@_thelittlefairywren - OMG I totally am with you! We don’t have people pawning stuff off on us but the opinions and suggestions are making me wish I’d never told anyone about the baby!!!
[name_f]My[/name_f] mom is being the worst for it, she’s constantly sending me used item listings for stuff that’s nothing like what I want and keeps telling me about what my friend is doing etc etc. I tried the tactic of saying I felt it was too early to purchase things and she said “Well so and so is already buying!”
And I finally lost it and said “Well so and so is lucky enough to have never lost a baby and we waited 6 years for this baby so I don’t really care what things cost!”
It’s so frustrating, it feels like I’m being judged for wanting exactly what I want after this long road to get here!!
/end rant
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