cw: toxic relationship mention
Nicholas " Nick " Yōta Hideyoshi (27) is Lilac’s dad, Tara’s brother and fiancé of Hunter. In contrast to his soon-to-be wife, Nick has a very quiet occupation: he’s a researcher in the history department of the University of Southern California, specialising in Japan from 1300-1500 AD. This fascination stemmed from how much his paternal culture meant to him growing up, forever wanting to emulate their dad and loving family trips to Nisshin, where he grew up; something reflected in Tara’s cookery as well, a pastime the siblings love engaging in together when they have a moment spare. Their parents actually met when both of them were attending a conference in the UK funnily enough - representing their respective companies - and bonded over how mind-numbingly boring the lead speaker was, forming a long distance relationship that culminated in Mr. Hideyoshi moving to Oakland three years later, where their mom was living and working at the time. It was also where Nick and Tara were raised, him first coming to LA for his own university degree, having met Hunter at a graduation party organised by a friend of a friend which spanned across multiple colleges. It was very much love at first sight for Nick: the charismatic, fun energy Hunter emulated just caught him instantly, in spite of him definitely being more of an introvert who stuck to those he knew well and for extended periods of time.
Somehow - his own words - he managed to find the nerve to approach and strike up a conversation with her, one that lasted the rest of the night as they became wrapped in their own bubble [something their friends still love to tease them about, not that Nick really cares for how he blushes]. Being nine years older than Tara meant he and Hunter were an ideal relationship model to her: in sync and entirely understanding in their interactions, possessing excellent communication where one another were concerned that strengthened their bond as the years went by. Nick isn’t much of a big brother archetype, as he never hassled any of his sister’s boyfriends, however this ironically managed to intimidate them; as his aloof behaviour convinced several he had some unspoken grudge that needed to be appeased. From his perspective, he merely trusted his sister’s judgement in who she chose to be with, although when confronted by toxicity Nick won’t back down from addressing such behaviour, as he refuses to see anyone mistreated; especially his loved one’s.
One of his best friend’s was in a very poor relationship for several years - something that pained Nick to witness. The woman in question had been cheated on in her teens and it made her insecure to the nth degree, being incredibly hostile towards all other presumed romantic rivals, which included Hunter somehow [as she frequently compared herself to the other partners of the group, and Hunter being part of the ‘golden couple’ alongside Nick made her especially volatile]. Nick tried his best to deescalate things, talking to her by himself a few times to stop her barrage of accusations, but it became apparent she was trapped in her cycle of misconceptions, and when things ended he was truthfully relieved - as she wasn’t going to get better while in a relationship with anyone. It pained his friend greatly, as he truly loved his ex in spite of how she lashed out, but Lilac’s presence has greatly helped cheer him up, and the fact he refrained from dating in the immediate aftermath was reassuring to his friends. The only real concern facing Nick now is the upcoming discussions regarding wedding planning, as he knows there’s a lot of organising to get his extended family over from Japan [there’s going to be traditions incorporated which he obviously wants them to witness and be involved in], and without the help of his mom he’s pretty certain he’d be headed for a mental breakdown.
Hunter belongs to @Lindseylloyd052399