is already one prominent in the search results… she’s featured without many clothes on. Does that make this combo unuseable? Women in her profession aren’t around forever… but her catalogue may be forever available online.
Other options:
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Katherine[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Kate[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_u]Valentine[/name_u]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_u]Lynn[/name_u] (my husband’s mn is [name_u]Lynn[/name_u] and he would really like to use it for a girl. I’m just not sure because our last name ends in “man”)
I think I want something more substantial as a middle name. [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] is very light and perky… I want something to give it some gravity.
Any suggestions?