Would this be a dealbreaker?

Full disclosure: No kids & not pregnant, just love to plan. :smiley:

So, our top girl name is [name_u]Josie[/name_u]. (Possibly [name_f]Josephine[/name_f], but she would primarily go by [name_u]Josie[/name_u]).

My second favorite is [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f].

I think [name_f]Josephine[/name_f] and [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] go all right together, but my question is this –

Would it be weird if we had a [name_u]Josie[/name_u] and a [name_f]Rosie[/name_f]? They don’t exactly rhyme (at least not the way I pronounce them), and I don’t think I’d call [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] “[name_f]Rosie[/name_f]” very often anyway, but I’m sure other people would.

Would that be a deal-breaker enough to not use [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f]?

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me. They rhyme the way that I pronounce them but they’re just nicknames (at least [name_f]Rosie[/name_f]) I think it’s cute.

For me, it would be a dealbreaker, unfortunately.

Wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me. You could just call her [name_f]Rose[/name_f]/[name_f]Rosa[/name_f] as a nickname instead if it really bothers you

I would try to find a different nickname for one of the names as it would be an issue for me to have a [name_u]Josie[/name_u] and a [name_f]Rosie[/name_f].

When we named our son - [name_u]Sage[/name_u] -, we also had a bunch of other names on the list that rhymed with it: [name_u]Pace[/name_u], [name_u]Chase[/name_u], [name_u]Blake[/name_u], [name_u]Lake[/name_u], and so on. We chose the one from that sound pool that we loved best and knew it would render the others unusable for us.

Oh, this is a hard one because I absolutely love [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f]! I do agree, though, that [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] and [name_u]Josie[/name_u] is not ideal. My suggestion would be to use [name_f]Annie[/name_f] (or [name_f]Anna[/name_f]) as the primary nickname. That way, other people will be less likely to default to [name_f]Rosie[/name_f].

It’s not ideal, but definitely not a deal breaker for me. They are just nicknames, after all, and [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] or [name_u]Josie[/name_u] might end up preferring [name_f]Rose[/name_f]/[name_f]Rosa[/name_f] or [name_u]Jo[/name_u]/[name_u]Jo[/name_u] [name_u]Jo[/name_u] respectively as they age.

Sisters having rhyming nicknames is not a big deal.

Not a deal-breaker at all. I think [name_f]Josephine[/name_f] and [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] make great siblings, and the nicknames [name_u]Josie[/name_u] and [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] are sweet together. If concerned about [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] though I would just use a different nickname, eg, [name_f]Anna[/name_f], [name_f]Annie[/name_f], [name_f]Zanna[/name_f], [name_u]Rainy[/name_u]. You can encourage people to use a chosen nickname by reinforcing it and correcting them if necessary.

The full names seem fine together, the nicknames aren’t as big of a deal. Both names, if you had to, are long enough to facilitate having other nicknames if later on you decide [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] and [name_u]Josie[/name_u] are too similar.

It wouldn’t be for me. I don’t think nickname pronunciation (or spelling) similarities between siblings matters all that much.

[name_u]Josie[/name_u] and [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] would sound silly, if you mainly called [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] by the [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] nickname. [name_u]Josie[/name_u] or [name_f]Josephine[/name_f] and [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] or [name_f]Rose[/name_f] sound fine. I love both names.

I think [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] and [name_u]Josie[/name_u] would make a lovely set, if you’re really worried [name_f]Zanna[/name_f]/[name_f]Sanna[/name_f], [name_f]Annie[/name_f] or [name_f]Anna[/name_f] are other nicknames I can think of for [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f]

Personally, I wouldn’t use matching nicknames for my daughters. But I’d say if it doesn’t bother you then go for it.

My advice would be not to worry about this yet. Wait until you have one and then see if you would mind using it. I’m in this position now which is what makes me say I wouldn’t do it. We’re considering names for daughter #2 and I’m crossing off anything that sounds too similar. We just say our 1st daughter’s name WAAAY too much and it would be confusing. Plus we want #2 to have an equal but different sounding name so it feels all her own.

Good luck!

I would call [name_f]Rosanna[/name_f] [name_f]Rose[/name_f] instead of [name_f]Rosie[/name_f]. Otherwise it would be a deal breaker for me.

If they’re just nicknames, I don’t think it’s a dealbreaker. If anything it’s quite cute!