First of all, I’d just like to say that I can’t even begin to imagine the frustration and pain you must be going through over this situation, and my heart goes out to you, your husband, and little Miss [name]Sailor[/name] [name]May[/name]. [name]May[/name] you all find some relaxation amidst this turmoil and confusion.
I do like the name [name]Sailor[/name], even as a person who generally favors classic names for the most part. That being said, I totally understand your fears about the potential lack of professionalism expressed by the name [name]Sailor[/name], something that could hinder your daughter in her future endeavors. You know what? I think that is ridiculous. When I really think about it, I have a hard time picturing [name]Aiden[/name] on a grown man, too, but that didn’t stop thousands of parents from using the name. In a decade, names like [name]Aiden[/name] and [name]Avery[/name], [name]Skylar[/name] and [name]Sailor[/name] will be the names of the adult generation, so that is not of concern. In the future, if [name]Sailor[/name] becomes a doctor or lawyer or actress or whatever, she can go by her full name (first and middle) as a means of establishing some authority and presence.
[name]Sailor[/name] is cute, spunky, but more importantly, of significance to you and your husband, which I love. If you want a name with more substance, perhaps change the middle name. Something like [name]Sailor[/name] [name]Jane[/name] or [name]Sailor[/name] [name]Margaret[/name] would anchor the unique name with a classic favorite, giving it stability, staying power, and an added degree of professionalism for the future. Or, if you and your husband both find a name you really love and agree on, change it, and keep [name]Sailor[/name] as the middle name. I’d really follow [name]Pam[/name]'s advice here, because she is the expert and her advice is excellent. As for [name]Chloe[/name] and [name]Ava[/name], I agree with her, but I do think [name]Olivia[/name] [name]Sailor[/name] is darling. I know [name]Olivia[/name] is getting popular, but it still has that elegance and classicism that sets it apart from the [name]Ava[/name]'s and [name]Bailey[/name]'s of today’s preschools.
Again, I wish you the best of luck in your decision. You never know, [name]Sailor[/name] could fit your little princess like a charm! Take a couple weeks to get to know your daughter as a little girl, embracing and understanding her personality, and see if this fits in with your vision of [name]Sailor[/name]. If it does, then there is no reason to change it, as some people will object to any name you choose. If you show [name]Sailor[/name] that you love her name and her, then she has no reason to feel self-conscious about it. Empower your daughter and embrace her name, whatever that may be…