Would you send your child to a school where ...?

then suggest the next one

i will start
you used to go

Considering I moved to a different country, thatā€™s a no. :grimacing:

Itā€™s religious?

Yeah!

There is a school farm?

Yes, that sounds amazing!

Classes meet outdoors?

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YES.

It offers bi-lingual education? (my dream K-12 lol)

Yes

There is a strong arts/music department

Yes! [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] loves singing I think she would love that

Has a gentle disciplinary approach?

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Yes, because that is how my school was!

Supports & promotes LGBTQ+?

I live in a red state, so thatā€™s sadly difficult to find but I absolutely hope toā€¦

A school that has uniforms? (it isnā€™t common here, unless it is a religious school)

I spent all 12 years myself in uniform. Might look less cool, but the good things are it lessens ā€œgapā€ between the students and thereā€™s no need to think what to wear today, tomorrow, etc. So yes, if it exists, absolutely. But like you said it is rare here and we donā€™t plan to send kids to religious schoolā€¦

Would you prefer private or public?

Private if it was a non-religious school and within our family budget. There are a couple of private schools that fit this description, so we will tour them and put ourselves on the waiting list when the time is right.

ā€¦students had to take a 1.5 hour bus ride (or other mode of transportation) to and from?

No way, Iā€™d rather homeschool.

Focuses heavily on reading/writing/maths with little science, music/art, P.E.?

Depends on what my child is interested in. Likely no if it sets my child behind in the long run.

Is a school for only people of that childā€™s gender?

No. I would love for my child to be immersed with people of all types (that was worded strange but you get what I mean :joy:)

Where your best friend is your childā€™s teacher?

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Sure. Not a problem at all

[name_u]An[/name_u] alternative school?

Yes, but the school would really need to feel right.

We seriously looked into both Montessori and Steiner, and there were aspects I liked of both, but neither seemed quite right for us: Steiner didnā€™t seem like it would help extend our early reading child (though to be honest I figured sheā€™d still learn that at home and I still DID want to send her), and the Montessori we looked at seemed very ā€˜coldā€™, not warm or nurturing even with the young children and not very inclusive either, and had rules like only 2 children at a time in the sand pit.

Would you send your child to a school where they donā€™t give out any kinds of awards or certificates for academic excellence?

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iā€™d consider other factors about it, as if it was a child with a gift with something it would be nice to have a school that acknowledges it. however, if they are the type of child who wouldnā€™t get anything then more yes then no.

with a boarding house? :tulip:

Yes, but Iā€™m not sure Iā€™d let them stay in the boarding house. Iā€™d rather it just be close to our home and they walk there every morning or something.


Where the school is a certain religion (I mean like the Catholic schools, [name_m]Christian[/name_m] schools, Jewish schoolsā€¦)?

No. Weā€™re not religious ourselves and my child has very sciencey, questioning mindā€¦ so I can imagine too many questions might come up :sweat_smile:

A school where they donā€™t do any art?

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There would probably be more factors to consider, but generally, no.

ā€¦where they use the Waldorf paedology?