I MEANT IT LIKE. it’s made up as a name if that makes sense. like imaginary places being used as names count as made up names to me. it’s the only one i could think of lol leave me alone
I so badly want to mention that it’s a real place but I get where you’re coming from
[name_f]Glad[/name_f] to be of service ![]()
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isn’t it spelled differently irl?
elsinore is the english way of spelling helsingør, yes! (but in real life as well as just hamlet)
What a fun thread!
CATEGORY 1: YOUR LIST
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What is your favourite girl’s name? - [name_f]Sofia[/name_f]
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What is your favourite boy’s name? - [name_u]Theo[/name_u]
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What is the longest name/combo on your list? - [name_f]Josephine[/name_f] [name_f]Lily[/name_f] & [name_u]Ashton[/name_u] [name_u]Everett[/name_u]
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What is the shortest name/combo on your list? - [name_f]Sybil[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] & [name_u]Theo[/name_u] [name_u]Hayes[/name_u]
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Tell me the story behind a favourite name of yours. - I fell in love with the name [name_f]Sybil[/name_f] after I started watching the series Downtown [name_u]Abbey[/name_u] while reading The Picture of [name_u]Dorian[/name_u] [name_u]Gray[/name_u], it was everywhere and I soon started to love it!
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What is the newest name/combo on your list? - [name_u]Hayden[/name_u] [name_m]Leo[/name_m]
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What is the oldest name/combo on your list? - [name_f]Sofia[/name_f] [name_u]Marie[/name_u]
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What is the most underrated name on your list? - [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]
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What is the most unique name on your list? - [name_f]Amara[/name_f]
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What is the most common/popular name on your list? [name_m]William[/name_m]
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If you had to let go of a name on your list, which name would it be? - [name_m]Caden[/name_m]
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What name on your list did you fallen love with at first sight? - [name_f]Tessa[/name_f]
CATEGORY 2: THEMED NAMES
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What is your favourite trendy name? - [name_f]Aurelia[/name_f]
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What is your ultimate GP name? - [name_f]Amethyst[/name_f]
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What is your favourite floral name? - [name_f]Lily[/name_f]
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What is your favourite word name? - [name_f]Autumn[/name_f]
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What is your favourite space-themed name? - [name_f]Estelle[/name_f]
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What is your favourite month or week name? - [name_u]August[/name_u]
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What is your favourite Greek mythology name? - [name_u]Phaedra[/name_u]
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What is your favourite name from [name_u]Harry[/name_u] [name_m]Potter[/name_m]? - [name_f]Rowena[/name_f]
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What is your favourite name from F.R.I.E.N.D.S? - [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
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What is your favourite biblical name? - [name_u]Noah[/name_u]
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What is your favourite with an unfortunate meaning? - [name_u]Marie[/name_u]
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What is your favourite name with a meaning related to the ocean? - [name_u]Kai[/name_u]
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What is your favourite totally made-up name? - [name_f]Nevaeh[/name_f]
CATEGORY 3: INTERNATIONAL NAMES
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What is your favourite Māori name? - [name_f]Sariah[/name_f]
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What is your favourite Irish name? - [name_f]Saoirse[/name_f]
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What is your favourite [name_f]English[/name_f] name? - [name_u]Ashton[/name_u]
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What is your favourite Turkish name? -[name_f]Aylin[/name_f]
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What is your favourite Hebrew name? - [name_f]Elsie[/name_f]
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What is your favourite Japanese name? - [name_f]Amaya[/name_f]
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What is your favourite Hawaiian name? - [name_f]Leilani[/name_f]
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What is your favourite [name_f]Indian[/name_f] name? - [name_f]Inaya[/name_f]
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What is your favourite Russian name? - [name_f]Faina[/name_f]
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List some other International favourites of various origins! - [name_f]Nevena[/name_f], [name_f]Elise[/name_f], Wyetta & [name_f]Delphine[/name_f]
CATEGORY 4: TAG A BERRY
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Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] with names of a very similar style to you - @Momofplenty
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Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] with OPPOSITE style to you, but whose names you love anyway - @EllieWilbury
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Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] whose names you admire from afar, but rarely speak to - @VivienaLunelle123
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Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] who helped you discover a love for a new name - @Namify_2.0
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Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] whose names you’re always on the lookout for - @Ameliaanwen
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Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] who influenced your naming style - @Momofplenty
CATEGORY 5: OPINIONS
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What’s a name everyone seems to love, but you’re not a fan of? - [name_u]Everly[/name_u]
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What’s a name everyone seems to dislike, but you love? - [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f]
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What do you think of alliterative names? What’s your favourite? - I’m not the biggest fan but I love [name_u]Willow[/name_u] [name_f]Winona[/name_f]
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Do name meanings matter to you? - Yes, but I can possibly overlook rather unfortunate ones if I really love the name.
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What’s your opinion on traditionally masculine names for girls, and traditionally feminine names for boys? - I really love the reinvention of some names and absolutely love the mixing up! [name_u]Madison[/name_u] is one I much prefer on a boy rather than the traditional girl.
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Does name popularity influence your name decisions? - Not necessarily. I prefer when a name is familiar and well known, not a huge fan of overly popular, trendy names but it won’t sway my decision at all!
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How much do other [name_u]Berry[/name_u] opinions influence your name decisions? - It depends! I love hearing all the feedback and thoughts from Berries but I always ensure I take advice and suggestions with my own in mind.
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What’s your opinion on using long, (but beautiful), easily mispronounced non-[name_f]English[/name_f] names in an [name_f]English[/name_f]-speaking country? - I think if you love a name you should use it regardless of where you are or who’s around you. People are capable of learning how to pronounce names and I adore individuality and uniqueness in names.
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Do you follow naming trends? - I am always looking to see what the new trends are but they don’t always influence my naming style or choices!
CATEGORY 6: MISC
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What was the FIRST name you can remember loving? [name_f]Do[/name_f] you still like/love it now? - I used to absolutely adore the name [name_f]Ava[/name_f]. I found it to be so sweet and pretty, I loved how simple it was. Although it’s not on my list anymore, I still find it to be a very beautiful name but I’ve outgrown it for my personal liking and style.
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Cutest matching names for twins? - [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] & [name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
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If you had to give your kid a family name, what would you pick? - Dafina
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What’s the best name in your family tree? - [name_f]Elena[/name_f]
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Do you prefer the ‘Hot Takes’ thread or the ‘Quick [name_u]Poll[/name_u]’ thread? Why - I think I prefer the Hot Takes thread, it’s fun to share your thoughts while hearing others too!
I prefer Quick [name_u]Poll[/name_u] for the advise, but hot takes are fantastic! They are my favorite, followed by name games! (Sorry I don’t have time to answer all the questions)
@dandy_orchid, Thank you so much for the tag 
@julianicole5 thanks for the tag!
for now, I’ll just answer questions 1-12
maybe I’ll be back later
- either [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] or [name_f]Dorothea[/name_f], as I love them both
- at the moment, [name_u]James[/name_u]
- Jane [name_f]Chrysanthemum[/name_f]… because [name_f]Chrysanthemum[/name_f] is a very long word
- Hope [name_f]Juliet[/name_f]
- when I first became a name nerd, I fell in love with the name [name_f]Persephone[/name_f], but I wasn’t aware it was pronounced ‘per-seh-pho-nee’. I thought it was pronounced ‘per-se-fone’. So for nearly a month, I walked around saying my favorite name was per-seh-fone, until finally, my mother corrected me
- Elizabeth [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
- Millicent [name_u]Grey[/name_u]
- Dorothea! so gorgeous
- I actually don’t know! [name_f]Guinevere[/name_f], maybe?
- I think [name_f]Grace[/name_f]… I still love her, though
- probably [name_u]Indie[/name_u]
- Persephone
this is so fun!!! thank you kate and sappho for tagging me
absolutely made my morning!
CATEGORY 1: YOUR LIST
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What is your favorite girl’s name?
probably [name_f]Alice[/name_f]! but i’m currently seriously crushing on [name_f]Angharad[/name_f] and [name_f]Gwyneira[/name_f]
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What is your favorite boy’s name?
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m], [name_m]Wilbur[/name_m] & [name_u]Basil[/name_u]! i don’t think i could definitively choose one of those three without wondering about the others
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What is the longest name/combo on your list?
oh gosh, i have so many names on my list i don’t know if i could narrow it down. probably one of the really long greek girls’ names i have in my library though. from my uc i don’t have any super long combos currently, so the longest is [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] [name_u]Constantine[/name_u] (i think) -
What is the shortest name/combo on your list?
i think the shortest combo on my current list is [name_f]Hestia[/name_f] [name_f]Eve[/name_f]! shortest name would be [name_f]Io[/name_f], i think. -
Tell me the story behind a favorite name of yours.
i don’t really have any particularly exciting stories for my names aside from associations. OH well actually this one is fun for me but might not stand out for anyone else
but i had [name_u]Basil[/name_u] on my list for YEARS before i met my boyfriend, and then it turned out when we first talked about names that it was one of his very favorites too. it was such a wild coincidence that it almost seemed fated - and it’s such an uncommon name! -
What is the newest name/combo on your list?
i’ve been adding new names to my list in droves over the past couple of days as i just got a new baby name book BUT here are just a few i’ve been loving: [name_f]Fiorella[/name_f], [name_m]Rhodes[/name_m], [name_f]Elswyth[/name_f], [name_f]Gwenora[/name_f], [name_f]Musetta[/name_f]… -
What is the oldest name/combo on your list?
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] i guess! it feels like i’ve always loved it. -
What is the most underrated name on your list? (In your opinion!)
probably [name_m]Argo[/name_m]! it feels like it would be PERFECT for so many people on here, and yet i never see it. -
What is the most unique name on your list?
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What is the most common/popular name on your list?
from my uc, [name_u]James[/name_u] or [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] -
If you had to let go of a name on your list, which name would it be?
my list is constantly changing so i’d probably be able to let go of any of them! it would be harder to say which name i COULDN’T let go of. which would probably be [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] or [name_u]Basil[/name_u]. -
What name on your list did you fall in love with at first sight?
[name_m]Wilbur[/name_m]
CATEGORY 2: THEMED NAMES
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What is your favorite trendy name?
i guess this depends on your definition of “trendy”! i’ll just say favorite top 10 name, which for me would be [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] or [name_f]Amelia[/name_f] for the girls, and [name_u]James[/name_u] for the boys -
What is your ultimate GP name?
[name_f]Evangeline[/name_f]! would not be a GP for many i’m sure, and it’s certainly not adventurous for me, but my boyfriend doesn’t like the -ine ending at all
good thing i like eve too! -
What is your favorite floral name?
[name_f]Wisteria[/name_f], [name_f]Violetta[/name_f], and [name_f]Gardenia[/name_f]! -
What is your favorite word name? (non-floral)
[name_u]Sundance[/name_u] or [name_m]Howl[/name_m] i think! -
What is your favorite space-themed name?
off the top of my head, [name_m]Astrophel[/name_m]! -
What is your favorite month or week name? (e.g. July, Friday)
definitely [name_f]May[/name_f]/Mae for month names and [name_f]Sunday[/name_f] for weekday names
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What is your favorite Greek mythology name?
i have so many
how could i possibly choose one? i’ve been crushing on [name_m]Endymion[/name_m] and [name_f]Atalanta[/name_f] lately, but i guess my all-time favorite would be [name_f]Persephone[/name_f] -
What is your favorite name from Harry Potter?
would it be cheating for me to say [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]?
other than the obvious, i love the Greengrass sibset of [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] and [name_f]Astoria[/name_f]! -
What is your favorite name from F.R.I.E.N.D.S?
i barely know anything about friends, but i like [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]! would probably be on my list if it wasn’t my sister’s name -
What is your favorite biblical name?
[name_u]Asa[/name_u] & [name_f]Eve[/name_f]! -
What is your favorite name with an unfortunate meaning?
[name_m]Casimir[/name_m], i guess! though honestly i think the meaning is kind of cool
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What is your favorite name with a meaning related to the ocean?
i can’t think of any right off the bat other than [name_f]Alara[/name_f] i suppose? -
What is your favorite totally made-up name?
[name_f]Belphoebe[/name_f]!
CATEGORY 3: INTERNATIONAL NAMES
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What is your favorite Māori name?
just from the ones on nameberry, i’d say [name_f]Ngaio[/name_f]! -
What is your favorite Irish name?
i guess if you count [name_m]Arthur[/name_m], that would be my favorite (including Celtic names)
really been crushing on [name_f]Sadhbh[/name_f] (thank you kate!) and [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u] lately! -
What is your favorite English name?
[name_m]Edwin[/name_m] or [name_f]Edith[/name_f]! i’ve also been crushing on [name_u]Winslow[/name_u] and [name_m]Wilfred[/name_m]! -
What is your favorite Turkish name?
oh this one’s so hard
probably [name_f]Miray[/name_f] and [name_m]Aras[/name_m]! -
What is your favorite Hebrew name?
[name_f]Doveva[/name_f], [name_f]Sulamith[/name_f] & [name_m]Boaz[/name_m]! -
What is your favorite Japanese name?
Yumeko, meaning “dream child” -
What is your favorite Hawaiian name?
[name_f]Ekika[/name_f] and [name_f]Naia[/name_f]
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What is your favorite Indian name?
[name_f]Sena[/name_f], [name_f]Suria[/name_f] and [name_m]Aarav[/name_m]! -
What is your favorite Russian name?
[name_f]Anya[/name_f] and [name_m]Nikolai[/name_m]
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List some other international favorites of various origins!
[name_f]Zosia[/name_f], [name_m]Laszlo[/name_m], [name_f]Farasha[/name_f], [name_m]Altair[/name_m], [name_m]Cyrus[/name_m], [name_u]Satya[/name_u], [name_f]Solveig[/name_f], [name_u]Floris[/name_u], [name_f]Fiorella[/name_f], [name_m]Esai[/name_m]
CATEGORY 4: TAG A BERRY
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[name_m]Tag[/name_m] a Berry with names of a very similar style to you
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[name_m]Tag[/name_m] a Berry with OPPOSITE style to you, but whose names you love anyway
maybe @leafygreens? i don’t think our styles are opposite, but not super similar. and yet i always ADORE your combos
so creative and well put together! -
[name_m]Tag[/name_m] a Berry whose names you admire from afar, but rarely speak to
@seawillow! our styles aren’t very similar, but your combos are absolutely breathtaking, so infused with love and joy they almost feel otherworldly. -
[name_m]Tag[/name_m] a Berry who helped you discover a love for a new name
oh i’m sure there are countless, but off the top of my head @katkabet has introduced me to so many names (without even trying!) and helped my love blossom for so many others. sosie in particular, but also just nickname names in general have been so much more on my radar! i think it helps knowing that she loves them so much makes them feel so much brighter -
[name_m]Tag[/name_m] a Berry whose names you’re always on the lookout for
absolutely @rosepip, @seawillow, @katinka, @katkabet and @futuremama! also @hyacinthbucket! all of you find such wonderful names, whether by themselves or in combos. i get so excited when you all post, though perhaps i don’t show it, because i know you’ll come up with something amazing. i’m never not wildly impressed! -
[name_m]Tag[/name_m] a Berry who influenced your naming style
again @rosepip for sure. i branched out so much more because of her i think, and now my list is so much more dynamic and adventurous! i owe so much of my style to her.
CATEGORY 5: OPINIONS
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What’s a name everyone seems to love, but you’re not a fan of?
pretty much all of the -iah/aiah biblical names. not a fan of them at all. also don’t particularly like [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Helena[/name_f], [name_f]Rowena[/name_f], [name_m]Luke[/name_m], or [name_u]Oliver[/name_u]. i’m sure i could think of others but
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What’s a name everyone seems to dislike, but you love?
honestly my style is not super divisive i don’t think? but maybe i just don’t pay enough attention
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What do you think of alliterative names? What’s your favorite alliterative name? (e.g. Alaska Anouk, Madeleine Mae)
i’m not a big fan of them for myself, but i’ve seen some gorgeous alliterative combos from other berries! perhaps [name_m]Aras[/name_m] [name_m]Altair[/name_m]? -
[name_f]Do[/name_f] name meanings matter to you?
they definitely do. i don’t put names on my list with explicit religious meanings (there might be a Few exceptions), and ultimately the name i’m going to choose is going to have personal meaning to me and my partner -
What’s your opinion on traditionally masculine names for girls, and traditionally feminine names for boys?
there are some sexist connotations to wanting to give your daughter a boy’s name because it’s “stronger”, but it doesn’t really bother me that much in the end. -
Does name popularity influence your name decisions?
not really? not now at least. maybe when i’m having a real child, but for now i just like playing around with names. -
How much do other Berry opinions influence your name decisions?
probably more than they should?
sometimes people comment on my names and i’m immediately like Yes I [name_m]Will[/name_m] Change That. but honestly i post in the quick poll thread so rarely nowadays that it doesn’t happen that much. -
What’s your opinion on using long, (but beautiful), easily mispronounced non-English names in an English-speaking country?
go for it!!! go for it!!! go for it!!! of course you should consider how your child will be negatively impacted, but in the end if it’s your favorite name, it’s your favorite name. -
[name_f]Do[/name_f] you follow naming trends?
i don’t think so? but i’m also not very informed on the trends
i think my style is pretty popular on nameberry but who knows.
CATEGORY 6: MISC
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What was the FIRST name you can remember loving? Do you still like/love it now?
maybe [name_u]Lark[/name_u]? i loved [name_u]Lark[/name_u] for a boy when i was in elementary school. i like it now but i don’t think it would really consider it for my own child. maybe…

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Cutest matching names for twins?
i like twin names that have a theme but don’t sound match-y. like for example, [name_m]Sirius[/name_m] and [name_u]Orion[/name_u]! for the post part though, i think i would name twins just as i would name them if they were born in separate years. -
If you had to give your kid a family name, what name would you pick?
there are quite a few!!! there’s a major tradition in my family of passing down family surnames as middles. i won’t share those here, but for firsts i’d like to perhaps use [name_f]Josephine[/name_f]? my boyfriend doesn’t like it, but my father’s middle name is [name_m]Joseph[/name_m] and i think it would be nice to honor him like that
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What’s the best name in your family tree?
oh gosh there are so many interesting ones! i think my favorites are [name_m]Johan[/name_m] [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] and [name_f]Angélique[/name_f] [name_f]Madeleine[/name_f] though! -
[name_f]Do[/name_f] you prefer the ‘Hot Takes’ thread or the ‘Quick Poll’ thread? Why?
i like reading the hot takes, but sometimes i see the same things being repeated over and over and it gets to be quite formulaic LOL. i love love love the quick poll thread though — there are always tons of new polls to vote on and always people asking about interesting names! -
Show me some ‘aesthetic’ pictures that you feel match the vibe of your name.
anya and nikolai !! I completely forgot nikolai when I filled this out, and I’m very sad about it
also somehow forgot ginevra for a harry potter name ?? as if ginevra “ginny” isn’t in my top ten ??
HOW DID I FORGET LASZLO
thank you eliza for reminding me how silly I was when I did this questionnaire
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PLEASE
it’s funny how as soon as someone asks us to recall favorite things, they all go out the window!
Awe
that’s sweet
I was
for a second, then remembered it doesn’t have the same meaning (“slang”) in [name_f]English[/name_f] ![]()
I am definitely going to have to do this one category at a time!
CATEGORY 1: YOUR LIST
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What is your favorite girl’s name?
Jezebel. Such an underrated, beautiful name that I will never understand that hate towards. -
What is your favorite boy’s name?
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What is the longest name/combo on your list?
Olly [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] [name_u]Lyric[/name_u], though it’s not officially on my list yet. -
What is the shortest name/combo on your list?
Axel [name_u]Beau[/name_u] -
Tell me the story behind a favorite name of yours.
My names don’t really have stories, I just like what I like. [name_f]My[/name_f] love for [name_m]Bishop[/name_m] started with a book character, if that counts. And [name_u]Fallon[/name_u] started with a horse. -
What is the newest name/combo on your list?
Luna [name_f]Symphony[/name_f], again, not officially on the list. -
What is the oldest name/combo on your list?
Uhhh, I haven’t a clue. Maybe [name_f]Arabella[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] for a combo, and [name_u]Harmony[/name_u] as a single? -
What is the most underrated name on your list? (In your opinion!)
Jezebel. I will never stop singing [name_f]Jezebel[/name_f]’s praises. -
What is the most unique name on your list?
Probably Thesseus. -
What is the most common/popular name on your list?
Probably [name_m]Jack[/name_m], and possibly [name_f]Luna[/name_f]. -
If you had to let go of a name on your list, which name would it be?
Honestly, quite a few of the names are there because I’m well aware my tastes are quite…unique, and its quite possible I won’t get to use my favorites. -
What name on your list did you fall in love with at first sight?
Jezebel, [name_u]Schuyler[/name_u] & [name_u]Hartley[/name_u].
Oh I love this! I’ll do as many as I can now and come back later if I remember.
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This changes all the time, but right now it’s [name_f]Henrietta[/name_f] [name_f]Pearl[/name_f].
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This one isn’t as concrete. Right now it’s [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u], [name_m]Felix[/name_m], [name_m]Leon[/name_m], or [name_u]Jasper[/name_u].
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I think [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f] is my longest for girls and [name_m]Fitzgerald[/name_m] for boys.
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Girls I think it’s [name_u]Rue[/name_u] and boys I think it’s [name_u]Rex[/name_u].
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Henrietta [name_f]Pearl[/name_f] is my favorite name right now because of the family connection. I was drawn to [name_f]Henrietta[/name_f] a little while ago because it felt vintage and not over done. Then I learned that my dad’s grandma’s middle name was [name_f]Henrietta[/name_f] but that was the name she went by. I believe there’s also a family member on my mom’s side with the name [name_f]Henrietta[/name_f] as well. I’ve felt even more drawn to it since then. [name_f]My[/name_f] mom passed away when I was a teenager and I really want to honor her with my future children’s names, but I don’t love her first or middle name. She was born in [name_u]June[/name_u] and [name_f]Pearl[/name_f] is the birth stone of [name_u]June[/name_u]. She also really loved Disney and [name_f]Pearl[/name_f] is a character in Finding [name_m]Nemo[/name_m]. It felt like the perfect combination!
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I just added [name_f]Twyla[/name_f] and [name_f]Clementine[/name_f] to my girl’s list. I haven’t decided if Id actually use them or not but I think they’re beautiful. On my boy’s list, I just added [name_m]Norman[/name_m] (Nory), [name_m]Leroy[/name_m], and [name_u]Dale[/name_u] to my list. Again, not sure if I’ll use them, but I’m feeling the old man sort of vibes with them.
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I’ve had [name_u]Sloane[/name_u] on both my boy and girl list’s for years. [name_u]Ever[/name_u] since watching [name_u]Grey[/name_u]’s Anatomy years ago and realizing it could be used for a boy or girl I thought it was a great name. It doesn’t fit my style of naming as much now, but it’s been on my list for forever.
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Henrietta! [name_f]My[/name_f] husband isn’t totally sold on it but I think it’s just so great. I never hear it talked about or used. I really think it is so pretty.
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I have a few surnames on my boy’s list that don’t seem very popular. [name_m]Humphrey[/name_m], [name_m]Morrison[/name_m], [name_m]Gilmore[/name_m], [name_m]Delmore[/name_m], [name_m]Fitzgerald[/name_m], and [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u].
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Unfortunately, [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f] really seems to be gaining popularity. Which is a real shame because I have loved that name for so long but I don’t want her to be one of a few [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f]’s in her class. I had [name_f]Ivy[/name_f] on my list for a while but just recently took it off because it’s gained so much popularity. [name_m]Felix[/name_m] is another one that unfortunately has gained a lot of popularity. It’s been one of my top names for a while but I keep hearing it be used more and more.
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I just went through my list this morning and reorganized it and got rid of a few! For boys I let go [name_m]Briggs[/name_m] and [name_u]Hayes[/name_u]. I wasn’t feeling the S ending as much. For girls I let go of [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Ida[/name_f]. I worry about any kind of [name_m]Cor[/name_m]- starting names with Coronavirus happening. [name_f]Ida[/name_f] just isn’t feeling exciting to me anymore.
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Delilah. I heard it in the song Hey There [name_f]Delilah[/name_f] many years ago and always thought it was such a beautiful and whimsical name. [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u] has always been a favorite of mine. I never understood why it isn’t more popular than it is.
I’ll come back later and do some more! These were such fun questions thank you for making this 
CATEGORY 1
- Fave girl’s name: [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]
- Fave boy’s name: Probably [name_m]Leander[/name_m], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] or [name_m]Lachlan[/name_m]. [name_u]Love[/name_u] [name_u]Dorian[/name_u], but the meaning and cultural references aren’t great.
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Longest name/combo on your list:
I don’t seem to go above 3 syllables and don’t pre-make many combos (now that I’m naming real kids, the most important thing to me about the middle is family meaning): So [name_m]Adrian[/name_m], [name_u]Dorian[/name_u], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], [name_m]Leander[/name_m], [name_m]Jeremy[/name_m], [name_f]Margaret[/name_f], [name_f]Valerie[/name_f], [name_f]Vivienne[/name_f], [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f] all equal. -
Shortest name/combo on your list:
[name_f]Faye[/name_f]. Also [name_f]Nell[/name_f] and [name_m]Ted[/name_m] but I think I’d find a long name to use them as a nn. - Tell me the story behind a favorite name of yours. [name_f]Anthea[/name_f] I discovered in a [name_f]Margaret[/name_f] Mahy children’s novel, and I thought it was just beautiful, along with the meaning. Also [name_f]Ida[/name_f], it’s simple beauty, and [name_f]Ida[/name_f] is a character in one of [name_u]Maurice[/name_u] Sendak’s picture book trilogy, the one that “The labyrinth” movie was based on. But the popularity of [name_f]Isla[/name_f] has taken it off my list.
- Newest name/combo on your list: [name_f]Autumn[/name_f], [name_f]Ramona[/name_f] and [name_m]Desmond[/name_m] are all really new to my lists.
- Oldest name/combo on your list: [name_f]Elsie[/name_f], after my great-grandmother.
- Most underrated name on your list: I think people are too judgy about [name_f]Valerie[/name_f] as being old-fashioned - the sounds are gorgeous and it has a great meaning. Similarly [name_f]Margaret[/name_f]: ‘a pearl’ to me doesn’t just mean a pretty thing, but a pearl of wisdom, or when you think about literal pearls, the ability to turn pain and hardship into something beautiful.
- Most unique name on your list: Mersea or [name_f]Bronte[/name_f].
- Most common/popular name on your list: [name_u]Ezra[/name_u], [name_m]Oscar[/name_m], [name_f]Georgia[/name_f], or [name_f]Kate[/name_f].
- If you had to let go of a name on your list, which name would it be? [name_f]Miranda[/name_f] (I think I’m falling out of love with it?), [name_f]Elaina[/name_f] (too popular) or [name_u]Cadence[/name_u] (too GP).
- What name on your list did you fall in love with at first sight? [name_f]Aletheia[/name_f]
CATEGORY 2: THEMED NAMES
- Fave trendy name: Not sure about ‘trendy’, but my favourite currently popular name is [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]. So cute with nickname [name_f]Millie[/name_f]. Also love [name_f]Chloe[/name_f] and [name_f]Ada[/name_f].
- Guilty pleasure: Mersea - pronounced Mer-zee, like the place in [name_f]England[/name_f]. [name_u]Or[/name_u] [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f], love the character from [name_m]Pan[/name_m]’s Labyrinth and the [name_f]Natalie[/name_f] Merchant song, but [name_m]Shakespeare[/name_m]’s is a bit too tragic. [name_u]Or[/name_u] as a kid, Istari, after the Istari (wizards) from LotR. But now for me Istari is so GP it’s not really on my list.
- Fave floral: [name_f]Anthea[/name_f], or [name_f]Iris[/name_f] (though more after the goddess than the flower). GP would be [name_f]Freesia[/name_f]… the original [name_f]Freesia[/name_f] flowers like my grandma used to grow smelled BEAUTIFUL, I just hate that it sounds too close to “freezer”. For boys I love [name_u]Rowan[/name_u] and [name_u]Sage[/name_u].
- Fave word name (non-floral): [name_u]River[/name_u]
- Fave space-themed: [name_f]Astraea[/name_f]. Want to love [name_u]Orion[/name_u] - I used to like it as a kid - but I just don’t anymore.
- Fave month or week name? (e.g. [name_u]July[/name_u], [name_m]Friday[/name_m]). [name_u]August[/name_u] or [name_f]Sunday[/name_f]. Though [name_f]Wednesday[/name_f] Addams from the original (not cartoon) show makes that name pretty cool… though not usable.
- Fave Greek mythology: [name_f]Athena[/name_f]. [name_f]Goddess[/name_f] of war AND wisdom sounds like my kinda woman.
- Harry [name_m]Potter[/name_m]: [name_m]Sirius[/name_m]! [name_u]Or[/name_u] [name_f]Ginny[/name_f].
- F.R.I.E.N.D.S: [name_m]Ross[/name_m]. Such a cool name. Would use it but it just doesn’t work with our surname.
- Biblical: [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] or [name_f]Ruth[/name_f] - nothing to do with the biblical references, just that every [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] I’ve met has been so damn lovely and I like the soft sounds in it, and [name_f]Ruth[/name_f] sounds like such a strong name, and [name_f]Ruth[/name_f] [name_m]Bader[/name_m] Ginsburg was so awesome and I love poetry by [name_f]Ruth[/name_f] [name_u]Dallas[/name_u] too.
- Unfortunate meaning: [name_u]Tristan[/name_u] maybe? Though sadness can be beautiful too, like joy and sorrow in [name_m]Kahlil[/name_m] Gibran’s “The prophet”.
- Ocean: [name_f]Maren[/name_f] or [name_f]Nerida[/name_f]
- Made-up: [name_f]Merida[/name_f]
CATEGORY 3: INTERNATIONAL NAMES
- Māori: [name_f]Marama[/name_f], of the common ones that Pakeha would be more familiar with. There are much longer more beautiful ones but without the personal connection to those names, they’re not usable.
- Irish: [name_f]Caoimhe[/name_f], [name_f]Orla[/name_f], [name_m]Cian[/name_m]
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Japanese name: [name_f]Sakura[/name_f]
Other: [name_f]Mercedes[/name_f]
CATEGORY 4: TAG A BERRY
- Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] with names of a very similar style to you @chloelae - I was surprised to discover that her two daughters’ names were 2 of the top 3 we went into hospital with when naming our own daughter, AND that both her daughters’ middles were in our top 7 (and one we pretty much used for our daughter)!
- Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] with OPPOSITE style to you, but whose names you love anyway @Rosebeth - way too “out there” for my usual style (plus Icelandic names which aren’t my heritage), but gorgeous bold choices with a beautiful flow to them.
- Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] whose names you admire from afar, but rarely speak to I don’t often speak to anyone! But @SofiaSweden and @may.rose both have some gorgeous combos on their user cards.
- Tag a [name_u]Berry[/name_u] who helped you discover a love for a new name @rosajune thanks to her suggestions on one of my posts. I don’t think I would have ever seriously considered [name_m]Casper[/name_m], but now it’s one of our final two for our boy. I also NEVER would have considered [name_u]Idris[/name_u], but have since found it has family significance (ancestors from Cadair [name_u]Idris[/name_u] in [name_m]Wales[/name_m]), and am wondering about it as a possible future middle.
CATEGORY 5: OPINIONS
- What’s a name everyone seems to love, but you’re not a fan of? [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f], [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f].
- What’s a name everyone seems to dislike, but you love? [name_f]Robyn[/name_f], [name_f]Valerie[/name_f]
- What do you think of alliterative names? I don’t really like them. I don’t think they’re a bad thing if just two names that parents happened to really like or be meaningful, but I don’t understand doing it deliberately.
- Do name meanings matter to you? Yes. Particularly being personally meaningful, but I think etymological meanings can sort of matter too.
- What’s your opinion on traditionally masculine names for girls, and traditionally feminine names for boys? [name_m]Don[/name_m]’t mind at all, though personally I’d be nervous to give a boy a particularly girly/frilly name, just because society doesn’t seem to be ‘there’ yet.
- Does name popularity influence your name decisions? Yes, I steer clear of top 10 and would prefer to be clear of top 50. SO disappointing to have been a name nerd since childhood, and then reach the having kids stage and find that so much of what I like is the same as everyone else!
- How much do other [name_u]Berry[/name_u] opinions influence your name decisions? Not much, but the suggestions of other berries can be hugely helpful, as can their reasoning for liking or not liking names!
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What’s your opinion on using long, (but beautiful), easily mispronounced non-[name_f]English[/name_f] names in an [name_f]English[/name_f]-speaking country?
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Do you follow naming trends?
Sort of.
CATEGORY 6: MISC
- FIRST name you can remember loving? [name_f]Elysia[/name_f], and [name_f]Aislinn[/name_f] when I didn’t realise it was pronounced “Ashlinn” (love that ‘ai’ sound like [name_u]Ainsley[/name_u], [name_f]Elaina[/name_f], etc).
- Cutest matching names for twins? I’d just give twins their own names as I would any siblings.
- If you had to give your kid a family name, what name would you pick? Maybe [name_u]Owen[/name_u], [name_f]Elsie[/name_f], [name_f]Margaret[/name_f], [name_f]Lily[/name_f]
- What’s the best name in your family tree? I kinda like Tyrrell for a boy, and it’s unusual. And [name_f]Athene[/name_f] is interesting, seemed ahead of it’s time for the early 1900s.
- Do you prefer the ‘Hot Takes’ thread or the ‘Quick [name_u]Poll[/name_u]’ thread? Why? Quick [name_u]Poll[/name_u]… because I’ve never actually noticed the hot takes one!
My favorite made up name is Tazme, which I invented my self for my book series the dark amulet that I’m writing and will be publishing

