Name Hunt: Agent 007

I agree that having to explain that you’re actually an eighth child due to a miscarriage would be rather sad. What about a name related to the number seven? Maybe not [name_f]Septima[/name_f], but [name_f]Felicity[/name_f] means “happy, lucky”, so she could be lucky number seven! (And there’s also variations [name_u]Felice[/name_u] and [name_f]Felicia[/name_f]).

If [name_f]Esmeralda[/name_f] isn’t quite right, what about [name_f]Esperanza[/name_f] (which funnily enough also means “hope”)? Some others that give me an [name_f]Esmeralda[/name_f]-vibe: [name_f]Magdalena[/name_f], [name_f]Paloma[/name_f], [name_f]Lavinia[/name_f], [name_f]Salomea[/name_f], [name_f]Oriana[/name_f], [name_f]Valeriana[/name_f].

Along the lines of [name_f]Mariska[/name_f], here’s some other -ska ending names that could lead to [name_u]Skye[/name_u] as a nickname: [name_f]Agneska[/name_f], [name_f]Alaska[/name_f], [name_f]Anoushka[/name_f], [name_f]Eliska[/name_f], [name_f]Franziska[/name_f], [name_f]Valeska[/name_f]. It bothers me a little that most of those are actually diminutive forms, but I think they can work well enough as formal names in English.

I think all the connections [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] has for you are pretty cool, although you husband totally killed the cool factor of [name_f]Io[/name_f] with his cow comment! I’ll never be able to look at [name_f]Io[/name_f] the same. Maybe [name_f]Thea[/name_f] or [name_u]Theo[/name_u] could work as a nickname? Or to split the difference between his mainstream [name_f]Violet[/name_f] and your obscure [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f], there’s also [name_f]Violetta[/name_f] or [name_f]Yolanda[/name_f].

@mombaloo - sorry I missed your message before - [name_f]Carlotta[/name_f] is definitely going to be to Phantom of the [name_f]Opera[/name_f] for us. There are surprisingly less “lottie” names than I figured would be out there!

@mega_muffin - Eh, I’m going to have to go into “simmer mode” here. I don’t seem to love any of these suggestions, even though they are good ([name_f]Yolanda[/name_f] is definitely less crazy while still being interesting, but we knew one and while she was nice, the association is way too strong). I really don’t know what direction I [name_f]DO[/name_f] want to go, just a whole bunch of vetoes. I think I’m going to have to file [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] away along with [name_f]Constance[/name_f] AND [name_f]Violet[/name_f] as possible middle honor-names, otherwise I’m going to get hung up on “but does it work with [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f]” and that’s just putting the cart before the horse. Choose what to call the kid, THEN make a nice combo for the full name.

Hubby seems to be coming around to [name_f]Verity[/name_f], that was added to the list, and [name_f]Serafina[/name_f] was also OK though nobody is nuts about it. At the moment, we both seem to like these alright. Either we haven’t found “the one,” we need a nickname to make something more appealing, or we’re just going to have to wait and see if something “grows” on someone.

[name_f]Verity[/name_f]
[name_f]Ariadne[/name_f]
[name_f]Marigold[/name_f] (might use a nickname on this one?)
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Penelope[/name_f] (nn Nellie?)
[name_f]Serafina[/name_f]
[name_f]Lottie[/name_f] (I’d like a full name here, Ottilie is the best idea so far)
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u] (could use this standalone, or as a nn for something else)
[name_f]Zaria[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f] (nn Vix? but I think we’re really after something LIKE this)
[name_u]Marian[/name_u]
[name_u]Meredith[/name_u]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f], (also [name_f]Adela[/name_f])
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] (maybe a nickname here)
[name_f]Ivanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Skye[/name_f] (as a nn, though none of the -ska names are doing it for me)
[name_f]Anya[/name_f] (also nn, I don’t like it as a standalone)

  • Or maybe keep sniffing around names that are “like” these but lean slightly to the unusual side?

[name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f]/[name_f]Constance[/name_f]/[name_f]Violet[/name_f] put aside as possible honor middles.

From your fun list, I think [name_f]Ravenna[/name_f] works with your other kids names.

@summs - Thanks for the input! Unfortunately, my husband vetoed [name_f]Ravenna[/name_f] because he thought it looked like the word, “ravenous.”

[name_f]Annika[/name_f], maybe? For a longer name for [name_f]Anya[/name_f]. Overall I think your list is really lovely. I especially love [name_f]Serafina[/name_f], [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] nn Vix, [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f] and [name_f]Felicity[/name_f].

[name_f]Veronica[/name_f]
[name_f]Zelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Madelief[/name_f]
[name_f]Rowena[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Letitia[/name_f]
[name_f]Vittoria[/name_f]
[name_f]Marina[/name_f]
[name_f]Fiammetta[/name_f]
Séverine
[name_f]Cassia[/name_f]

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] [name_f]Sarah[/name_f], congrats! I remember you back from my old account days. :wink:
Your husband sounds somewhat like mine! J isn’t into naming but when he weighs in, he ruins my favorites with random negative comments ([name_f]Jelena[/name_f] looks like the word “jealous”?), suggests some unexpected names ([name_f]Solveig[/name_f], heh?) or vetoes everything…
From your updated list I really like [name_u]Marian[/name_u], [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] (I have a [name_f]Cornelia[/name_f]!) and [name_f]Ivanna[/name_f] (seems to be very much your style). And Vix? That’s my nickname! I am obviously biased but I loooove it.
Nickname-wise: [name_f]Valentina[/name_f] for [name_f]Lottie[/name_f]? [name_f]Anouk[/name_f]/Annoushka for [name_f]Anya[/name_f]? [name_f]Alaska[/name_f] or [name_f]Saskia[/name_f] or Tamarisk for [name_u]Skye[/name_u]?

Random suggestions:
Rowenna
[name_u]Romy[/name_u]
[name_f]Marisol[/name_f]
[name_f]Astrid[/name_f] (problematic first syllable?)
[name_f]Leona[/name_f]
[name_f]Frida[/name_f]
[name_f]Zelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Andromeda[/name_f] ([name_u]Romy[/name_u]? [name_f]Emmy[/name_f]? [name_u]Andy[/name_u]?)
[name_f]Antonina[/name_f] ([name_f]Tonya[/name_f] or [name_f]Nina[/name_f]?)
[name_f]Susanna[/name_f] or [name_f]Zuzanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Cadenza[/name_f] or [name_f]Cadence[/name_f]

It sounds like you and DH have agreement on [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f] and [name_f]Zaria[/name_f]?

If you’re still looking for a fn for [name_u]Ruby[/name_u], I know a [name_f]Rubina[/name_f] nn [name_u]Ruby[/name_u]. Apparently [name_f]Rubetta[/name_f] is another variation.

Quick reply - There’s agreement to some extent on all the most recently listed names. Now, some of that agreement is pretty tentative, or grudging, or trying pretty hard for the sake of the other, but all of those represent some sort of middle-ground territory. Other than [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] which we both love and is confusing everything, there’s probably the most agreement on [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f], [name_f]Felicity[/name_f], [name_u]Ruby[/name_u], and [name_f]Constance[/name_f].

Not that it’s represented here, but I’ve noticed a few consistencies of overlap. Some of these are my picks, some are his, some are from past searches, some were on shared lists, but at some point one or both of us liked these:

[name_m]Long[/name_m] I: [name_f]Iris[/name_f], [name_f]Isla[/name_f], [name_f]Irene[/name_f], [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f], [name_f]Iona[/name_f], [name_f]Ione[/name_f], Iverine, [name_f]Ianthe[/name_f]
Z names: [name_f]Zelda[/name_f], [name_f]Zaria[/name_f], Zuzia, [name_f]Zinnia[/name_f], [name_f]Zelie[/name_f] (and we have Zeph@n)
Ends in NE: [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f], [name_u]Dagny[/name_u], [name_f]Hermione[/name_f]
Internal D: [name_f]Deirdre[/name_f], [name_f]Zelda[/name_f]
Internal G: Peregr!ne, [name_u]Dagny[/name_u], [name_m]Ragnar[/name_m], [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
Internal O: [name_m]Georg[/name_m]!a, [name_f]Aurora[/name_f], [name_f]Marigold[/name_f], [name_f]Victoria[/name_f]

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] Saracita! Congrats on your pregnancy! I notice you say you both [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f]. Umm…that seems like pretty high praise. And you both love the nn [name_f]Lottie[/name_f], which is right within [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f]. Seems pretty cool to me!

I also really love [name_f]Marigold[/name_f]. Seems to fit your English garden girl theme. I think there are tons of cute NBA you could use - Mimsy ([name_m]Lewis[/name_m] [name_u]Carroll[/name_u]!), [name_f]Mia[/name_f], [name_f]Mamie[/name_f], [name_f]Mitzi[/name_f] ([name_f]Marigold[/name_f] [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] T- mit!), [name_f]Mimma[/name_f]. I personally like [name_f]Goldie[/name_f]/[name_f]Golda[/name_f] as well. I always think of the mother in Fiddler on the Roof. ”

@luneth - You know, I think it’s a generally nice list, too - just not crazy for anything, at least not yet. (Maybe i will be a boy! So much easier! Haha!) From your suggestions, [name_f]Zelia[/name_f] goes on the list for Hubby to reivew. I like [name_f]Veronica[/name_f], [name_f]Madelief[/name_f], [name_f]Rowena[/name_f], [name_f]Magnolia[/name_f], [name_f]Fiammetta[/name_f], and [name_f]Cassia[/name_f] too, but I can’t actually see us really using them, they got nixed for personal associations, or are too similar to other kids names (Caspi@n).

@thefairophelia - [name_m]Hi[/name_m]! Haha, yeah, husbands do that sometimes. I don’t have any room to talk though, I can trash his list just as quickly, and we both have weird inconsistencies. “The spelling of Edelweiss is to weird to use. Let’s use Tzeitel!” For real, he did that once. But then I also recently realized that I like [name_f]Saoirse[/name_f], Shiphrah, and Siofra, but not [name_u]Sasha[/name_u]. What? That makes no sense. I like [name_f]Zelia[/name_f] from your list, also [name_f]Andromeda[/name_f] was a serious contender last time (and [name_f]Anya[/name_f] works for a nn, we hadn’t thought of that before, though “androgynous” was a negative). [name_f]Leona[/name_f], maybe? Someone else suggested [name_f]Valentina[/name_f] nn [name_f]Lottie[/name_f] and I’m still trying to process that idea. I wish I could love [name_f]Astrid[/name_f], but yes that first syllable kills it for me, and the rest are too easy to knock off when I go into super-mega-overthinking-for-my-own kid mode ([name_f]Marisol[/name_f]-Parasol). Good to know that Vix works [name_m]IRL[/name_m] :slight_smile:

@mousehouse7 - [name_m]Hi[/name_m] again! Pretty high praise yes, though we’ve loved others that were train wrecks of spelling and eventually let them go ([name_f]Saoirse[/name_f], Tzeitel, Edelweiss, etc.) so it’s going to take some long deliberation before we jump in on [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f]. I’m pretty convinced that this one will be a headache, maybe not as bad as some, but a bear, for sure. I tried to make [name_f]Lottie[/name_f] work as a nn for [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] before, but it’s just not working for me. I thought of [name_f]Golda[/name_f] from Fiddler as a nn for [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] too, but then I realized [name_f]Golda[/name_f] and [name_m]Georg[/name_m]!a is way too close, and then there’s still the [name_f]Merry[/name_f]-and-Pipp!n thing to ward off. We have cousins [name_f]Mimi[/name_f] and MaeMae, too, so, the field is a little bit crowded on this one, though [name_f]Mitzi[/name_f] is clever.

This is the best thread I have ever read.

Okay, so names that are similar to those on your list…

I think [name_f]Felicity[/name_f] and [name_f]Verity[/name_f] are definitely the best of the -ity names, but there’s also [name_f]Serenity[/name_f], [name_f]Charity[/name_f], [name_f]Clarity[/name_f], and [name_f]Amity[/name_f]. And I just thought of [name_f]Carys[/name_f], which isn’t an -ity name, but has such a nice meaning, “love”.

[name_u]Meredith[/name_u] makes me think of [name_f]Morwenna[/name_f], [name_f]Morgana[/name_f], Asenath, [name_f]Tanith[/name_f], [name_f]Edith[/name_f], [name_f]Ferelith[/name_f] (too bad your sister loves [name_f]Faye[/name_f] so much; [name_f]Ferelith[/name_f] nicknamed [name_f]Faye[/name_f] would be pretty), and [name_f]Gwenyth[/name_f].

I love Greek girls names that end with the -ee sound, so if [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f] and [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] aren’t quite it, there’s [name_f]Danae[/name_f], [name_f]Calliope[/name_f], [name_f]Selene[/name_f], [name_f]Persephone[/name_f], and [name_f]Nephele[/name_f]. (Along with the more common [name_f]Zoe[/name_f], [name_f]Chloe[/name_f], [name_f]Daphne[/name_f], and [name_f]Phoebe[/name_f], of course.)

If you like [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] nicknamed Vix, what about [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f] nicknamed [name_m]Bix[/name_m]? And I think I remember reading somewhere that the original version of [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f] was Viatrix, which would also be pretty cool.

I love tfzolghadr’s suggestion of [name_f]Ottoline[/name_f] to get to [name_f]Lottie[/name_f]. [name_f]Lottie[/name_f] feels a little more instinctive as a nickname for [name_f]Ottoline[/name_f] than [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f] (although I think it works for her, too) and [name_f]Ottoline[/name_f] is easier to pronounce.

[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] has some great nickname possibilities: [name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_f]Delia[/name_f], [name_f]Della[/name_f], [name_f]Lia[/name_f], [name_u]Corey[/name_u]. [name_f]Della[/name_f] is similar to [name_f]Nellie[/name_f] and [name_f]Adele[/name_f]/[name_f]Adela[/name_f], so I particularly like that one for you, although I’m not sure how I like it with Da1sy.

Speaking of [name_f]Adele[/name_f], there’s also [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], [name_f]Adelina[/name_f], [name_f]Adeliza[/name_f], and [name_f]Adelia[/name_f].

If none of the -ska names are working out as a formal name for Skye, then maybe a sky-related name? Celia, Celeste, Celestia, Celestina? Oh, or my personal favorite guilty pleasure, Scholastica! I kinda love Scholastica nicknamed Skye now…

You would lose the fun February connections, but instead of Iolanthe, what about Chrysanthe? You would still have the -anthe part to honor Ethan (and maybe there’s a birthday or anniversary in November you might want to honor?). Or maybe Anthea? I could see Anya working as a nickname…for any of those names, actually! Would that make Iolanthe more wearable?

Anya would also work for any Anna- or -anna name.

And just some random suggestions:

[name_u]Vesper[/name_u]
[name_f]Isolde[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]
[name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f]
[name_f]Sunniva[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Endellion[/name_f]
[name_f]Mathilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Odette[/name_f]

C@spian, Zeph@n, Peregr1ne, Ev3, Dulc1nea, Georg1a &

[name_f]Cleo[/name_f]
[name_f]Livie[/name_f]
Violine
[name_u]Valentine[/name_u]
[name_u]Ellery[/name_u]
[name_f]Arcadia[/name_f]
[name_f]Octavia[/name_f]
[name_f]Astoria[/name_f]
Esterel
[name_f]Estelle[/name_f]
Sterenn
[name_f]Irene[/name_f]
Isalys
[name_f]Isaline[/name_f]
Isatis
[name_f]Irina[/name_f]
Isilda
Iriselle
[name_f]Ethel[/name_f]
Erell
Eirlys
[name_f]Eileen[/name_f]
[name_f]Harlow[/name_f]
[name_u]Marlowe[/name_u]
[name_u]Sage[/name_u]
[name_u]Fable[/name_u]
[name_u]Peyton[/name_u]
[name_f]Trixie[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrix[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Florie[/name_f]
[name_f]Florine[/name_f]
[name_f]Liberty[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicie[/name_f]
Fanelie
Briseis
Atalante
Belize
[name_f]Beryl[/name_f]
[name_f]Gloria[/name_f]
Skyleia
Skylark
[name_f]Lark[/name_f]
[name_u]Lou[/name_u]
Aube
[name_f]Aure[/name_f] / Or
Philippina
[name_f]Alexine[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f]
[name_f]Edith[/name_f]
[name_f]Eunice[/name_f]
[name_f]Isadora[/name_f]
[name_f]Theodora[/name_f]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f]
[name_f]Aya[/name_f]
[name_f]Ayala[/name_f]
[name_f]Ayla[/name_f]
[name_f]Alaya[/name_f]
[name_f]Summer[/name_f]
Circea
[name_f]Xanthe[/name_f]
Xotchil
[name_f]Galatea[/name_f]
Amalthea
[name_f]Apollonia[/name_f]
[name_f]Cornelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_u]Drew[/name_u]
Astrabel
Azelma
[name_f]Selma[/name_f]
[name_f]Thelma[/name_f]
[name_f]Zulma[/name_f]
Anouchka
[name_u]Demeter[/name_u]
Rinesa
[name_f]Roxane[/name_f]
[name_f]Anissa[/name_f]
[name_f]Janelle[/name_f]
Zulmie
[name_f]Zelie[/name_f]
Azelie
Azilis
Armelle
[name_f]Ambrosia[/name_f]
[name_f]Amarante[/name_f]
[name_u]Calypso[/name_u]
[name_m]Calisto[/name_m]
Myrto
[name_f]Myrtle[/name_f]
Esmeray / Esmérée
Esmerie / Ismérie
[name_f]Ismay[/name_f]
Edmée
Aglaia
Agapé
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Heidi[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]
[name_f]Zephyra[/name_f]
[name_f]Saphira[/name_f]
[name_f]Zephyrine[/name_f]
Euphrosine
[name_f]Euphemia[/name_f]
[name_f]Eugenie[/name_f]
[name_f]Eulalia[/name_f]
Ravenelle

@kateyb1012 -Ahahaha! [name_f]Glad[/name_f] I could be of entertainment.

@tfzolghadr & @mega_muffin - Ok I’ll just reply to both of you together, both of you had some nice observations on the sibling set, and comments, and suggestions, and there was a lot of information so I just had to go think about it for a little.

I liked [name_f]Ottoline[/name_f] at first, but the more I see Ottostuffafterit I just think “Ottoman Empire,” and I don’t really love [name_f]Ottilie[/name_f], so I think this one is probably going to fall off. You want to know what’s revollting? [name_f]Lottie[/name_f] is an adorable nickname for… [name_f]Lolita[/name_f]. Which is also adorable. And entirely, entirely unusable. Waah!

[name_f]Octavia[/name_f] is now off because it’s too confusing for a #7 and too sad to explain the technicality of the loss years ago that actually makes it #8. We’re just going to go with the number of living children, and I did try to find some seven-meaning names, but it’s pretty slim pickings ([name_f]Septima[/name_f] would be cool if not for starting out like sepsis!), so I have to agree with @mega_muffin’s previous comment about going with the “lucky 7” thought. I want to like [name_f]Olympia[/name_f], but it just can’t stand up to [name_f]Octavia[/name_f].

[name_u]Skye[/name_u] is also leaving because it sounds too much like [name_u]Kai[/name_u], which is pretty popular for boys in my region. It did occur to me that I HAD two options on my original list - [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] and [name_f]Vasiliki[/name_f] — that would have worked as long form options for it. Ha! Oh, well. Scholastica is really fun, I like that, but it would be way too close to the publishing company for a real person to wear.

[name_f]Verity[/name_f] is on the list now of considerations now and objectively, it seems like a good blend/bridging of styles we have going on already with the other kids’ names. I added [name_f]Amelie[/name_f] for Hubby to look at. Also [name_f]Adara[/name_f]. [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] gets a boost because those really are some great nn options, I like that. [name_f]Della[/name_f] has been a pet favorite for awhile, though yeah, it’s less ideal with Da!sy. I like [name_f]Cora[/name_f] as well, though maybe it would be confusing [name_m]IRL[/name_m] next to Georg1a

(BTW random thought alert: I did reconsider [name_f]Saoirse[/name_f] decided it’s no less confusing than [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f], which I like better, and is easier for me to remember how to spell. Seriously, it’s bad enough remembering all the birthdates at the doctor’s without struggling with spelling). I like [name_f]Soraya[/name_f] but it sounds so similar to Dulc!nea that I took it back off. [name_f]Nova[/name_f], [name_f]Opal[/name_f], and [name_f]Oriana[/name_f] were on my serious list for a long time but I’ve moved on from them now.

Maybe, it might grow on me to [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f], and [name_f]Odette[/name_f]. They will get some more simmering.

Chrysanthe is nice (as are the other Greek names) but it’s for sure going to be too close to chrysanthemum — a word you can’t say while you’re chewing your gum — and the siblings would endlessly be singing (The Impossible Chrysanthemum Song (feat. Trev Tevis) - YouTube). [name_f]Anthe[/name_f] and [name_f]Anthea[/name_f], also have considered those, they are nice, not as nice as [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] though. [name_f]Daphne[/name_f] is one my husband likes, but I only hear “daffy.” A good deal of the appeal of [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] is that it’s a [name_m]Gilbert[/name_m] & [name_u]Sullivan[/name_u] name, we like it for that reason; and actually it’s a plus that this one doesn’t have a big legend attached, the [name_f]Io[/name_f] part notwithstanding. We both do happen to like a lot of Greek names in general, though.

I like almost all the [name_u]Meredith[/name_u]-inspired names, especially Asenath (and cool meaning too!), but I don’t think that’s any less-out there than my starting point, but I might tuck it away for combos. All the [name_u]Gwyn[/name_u]-names were high on my list for ages and ages, but I finally got tired of them and booted the lot. This did inspire me to go look up ends-in-TH names, and I was surprised to realize how many there are that I like.

[name_m]General[/name_m] Comments:
Along with some of the other [name_u]Berry[/name_u] suggestions that made it for my husband to look at, I looked up a heap of I-starting Greek names and pesented presented [name_f]Ianthe[/name_f], [name_f]Ione[/name_f], Ianthia/Ianthea. To which he commented, “Might as well use the whole [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f] as these.”

[name_f]Isolde[/name_f] (I really love this one): “looks like ‘I sold.’”

Colanthe: “sounds like calamity.”

Yet my reservation on [name_f]Violet[/name_f]/violent eludes him. He says he just doesn’t see it. I cracked up laughing. You see “I sold” but not “violent”? That’s weird. Clearly, sane people accidentally add Ns when reading [name_f]Violet[/name_f], and who ever heard of someone sold’a-ing anything?

So all this to say. The list is still forming, and thanks very much for the ideas. As far as the Greek names go, everything was held up to the standard of Iolanthe (the way-out-there that we both like), Ariadne (the arguably less crazy option), and Penelope (the arguably mainstream option), so after looking through all those similar-to names, I’ve realized that we probably ACTUALLY want something totally different that Iolanthe could go WITH as the middle. Which, yeah, I just said yesterday I didn’t want to fall into. And I still don’t want to fall down the rabbit hole there. But, I think the Greek and I names have probably been exhausted, don’t go mad searching those.

This is the most recent list in progress, with at least nominal approval, by both parents, of entertaining the options (there’s another list waiting for Hubby to look at but none of those have been added to this list):

Verity
Ariadne
Marigold
Felicity
Penelope (nn Nellie?)
Serafina
Lottie (currently unattached)
Ruby
Zaria
Victoria (nn Vix?)
Marian
Meredith
Adele/Adela
Cordelia (Cora, Della?)
Ivanna
Anya*(nn)
Andromeda (Anya?)
Rhonwen?
Iolanthe
Constance
Violet

P.S. @mccharlie - Whoa, big long list, I saw this after I had spent all my breaks of the day working on the previous reply. I’ll take a look, thanks. :slight_smile:

@mccharlie - I had a chance to go through your long list. I like [name_u]Valentine[/name_u]. This one I can’t decide whether to put on the list - the baby is due in [name_f]February[/name_f] so it’s something I would at least consider, but on the other hand we know a boy [name_u]Valentine[/name_u] who is about 2, and it seems weird. They pronounce it like [name_f]Valen[/name_f]-tin so it would be very close to a valen-teen. [name_f]Liberty[/name_f], [name_f]Thea[/name_f], [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], [name_f]Cora[/name_f], and [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f]/[name_f]Trixie[/name_f] are all nice. [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f], [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f] and [name_f]Liberty[/name_f] are newly up for consideration (though [name_f]Liberty[/name_f] has made appearances for more than a decade); [name_f]Cora[/name_f] is on as a nn maybe for [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f], [name_f]Thea[/name_f] also as a nn maybe for a Greek name.

If I could get a list of about maybe a dozen top favorites, I’d go ahead and put them up on our post-it-notes on the bathroom mirror (we did a game using these last time and it worked really well). Right now the list is at 25-30, and sans any standout (lacking pretty significant “buts”) it may be a matter of letting something grow on us, working through the “buts,” or hoping some other inspiration will strike. I might just put the whole lot up so we see all the names, and just watch what happens over time.

I’m dropping [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] because it’s at #27 and has positively skyrocketed over the past decade. If it were something I LOVED, then I might not care, but this one already has a bunch of little strikes against it and this is the proverbial “straw that broke the camel’s back.”

Here’s “the lot” at the moment:

[name_f]Verity[/name_f]
[name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f]
[name_f]Constance[/name_f] (really wish I could find a modern nn for this. I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] LOVED the suggestion of [name_f]Tansy[/name_f] but our surname is T with two syllables and a Y.)
[name_f]Ariadne[/name_f]
[name_f]Marigold[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Serafina[/name_f]
[name_f]Lottie[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Zaria[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f] (nn Vix?)
[name_u]Marian[/name_u]
[name_u]Meredith[/name_u]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]/[name_f]Adela[/name_f]
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] ([name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_f]Della[/name_f])
[name_f]Ivanna[/name_f]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f]*(also nn, I don’t like it as a standalone)
[name_f]Andromeda[/name_f]
[name_f]Rhonwen[/name_f]? (we both “sort of” like this but aren’t sure… the -wen names are tricky)
[name_f]Adara[/name_f]
[name_f]Una[/name_f] (Husband has vetoed but I think it’s worth keeping on)
[name_f]Zinnia[/name_f] (also vetoed but I think it could grow on him)
[name_f]Violet[/name_f] (as a middle only, I don’t see any chance of my agreeing to this as a first)

[name_f]Liberty[/name_f] and [name_u]River[/name_u] might possibly go on, eh, IDK.

EDIT: Also dropped:
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrix[/name_f]

I looove [name_f]Constance[/name_f], it’s beautiful. Personally, I don’t think [name_f]Tansy[/name_f] is too much with your surname - it’s not [name_f]Tansy[/name_f] [name_m]Turner[/name_m] or [name_f]Tansy[/name_f] [name_m]Tanner[/name_m], you know? - but of course it’s up to you to decide. Have you considered [name_f]Nancy[/name_f], [name_f]Coco[/name_f], [name_f]Nannie[/name_f], [name_f]Annie[/name_f], [name_f]Nonnie[/name_f], Stancy (like [name_u]Stacy[/name_u] with N or [name_f]Tansy[/name_f] with S)? I think [name_f]Anya[/name_f] could work, too. Or [name_f]Andromeda[/name_f] “[name_f]Anya[/name_f]”?
And I obviously love [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] nn Vix! :wink:

Oooh let’s see I like:
[name_f]Verity[/name_f], maybe watch Poldark for some extra exposure to the name and see if she moves up or down on your list
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrix[/name_f] - [name_f]Bea[/name_f] and [name_f]Trixie[/name_f] are both cute nn, not sure I love this with your surname
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] - I really like [name_f]Cora[/name_f] and [name_f]Della[/name_f] as a nice balance to [name_m]Georg[/name_m]!a
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f] - the nn lissy kills it for me too, but I still like the name
I also like [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] and [name_f]Zinnia[/name_f] but maybe too flora with D@siy but maybe not

I think [name_f]Una[/name_f] spelled [name_f]Oona[/name_f] would be great! (a sly nod to 007, get it?). I like the two oo’s together - like owl eyes! So happy and charismatic, imo. I also really like [name_u]Marian[/name_u] for you, which is kind of weird in that I’m not normally a huge cheerleader of [name_u]Marian[/name_u], but your other names are all quite classic and elegant and ‘grown up’, and [name_u]Marian[/name_u] fits right in with that while being completely different sounding, as well. I like the nns [name_f]Minna[/name_f] or Minnow - those seem sweet. [name_f]Ariadne[/name_f] is my other favorite from your list. I’ve never met one irl, but the name is familiar and intriguing, fun to say, I like her story (as a woman problem-solver no less!) and [name_u]Ari[/name_u] is a great little nn,too.

I really love [name_f]Constance[/name_f] for you. What do you think of these as a nn for [name_f]Constance[/name_f]:
[name_f]Cece[/name_f]
[name_f]Coco[/name_f]
[name_f]Cate[/name_f]
Caty- one of your suggestions from an old thread!
[name_u]Cato[/name_u]

From your list I also adore [name_f]Victoria[/name_f] nn Vix, [name_f]Iolanthe[/name_f], [name_u]Meredith[/name_u], [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] and [name_f]Marigold[/name_f].

From an old thread I saw you had the name Iselda on your list. [name_u]Love[/name_u] it! have you thought about that name for this baby?

@thefairophelia - Thanks, those actually are some new ideas, [name_f]Nonnie[/name_f] for sure is a new idea. The [name_f]Nancy[/name_f] ones kind of kill it for me. The problem is that I’m in love with the concept of [name_f]Constance[/name_f], not the actual sounds, so it hangs around in limbo like this. [name_f]Andromeda[/name_f] nn [name_f]Anya[/name_f] is around, thanks. :slight_smile:

@saraB - Good night. What in the world was I thinking? [name_f]Trixie[/name_f] is even worse than [name_f]Tansy[/name_f] with the surname, and I have a niece [name_f]Bianca[/name_f] nn [name_f]Bee[/name_f]. Goodbye, [name_f]Beatrix[/name_f]. I am exonerated for not being a Proper [name_u]Berry[/name_u] and being in love with you. You know, actually the same goes for [name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]. I feel like I SHOULD love it if I just tried, but I only think of Australia and this one girl I knew growing up. Not familiar with Poldark so I guess I’ll have to go do some Googling…

@mousehouse - I’m thinking the [name_f]Una[/name_f] spelling was the only one my husband would even consider, I’m sure he had some smart remark about [name_f]Oona[/name_f], but it was… one or two kids ago when he made it so I don’t remember anymore. [name_u]Marian[/name_u] has always seemed fitting - [name_u]Robin[/name_u] Hood and all that. It’s progress that the Hubby didn’t immediately toss it on sight like he has other times, though now we have 2 cousins with [name_f]Mary[/name_f]-based names so it feels less original. I should post my list sometime with all the “buts” and then everyone will see why I’m not in love with anything in particular.

@girlywhirly - Caty was my own suggestion? Well, I was clever that day and then forgot all about it. Let me go pat myself on the pack in congratulations. I’ll at least start a stash of [name_f]Constance[/name_f] nns. It’s going to be awfully hard to outrun “[name_u]Connie[/name_u]” in my family, as there are a bunch of fans (all the siblings included) of a radio program with a character by that name. The names you listed are some of my favorites. I did think of Iselda, but ruled it out for a variety of reasons, the main one being that with the continued reign of [name_f]Isabella[/name_f], I think Iselda just comes off as “kre8tif [name_f]Isabella[/name_f].” We actually like [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] better than Iselda, and some of the other I names now easily outrank that one, as well.

Thanks for the thoughtful input, everyone!