Wow, I know what Forum to post threads in now! Thank you so much for all the feedback so quickly, Berries! So, I can’t really respond to all of you individually, but I want to make it known that I hear you!
I tend to say the name like [name]Julia[/name] with an N, too, which, for me, is [[name]JUNE[/name]-ee-ah]. I’m not a [JOOL-ya] girl, so I’m not really a [JOON-ya] girl, either, but I see how maybe the name is easier to pronounce that way. It just sounds so much like an accented version of [name]Junior[/name] to me, though!
Whoever pointed out all the “ee” sounds going on in [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Junia[/name], you’re absolutely right. Which is what makes me want to say [JOON-ya], because it fixes the issue, right? [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Junia[/name] looks really pretty to me. I just don’t know if I like the way it sounds - choppy! - when I say it the way I pronounce [name]Junia[/name]. [name]Junia[/name] doesn’t look made up to me, but the pronunciation doesn’t come naturally, either. I’ve struggled with it for awhile but have been unable to totally attach myself to this name or let it go.
I believe it was @kyemsma who mentioned she prefers [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Iris[/name] still, which goes back to my other conversation about [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Iris[/name] versus [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Marigold[/name]. I’ve since nixed [name]Marigold[/name] because she doesn’t feel very much like me, but I don’t know if [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Iris[/name] has the right energy about her, either, hence my search for other options for the future. In fact, my third favorite girls’ name, [name]Gwendolen[/name], feels much better with [name]Iris[/name] to me - [name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Iris[/name] is all at once strong and sturdy, but also romantic and charming. At least I think so! Thus, I’m inclined to dump [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Iris[/name], but that leaves me searching. I thought I’d found it when I remembered my absolute favorite plant name - [name]Juniper[/name]. [name]Even[/name] though everyone doesn’t seem to love [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Juniper[/name], I really adore it. My only issue is that when paired with my other favorite “future” girls’ names ([name]Eliza[/name] [name]Wren[/name] and maybe [name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Iris[/name]), the whole thing is pretty theme-y. [name]Eliza[/name] [name]Wren[/name], [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Junia[/name], and [name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Iris[/name] fixed that for me. And, someone mentioned [name]Juno[/name] earlier, which I love but am unwilling to pair with [name]Phoebe[/name] - even though [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Juno[/name] sounds totally amazing! - because it’s super myth-y. Right?! So, I thought of [name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Juno[/name], which moves [name]Iris[/name] - for my Grandma [name]Irene[/name], who passed recently - back to [name]Phoebe[/name], which results in a possible sister set of [name]Eliza[/name] [name]Wren[/name], [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Iris[/name], and [name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Juno[/name]. Two things - (1) [name]Eliza[/name] [name]Wren[/name] is the only non-mythological combination, and (2) is it me or does [name]Phoebe[/name] [name]Iris[/name] lack a bit of the vivacious flair that [name]Eliza[/name] [name]Wren[/name] and [name]Gwendolen[/name] [name]Juno[/name] have?
So, there you have the full story. [name]Feel[/name] free to chime in with your thoughts!
[name]Lemon[/name]