Name Embarrassment?

Have you ever embarrassed yourself by showing undue excitement when meeting someone with an unusual name?

I have.

I met a woman walking down my street. She had two huge Bouviers de Flandres dogs and we talked about them. When she said her name was Bertha, I betrayed far too much excitement at actually meeting a youngish Bertha.

I am sure she thought I was mad and skittered down the road.

I still wince when I think of it. Yet still… a youngish Bertha!

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oh i know the name nerd embarrassment all too well!

i once went for coffee with a friend who told me her new nephew was called emilio! i almost started crying … haha!

if it makes you feel better, i would’ve been excited to meet a bertha too.

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It does! :slight_smile:

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Yes! [name_f]My[/name_f] friend’s sister was visiting and I bumped into them in the street. When she introduced herself I think I may have literally yelped in excitement :flushed:

To be fair, her name was Morvern :heart:

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Well, that’s worth at least a yelp!

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Honestly I did this the other day!!

I was in the park the other day with [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] she was playing with an older little girl I got talking to her mum asking what her daughter’s name was and she said [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] I squealed.

Like embarrassingly squealed

I never come across another [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] so for me it was so exciting to meet another one. I quickly explained that my daughter is [name_f]Lilia[/name_f] and how everyone mistakes her name etc but she definitely looked at me like I was barmy.

So yes been there sometimes you just can’t contain the name nerd

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Yes! Yesterday actually. Two of my friends told me that they knew a girl named [name_f]Winnie[/name_f], and they were telling me something about how funny she was… and I just gushed, started fawning over the name [name_f]Winnie[/name_f] and asking if her full name might be the beautiful [name_f]Winifred[/name_f]! [name_f]My[/name_f] friends said they had no idea, and I was a little embarrassed by how excited I’d been… but what can I say!? I love a good name. :relaxed:

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This is too relatable. When I found out my friend had a sister named [name_f]Yemima[/name_f], I just about lost it!

[name_m]Can[/name_m] I use this as a quote for our Instagram?

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Absolutely. Does this make me a 60 year old hipster?? :slight_smile:

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Haha, thank you! I guess it does :smile:

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I encountered a baby [name_m]Caspian[/name_m] in a cafe and was very noticeably excited and the family gave me a look :grin:

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I’m Autistic and quite unable to tell when something I’ve done is embarrassing unless it’s pointed out explicitly — I just don’t notice peoples reactions like that! But reading through this thread I’m near certain I’ve had many moments.

I ask near everyone I meet for their middle name, and got ridiculously excited when a parent at work introduced her daughter as [name_f]Clementine[/name_f]. Well, there are worse things to be.

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This happens all the time to me. But luckily sometimes people are nice about it or flattered haha. I met a cute pup named Bob the other day and his parents appreciated my excitement. :laughing:

This has happened with people with very Irish names: Niamh, Siobhan, Mairead. They’re all surprised when I know how to spell or pronounce their names.

I think I would have reacted the same way if I met a young Bertha!

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There really ought to be an annual nameberry convention with whole panels dedicated to Embarrassing Name Moments, Single, Double of Triple Middles?, and Names to Expunge and Names to Glorify!

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Lol yep! I once wrote a couple of paragraphs on someone’s baby name announcement about how wonderful the names were :grimacing: they thankfully weren’t weirded out but, looking back, I can see how it probably looked to others haha.

[name_f]Bertha[/name_f] is really cool! I’d love to see it used unironically…I went to school with a girl who went by Burtha (as in Big [name_f]Bertha[/name_f] because she was overweight, loud and proud). It became a joke and I still think of her/that when I hear the name.

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Luckily this happened around my good friends who know I have name craziness…but I learned that my friend’s father has a girlfriend named [name_f]Clementine[/name_f]. A woman around 70. And apparently he had a previous girlfriend named [name_u]Cleo[/name_u]! I asked too many questions about what her middle name is, if she has any siblings, etc. Of course, they didn’t know. :sob:

I read your post & thought at first that the dog was named [name_f]Bertha[/name_f]. How cute would that be?!

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Oh yes. One of my friends from university named her first daughter [name_u]Vesper[/name_u]. I’d expected her to come up with something unusual and meaningful, but when she told us in a group chat what she’d named the baby I was way too excited in my response :sweat_smile:

[name_f]My[/name_f] husband is a name nerd as well. The plus side is that he completely understands my excitement when it comes to names, and I never have to ask him what his co-worker named their baby, for example, because he texts me the second he finds out. Only yesterday I received a text from him while he was at the supermarket because he’d seen a cashier named [name_f]Adela[/name_f] and couldn’t wait to tell me until he got home :joy: The down side of this is that we tend to forget other people don’t always understand our enthusiasm :sweat_smile:

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I try to remain as calm and collected as possible. I’m great at keeping my excitement internalized. :sweat_smile:

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[name_u]Love[/name_u] this! [name_f]My[/name_f] husband is lucky if he even remembers the gender!

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I don’t know that I’ve ever reacted in an embarrassing way to hearing a name (I’m pretty good at containing my excitement), but I have been embarrassed a little by my tendency to ask everyone about their babies/grandbabies names, middle names, siblings’ names, cousins’ names, etc. I’m always checking in with friends who know people who are expecting: “Have they had the baby yet?”
“I don’t know.”
“Can you check?”

I always get the feeling they think I am weirdly obsessed but are too polite to say so. :sweat_smile:

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