Name Rants

thank you :face_holding_back_tears: y’all are so sweet and actually the best :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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I hate how the website turns the girls names red after you post them!
I looks so off next to my Winter snowflakes for my UC!!

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if you edit your post to remove it it won’t re-appear :shushing_face:
or you could even mark them as boy names to make them blue

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Summary

Ooh, thanks for the tip, I’ll try it out!! :heart:

anyone else feel so uninspired when it comes to making combos?

i love researching names but idk i just feel like none of my combos are particularly creative or beautiful like a lot of other users on the site and that makes me feel a bit inadequate/sad sometimes :sob:

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yes yes!! i look at other people’s combos: artistic, melodic, packed with meaning… and mine are not :sob:

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real and its not even that i don’t like or love any of my combos but they just feel so basic in comparison :sob:

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Omg nooo @smileymiley and @phoebian, I love seeing your combos around!! You may think they’re unartistic / uninspired, but I really love them and think they’re lovely and whimsical!!

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Oh yes, constantly, especially these days! :sweat_smile: There will be times such as this, but these things do indeed pass. I know how incredibly frustrating it can feel, but as someone coming out of “name block”, I can attest that it does get better eventually. :slightly_smiling_face: I was given a lot of good advice from fellow Berries about how to pull myself out of it, and have come up with some ideas of my own, and now I’m beginning to find inspiration once more! So I have hope for you. :yellow_heart:

I am prone to feeling the same way. But our names are beautiful, creative, special, and unique in their own ways. We must keep reminding ourselves of this fact! :slightly_smiling_face: But I definitely get it, it is hard not to compare oneself to others.

Your names are meaningful to you, yes? That is all that matters, in my humble opinion. And for what its worth, I think your names are incredibly artistic, melodic, and packed with meaning! I mean, just look at the stunning combination you had me make a mood board for: Ayanna Glow! How inspired and gorgeous is she? :slightly_smiling_face: Your names are perfect, I promise :yellow_heart: I know you may feel they are inadequate, but I think they’re very inspiring and truly beautiful, genuinely!

I can relate at times, and I know it’s cheesy, but self affirmation helps a lot! I know not what names you like, but I can say that no name is “basic”, that’s just such an awful descriptor people use to tear others down. Your names are so lovely, I hope you can see that and treasure them for the gems that they are. :yellow_heart:

Sorry if my words aren’t comforting, I am nursing a mild headache at the moment. :sweat_smile: But I wanted to try to reassure in any way that I could at the moment.

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@winterlyricalfox thank you sage :face_holding_back_tears: it means a lot coming from you - you already know i think your combos are stunning!! :laughing:


@mellona i loved reading this edmund :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: your seriously so lovely. your moodboard for sweet [name_f]Ayanna[/name_f] [name_u]Glow[/name_u] really brought the name to life for me, thank you!!

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I’m so glad that I could be of some help to you! :yellow_heart: And thank you, you are a lovely person, as well! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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@phoebian - Never say this about yourself Augie! Never! I don’t really know you well but what I’ve seen of your names, works, and combos I really love. They are special and unique in their own way, regardless of what everyone else thinks.

@smileymiley - Miley! I’m sorry you feel this way! You’re such an awesome person, and you really do have some beautiful and special names! You’ve helped me fall in love with Ayanna, and you’re really so encouraging!

Both of you are so valued on the forums, and you guys are such bright lights and shining stars on here. NB truly wouldn’t be the same without you guys!

:smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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aww you make me smile cat!! truly thank you. and im so happy i helped you with ayanna, shes so lovely and perfect for you!! lots of love :sparkling_heart: :sparkling_heart:

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@winterlyricalfox thank you so so much sage <3 your support means a lot and i love seeing you in my notifications

@mellona hi edmund! i don’t know you very well yet but your notds are absolutely beautiful and i love seeing them, your words are so thoughtful <3

@CattheBat13579 thanks cat! your compliments are so sweet, you’re such a dear :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: i hope we can get to know each other better in the future

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Why, thank you very much! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: And of course! I hope you feel more at ease about your names soon!

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I feel the same way about my names :smiling_face_with_tear: I always feel like my names are so “boring” or uncreative compared to the beautiful names other berrys have in their lists

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girl whaaaaat!? I actively associate your names with all of those things :two_hearts:

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i just made the sweetest, cosiest combo ever but I could never realistically use it for a child :sob:

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i just wanted to say i get so much inspiration from your posts, and i’ve always thought you have such unique and artistic names and combos! definitely not boring or uncreative at all :revolving_hearts:

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I just realized today while looking at an old thread of mine that I accidentally STOLE my middle name idea from someone else’s combination! :sob: [name_f]My[/name_f] apologies to the creator (I do not know if they wish to be tagged) about “stealing” [name_u]Sasha[/name_u] Lupin(e), I swear that it was completely unintentional. It was such a lovely combination that I suppose it suck in my mind. I promise not to use your lovely combination! I’ve always had [name_m]Edmund[/name_m] [name_u]Sasha[/name_u] on my list…so it just worked, I suppose. :sweat_smile: Back to the drawing board! :sweat:

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