What would you change your name to if you were a different gender?

This question has probably been asked here a million times before, but if you were / transitioned to another gender than the one you currently identify as, what would you name yourself (and why)?

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If I were a boy, I would pick [name_m]Valentin[/name_m] because it could maybe fit me and I like the name and the vibes I get from it.

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If I were non-binary, I think I’d pick [name_m]Loren[/name_m], because I think I could fit the name well and I could keep my nicknames starting with [name_f]Lo[/name_f]. [name_m]Rosen[/name_m] would be another option too because I simply love that name.

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(Loren and [name_m]Rosen[/name_m] could have been boy options as well but it’s more fun to list different options for each gender)

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I’d probably go with [name_m]August[/name_m] (because it honors my dad) or [name_m]Robin[/name_m] (just because I like it!)

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If I were going for simplicity, I might go with [name_m]Drew[/name_m] (which also honors my dad… and it sounds a lot like my name!)

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This one is really hard! I tend to like international names, but for myself I’d also want one that comes from my culture, and almost none of the boy names here work that well internationally :sweat_smile: I think maybe I’d be Daniil ‘Dani’ or Alexis or Symeon ‘Simi’ because they would work the best, while also having a friendly and lively sound that I like.

Unisex names don’t exist in Greek so if I was nonbinary I’d either have the same name I do now, or I’d choose the same names I mentioned for boy names, depending exactly on my nonbinary experience and how I wanted to present myself.

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I’m not sure if I’ve answered that one before…

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For a male name I’ve always said I’d pick [name_m]Matthias[/name_m] and I still stand by it. As a middle either Jürgen, which I don’t feel strongly about but suspect it would have been my middle name had I been amab, or [name_m]Arne[/name_m], which I used in play-pretend as a kid, making it in a way the first male name I ever gave myself.

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For a nonbinary name… I guess that’s technically what I am since I don’t identify with any gender? [name_f]So[/name_f] apparently I am keeping my birth name. If I decidedly identified with a gender other than male or female, I might use Auck more irl. It’s my username on other sites that I got from mashing up my parents’ surnames. I doubt that I would legally change it though, it doesn’t really read as a given name and might cause more confusion than it’s worth.

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Fascinating question. I would…not choose the male version of my feminised male first name :joy:[name_f][/name_f] when I think about what other feminine[name_f][/name_f] names would suit me I usually lean towards the dark academia side of things, so for a masc name, perhaps something like… [name_m]Sylvander[/name_m], [name_m]Oberon[/name_m], or maybe more classic like [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] or [name_m]Henry[/name_m].

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For a gender neutral name I’d want to be [name_f]Sonnet[/name_f] (it probably leans more femme because of the ending but you could just as easily be [name_m]Sonny[/name_m] as Netty!)

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I feel like I would have been named [name_m]Michael[/name_m] after my mother’s father who passed away before I was born.

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i would have been thomas or maximilian ‘max’ had i been a boy, and i really like both of those choices. i feel like max would suit me well, so i’ll go with that today! :sheaf_of_rice:

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I think I’ve always thought if I were a boy I’d be [name_m]Charlie[/name_m] or [name_m]Levi[/name_m], two choices my parents seriously considered before learning I was a girl. [name_f][/name_f] I think both would suit me pretty well on a guy, and fit with my brother’s name as well, so probably one of those. [name_f][/name_f] If not, I could see me doing something like [name_f]Bailey[/name_f], [name_m]Peter[/name_m], [name_m]Adam[/name_m], or [name_m]Declan[/name_m].

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[name_m]Damian[/name_m] was what first came to mind. [name_m]Or[/name_m] a cute cuddly name like [name_m]Ollie[/name_m].

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[name_m]Daniel[/name_m]. I have always had a soft spot for this name.

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I love questions like this

1. Leo or Matt (Matias) 

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2. Arden or Aubrey

I also adore Alex. I know, it sounds predictable, but it is a family name, actually both Alexander & Alexandria, so I always may play that card.

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If I had been a boy I would’ve been [name_m]Caleb[/name_m] or [name_m]Andrew[/name_m] and I feel like both of those could suit me well.

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for a gender neutral name I’d probably pick [name_m]Morgan[/name_m] or [name_f]Reagan[/name_f].

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If I was male, choosing my name: [name_m]Ambrose[/name_m].

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If I was female, choosing my name: [name_f]Melrose[/name_f].