Writers! How Do You Choose A Name For Your Characters?

How do choose a name that best fit your characters? [name_f]Do[/name_f] you chose by the meaning of the name?

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It really depends on the character. Sometimes I hear a name that I think fits their vibes and give it to them, or I pick a name off of a list of ones I keep that I think are cool. If they’re an important character, like a royal or a god for a fantasy religion, I generally pick a name based off a meaning that’s important to their story. For example, in one of my stories, there’s a fictional goddess of nature named [name_f]Calantha[/name_f], and her name means ‘beautiful flower.’
[name_f][/name_f]Most of the time though, I just scroll through lists upon lists of names until I find one that just feels right. I would just pick a vibe or a guideline (long names, names starting with e, girly names with tomboy nicknames etc.) and I would just look it up and see what you can find.
[name_f][/name_f]Naming characters can be difficult but fun as well. I wish you luck and hope you find this somewhat helpful!

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I think about the time period and setting and try to pick something that’s accurate or suits that. Sometimes I think about what kind of names the character’s parents would like. A lot of it is also just vibes. Names give off certain personalities to me, so I have to find one that gives off the right vibe.

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I basically never chose based on meaning because it feels too coincidental to me that their parents would just happen to choose such a relevant name without knowing the future. [name_f]My[/name_f] one exception to this is a story my friend and I have about prophecies in Greek tragedies, so those characters have meaningful names. If I were a fantasy writer, I think I’d be more open to names with important meanings.

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I also like all of my names in a story to be cohesive together for the sake of the story’s aesthetic.

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I have a spread sheet of potential names for every character, then pick the one from the spread sheet I like best.

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Heh, now that’s a broad question. It usually comes down to three factors: vibe, heritage, and time period.

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Time Period [name_f][/name_f]- [name_f]My[/name_f] characters all exist between the time zone of the 2000s, so I’ve not many classic names and instead lean more towards timeless/modern names. However, if I’ve an older character, I typically use a more dated name.

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Vibe [name_f][/name_f]- Although pretty broad, “vibe” for me classifies as a name that fits the character’s personality. For example, a nerdy character being named [name_f]Gretchen[/name_f] or [name_m]Jeffrey[/name_m], or a popular girl being named [name_f]Chelsea[/name_f] or [name_f]Sloane[/name_f]. You get the idea.

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Heritage [name_f][/name_f]- Now, I classify this as two categories: physical ancestry, and culture. For example, my protagonists belong to a puritanical cult that emphasizes giving children well-meaning names as a symbol of good fortune. This includes Biblical names, given their religion, but also names that simply have good meanings, like [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]: “God’s gift.” Ancestrally, my protagonists are of maternal Anglo-Celtic descent and paternal Nordic and Germanic descent, and I wanted their names to reflect as such.

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The best example I can use is [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Torquil[/name_m] Mortenson. [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is a name with Greek roots meaning “venerable,” so we have the ‘good meaning’ box checked off. Plus, ‘Sebastian’ is associated with Christianity via [name_m]Saint[/name_m] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], so there’s an added bonus. [name_m]Torquil[/name_m] is a name of Scottish origin derived from the Scandinavian name [name_m]Torkel[/name_m], meaning either “Thor’s cauldron” or “Thor’s helmet.” While it doesn’t necessarily hold a positive or negative meaning, its dual European origins reflect Sebastian’s heritage extremely well!

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Also, I sometimes just have a particular letter in mind for a character name; a staple letter is “K” for me. Unfortunately, this usually leads me on a wild goose chase for names that fit that incredibly specific criteria, with it often leading me to finding no satisfactory results.

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But yeah, character naming is extremely subjective, and despite everything I’ve just said, I honestly recommend just going with whatever you feel best fits the character, regardless of meaning or origin.

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knowing a character’s name is a big part of me connecting with them, so I try to find a name for them as quickly as I can.

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at the beginning of a project, sometimes this means choosing a name which feels interesting to me and then letting the character develop from there. id reckon at least 80% of the time, the name I choose ends up fitting the character, although if it doesn’t, the right name will usually show itself pretty quickly—I guess that’s a benefit to surrounding myself with names constantly by being a member of this site lol. many times, the name I end up using is a recent name crush or a name which I love but can’t/won’t put on my shortlist for whatever reason: popularity, origin, similarity to family member’s name, mismatch with my usual style, etc. (of course, sometimes this backfires and I end up falling for the name after ive given it to a character, but that’s a risk I take lol). sometimes, I’ll have an idea of what kind of name im looking for based on what I know of the story so far. for example, if it’s a fantasy story, if the character is royalty, if the character is from a certain place/region, etc.

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when ive already started a project, the process can look different and honestly can feel harder. I see naming my characters as like naming a baby: I find that most of the time, people tend to grow into the names which they’re given (emphasizing most of the time). and I find this to be true for my characters, as I stated earlier. when we’re naming babies, we’re naming someone we don’t know much about—a blob of a human being, if you will. I name characters the same way, when they’re a blob of a human being.

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if im adding a character to a project tho, this process doesn’t always work because there’s often more variables. for instance, if im naming a character’s sibling then I can’t really just choose any name I want (I mean, I could, but I won’t because I like sibsets). I ran into this issue when naming the sister to my characters [name_f]Sage[/name_f] and [name_f]Opal[/name_f]. their moms clearly have a specific taste: they like short, punchy, natural names. which means they probably wouldn’t go for something like [name_f]Kate[/name_f] because it’s not a nature name; [name_f]Chrysanthemum[/name_f] isn’t short or punchy; [name_f]Gaia[/name_f] wouldn’t work because there’s no concept of god/religion in the characters’ world. basically, ive found that there are a lot more “perfect” names when the criteria is just finding a name which I like (I prefer to at least like all of my character names), which doesn’t feel out of place for the genre, and which fits a character whom I haven’t developed yet. this pool narrows significantly when I also have to find a name which is a certain length, origin, style, meaning, starts/doesnt start with certain letters, works with other character names, works with a set surname, and so one.

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(Sage and Opal’s sister is named [name_f]Fern[/name_f], btw)

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I don’t often use names that have meanings which relate to a character. I don’t mind when authors do this (except if it becomes too obvious
 I think people can guess who im speaking of) but it’s another instance of narrowing the pool of perfect names and tbh, it’s more of an easter egg for me than for the readers.

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I will make up names from time to time, but I usually do this only if the name comes naturally. even tho I mostly write fantasy, I dont want to use anything which feels too much like a key smash. I find it can be distracting. while I try to avoid obvious anachronisms with names in fantasy worlds, I try to find names which are in the sweet spot of familiar but not basic.

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(although, I acknowledge that whether a name is anachronistic or not is purely subjective. I have a character named [name_f]Theodora[/name_f] even tho there’s no god or religion in her world, but I assume her name would have another meaning in her world. I also wouldn’t assume the average reader would know of or care about the meaning of her name. however, I wouldn’t use something like [name_f]Asia[/name_f] because there’s no place called [name_f]Asia[/name_f], or [name_f]Avalon[/name_f] because there’s no version of Arthurian legend.)

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oof, you got me monologuing there! naming characters is such a unique process for each writer. dont let anyone try to tell you that there’s a right or wrong way of doing it!

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Good question! For me it varies each time
sometimes a name will come to me and I’ll think “what a great name! I should write about him/her” and go from there. But if I start with an idea for a story and have to come up with a name, it depends on lots of different factors
I’ll look into their background, ethnicity, what their heritage is, what their personality is, the era they were born into, the personality of their parents, even what the story is about. Often I will choose a name based on meaning, but definitely not always. For one of my children’s books I chose the name because it sounded well in the title & was familiar and easy for kids to pronounce! :smiley:

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Generally, I know what my character will be like and I choose a name that I think will fit them. You do have to be careful that way, though, as you don’t want to fall into a clichĂ©d way of naming them. For example, I had a common council estate girl called [name_f]Tiffany[/name_f] in one story, but then renamed her [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], as I wanted her to have a name that worked across all backgrounds.
[name_f][/name_f]I have an [name_f]Audrey[/name_f], she is an older lady who is very refined and elegant, so I named her after [name_f]Audrey[/name_f] Hepburn. A [name_m]Patrick[/name_m], who is a mature man, too. He is named after actor [name_m]Patrick[/name_m] [name_m]Stewart[/name_m], as I consider him to be a refined gentleman, as is my character. I have a [name_f]Katrina[/name_f], a younger woman, escaping the clutches of her wealthy family and her coldhearted fiance [name_f][/name_f]. With her [name_f]Katrina[/name_f] just seemed to fit and it isn’t after anyone in particular. And so on. The characters seem to suggest their name to me, rather than a name shaping a character.

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