Iām the opposite! Iām not a fan of animal names on humans, but I think animal names on dogs can be fun! Part of it may be that my big, black dog kinda looks like a bear, so [name_m]Bear[/name_m] would suit him. Also, the dog named [name_m]Goose[/name_m] I know is named after a character from Top [name_m]Gun[/name_m], not the animal. I did think [name_m]Goose[/name_m] was a weird name before I knew that though 
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i think we as a society should stop judging people based on their names and what they name their kids.
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Yes, everyoneās name choices are unique, and a name is just a label after all, itās about the person inside that matters. I have many friends whose names I dislike, but they are awesome people and thatās what matters to me.
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Iām not convinced. 
In all seriousness, itās fine to dislike names as long as weāre being respectful about it. 
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[name_m]Glen[/name_m] & [name_f]Gwen[/name_f] sound the same (in my accent, anyway)
I donāt like the name [name_f]Florence[/name_f], and that is starting to really feel like a minority opinion. I think Iād like it much better if it were a boys name. It just doesnāt sound pretty for a girl.
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Probably more of a hot take outside of NB tbh, but imo twins do not need to be named any differently from single children.
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As much as I love CAFs and getting to know new names & names from other culturesā¦ Please donāt make CAFs with names from cultures or languages you know nothing about. If itās your own culture, you speak the language or at least youāre very well informed, go ahead and make a CAF with the right spellings of the names. But if you donāt even know how to spell them correctly or you donāt know how names āworkā in that culture (Do they have middle names? Last names? How are the names given?) then please stay away from it.
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I donāt know if this is aimed at me but it feels like it is because a lot of my CAFs include names from cultures I know nothing about and canāt even spell, because I sample the whole SSA listā¦ oh well. I donāt even know if thatās what you mean but you do have a point there. [name_f]My[/name_f] logic was like āthere are people named [name_f]Jessika[/name_f], [name_m]Micheal[/name_m] or [name_m]Jaimy[/name_m] in real life who might otherwise never find their names represented in a CAFā but I see that when it comes to lesser known names that just looks like I didnāt bother to look them up.
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Oh no, thatās not at all what I had in mind! I was thinking of the CAFās where you create an entire family from a specific culture or country. The one that triggered my post was a CAF where you had to create an Icelandic family, but all the names were spelled wrong and there wasnāt any mention of the fact that Icelanders donāt typically have middle names or last names. And I have seen similar CAFs with names from other cultures before.
Of course thereās nothing wrong with using a name youāre not familiar with in a CAF, thatās not at all what I was referring to.
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I thought so, those have bothered me before as well. But I wasnāt sure and I still think the reasoning somewhat applies to mine as well.
Maybeā¦ I think itās different because irl people use names from different cultures all the time, sometimes because of their heritage, sometimes just because they like the sound of it. So whether you, if you use them in a CAF, are familiar with them or not, itās somehow realistic. Creating an āIcelandicā family with those spellings and last names/middle names is not. No Icelandic family would ever name their children like that.
But I know thatās a different point altogether.
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bridie >>>> birdie
(neither of them are my personal style, but in terms of what i like to hear on others/see in othersā combos!)
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Siblings can have the same first initial. In any order of birth. It is a restrictive idea that they cannot. I canāt imagine not naming my child something that I actually love and breaking my own heart by naming them maybe something I only like because another also starts with the same letter.
I think perhaps people who are āworriedā to use the same letters are scared to be judged, which is sad.
notes: This is not referring to a Duggars scenario. Once it becomes an obvious rule, then I see it as more limiting instead of liberating.
Also, Iām aware that people who care about this see it I think mostly as an āaestheticā thing. To each their own aesthetics. Again, however, once it becomes a rule for others that they judge by, then I see it as hypercritical. If they say itās ācheesyā then I really wonder of any good reason why. Not like weāre calling out our children by their initials.
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Completely agree!
I also feel the same way about shared meanings or international equivalents! Thereās nothing wrong or redundant with naming sisters [name_f]Anna[/name_f] and [name_f]Grace[/name_f] or even using [name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] as one combo, just because they mean the same thing. [name_m]Juan[/name_m] and [name_m]John[/name_m] might be a little much, but who cares if brothers are named [name_m]Jack[/name_m] and [name_m]Sean[/name_m]? So long as the names sound different enough, itās unlikely to ever affect them. Theyāre equivalents, but theyāre not āthe same nameā and itās not a naive mistake when parents choose these kind of names (which sometimes seems to be the condescending implication when names like them are mentioned on NB).
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I have also seen a little about it being bad to use names like Margaret and Daisy for siblings because they have the same derivation. Itās funny to me because Iām sure 99.9%+ of the world would have no idea about the connection, nor would they mind if they found out. I think they would be more perplexed that they were derived from the same name than they would be that someone would use the names for sisters together.
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[name_f]Maggie[/name_f] & [name_f]Daisy[/name_f] 
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I have two hot takes I think are directly related to being trans and the first one will likely surprise no one:
- I think names are too gender segregated.
Nameberry is more free about this, but a lot of name spaces are pretty hostile to breaking the gender binary too much or to girls āstealingā boy names and I think thatās just silly.
Thatās not to say that I think every name should be gender neutral per se, but Iād especially love to see more feminine elements in boy names. Give me the boy Sashas and Ferns and Marinells and [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] called āCassieā. I donāt think neutral or nonbinary should have to mean masculine (it absolutely can be masculine, but beautiful sounds should be allowed to exist across the spectrum). Also, let girls be Wilders and Gideons and Atlases without being accused of āruiningā their names for boys. Itās okay for a little boy to be mistaken for a girl or vice versa, especially at the age where theyāre all just little potatoes without object permanence anyway.
- I think many people place their guilty pleasure bar a little too high.
Admittedly, out trans people are a self selecting group, in that it unfortunately still takes a bit of boldness to be openly trans in todayās world. But I spend a lot of time around people who choose their own names as adults and it seems when adults choose names for themselves, they are pretty eclectic.
I see people going, āItās cute on a baby, but will an adult man really want to be Alfie?ā when I know three adult Alfies who absolutely did want that. Random words, fandom names, names in the top 100, names that are just a little weird and out of style - I know so many adults who love and choose those names.
And yeah, itās hard to know whether your baby will grow up to be a [name_f]Lily[/name_f] or a [name_f]Zenobia[/name_f], but thatās all the more reason to go bold if thatās truly what brings you pleasure. Name a little Rainforest, a little [name_m]Zebulon[/name_m], a little [name_f]Gretel[/name_f]. Bold, out-there names are awesome and I wish people didnāt feel so guilty about loving them.
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I feel so weird about the fact that (especially as a namenerd) there is basically a 100% chance that Iāve said my future child(ren)ās name(s).
Iāve read it/spoken it/had thoughts about it and I donāt even know the significance yet. What if itās one that I passed over or even said something negative about?
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Ok, this hot take is steamy, but itās really bugging meā¦
I donāt like when people type names in lowercase.
(Caveat: I kinda get it with nameberry if you donāt like the color that will be assigned.)
I mean, your kids are not going to have lower case names! When I do see people type there kids names in lowercase, it just seems weird to me. Idk, I may be alone on this one.
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