NOT naming a kid after a famous person haha

[name_f]My[/name_f] husband loves the name [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]. Our surname is [name_u]Jackson[/name_u]. I do not admire the actor by that appellation too the poit that we long-list the name [name_u]Sam[/name_u] every time it gets down to a decision. The actor is 76 something years old and will one day be a foreign concept to all but film buffs.

The question: [name_m]Can[/name_m] we reasonably name a child [name_u]Sam[/name_u] (Samuel) [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] without binding him to that actor whom I dislike?

I think it’s a generous thought, but naming a child [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] today could be like naming a kid [name_m]Marlon[/name_m] [name_m]Brando[/name_m], [name_u]Cary[/name_u] [name_m]Grant[/name_m], [name_m]Errol[/name_m] [name_u]Flynn[/name_u], [name_m]Humphry[/name_m] [name_m]Bogart[/name_m], [name_u]Charleston[/name_u] [name_m]Heston[/name_m] or [name_f]Greta[/name_f] [name_f]Garbo[/name_f] back in the 1980s. [name_f]Generous[/name_f] because SLJ is one in a hundred thousand famous actors today, rather than the leading actors of the past. Does that help frame the question?

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He is however in big kid-friendly franchises like Star Wars and Marvel, so I feel like children born now are likely to spot Samuel Jackson in the credits more than once and have a reasonable idea who he is.

If it’s definitely your name, I’d say do it anyway - but there’s a really strong chance that the connection will continually be made and ‘bind’ the association as you put it.

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Both names are common so I don’t really think it’s a big deal. Plus, the L. in the actor’s name makes it seem different enough to me. I’ve never heard his name without the L.

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I feel like if you don’t like the actor, you shouldn’t give your kid the same exact first and last name as them? I don’t think the L in his name makes it that much different. Regardless of the staying power of the actor, you’re naming a kid now. People are going to comment on it and you’ll definitely get a couple of references to the actor. Are you going to be annoyed by that?

Have you considered using [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] as a middle name? [name_u]Or[/name_u] using a different full name like [name_m]Samwell[/name_m], [name_m]Samson[/name_m], etc to get nickname [name_u]Sam[/name_u]?

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Yeah. We really messed up and gave the other 3 boys J middle names with increasing syllables :rofl: [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_u]Joseph[/name_u], [name_m]Josiah[/name_m]. Next post: 4 syllable non-weird J names for a boy.

I know. It’s super ocd of me.

[name_m]Samwell[/name_m] sounds enough like [name_m]Samuel[/name_m], I feel like that won’t make a blink of difference if we’re going to catch an earful on the SLJ reference. [name_m]Samson[/name_m] and [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] end too rhymey for my taste.

Crossing my fingers for another girl.

Thank you for your thoughts, @whatchamacallit and @persephonescrown

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ah, how did I miss the double son endings :sweat_smile:

good luck on finding a name! for what its worth, I love [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] as a name but I probably wouldn’t use it in your situation :sob:

[name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m]? [name_u]Jericho[/name_u] and [name_m]Jonathan[/name_m] aren’t 4 syllables but they sound and feel longer to me than most other J boys names.

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I mean, if you love the name that much I don’t think it’s a dealbreaker. If he consistently goes by [name_u]Sam[/name_u] (as most Samuels do) it’s hardly likely people will notice. [name_m]Even[/name_m] if his full name is being read out in school or whatever, “Sam Jackson” is hardly likely to invoke SLJ in the minds of children. That said, there are so many wonderful names out there. If you’re not widely passionate about the name and the association already bothers you, I wouldn’t be pursuing it.

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If you can get past the association, would be ok with comments, and love the name, go for it. Otherwise don’t use a name that makes you think of a dusty dude.

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I think if the connection bothers you, you shouldn’t do it. would you be okay with comments about the actor? Would you think about the actor every time you hear the name?

With that being said I think the names are common enough that it wouldn’t be such a big deal.

Would you be open to just using Sam? Or maybe Solomon nn Sam? Maybe Samal or Samir?

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I wouldn’t think of the actor, to be honest, but then I’m neither US-based or particularly into his genre of films. I have heard of him, but always as [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] L.

I think certainly [name_u]Sam[/name_u] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] is totally fine, and as others have said both first and surname are quite common so I think that helps [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] not to feel too tied as well.

Might your husband go for [name_u]Daniel[/name_u]? [name_u]Gabriel[/name_u]? [name_m]Silas[/name_m]? [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] or [name_m]Lucian[/name_m]?

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I’ve heard of [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] but, honestly, I had to look him up to check where. I think depending on where you live, it may be safe. If I heard [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] in the wild, I would not think “like the actor?!” though I may think “Isn’t there some guy named that in x films?”. As long as you’re not planning on naming the child [name_m]Samuel[/name_m] [name_m]Leroy[/name_m] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u], I don’t see why you couldn’t use it. (Teenberry)

P.S. Although this is coming from a woman that thinks [name_u]Michael[/name_u] [name_u]Jordan[/name_u] sings & [name_u]Michael[/name_u] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] shoots, so do with that what you will.

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Good point. I really love the name [name_u]Sam[/name_u]. It’s more about [name_u]Sam[/name_u] than it is [name_m]Samuel[/name_m].

[name_f]My[/name_f] father in law is [name_u]Michael[/name_u]. I mean, but he’s like 70 something. He goes by “Mike.” And I have a nephew named [name_m]Andrew[/name_m]. It’s not ideal, but they survive. And I bet few people forget their names!

@Swag_Piss that’s a great way to simplify the issue and make a decision. You’re a fixer and I like that.

@wishmay I’m mostly wondering if there will be such a strong connection 15 years from now. Never considered [name_m]Solomon[/name_m], nn [name_u]Sam[/name_u]. I think the “mon” might be too rhymey with “-son” still though. Good thoughts!

@katinka I usually don’t think of the actor without adding the L also. [name_f]Thankful[/name_f] for the bland surname I suppose! We have a [name_u]Daniel[/name_u]. I like [name_m]Silas[/name_m], but not as much as [name_m]Samuel[/name_m]. [name_m]Gabe[/name_m] is too angelic and hubby nixed any [name_m]Luke[/name_m] derivatives.

@Sophie_sawriter ha! That’s great news. I’m in [name_u]America[/name_u]. Jordan/ [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] :rofl: x3 You’re a comedian.

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Agree just don’t use an L middle name and it will be fine

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They’re both common names anyway, and besides I don’t associate [name_u]Sam[/name_u] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u] with the actor. I’m 13, so perhaps too young to know who that is, but still- I think it’s fine. [name_m]Just[/name_m] DON’T name him [name_u]Michael[/name_u].

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I get them confused too!!! :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Yes. I think its a generic enough name (NOT in a bad way!) that youll be alright. And like you said when he grows up even less of an issue. His peers definitely wont (i hope) get the reference. And there are so many people out there who have same names as celebrities or characters in film. Dont settle for something else just bc of the guy from Pulp Fiction. This child will be so prominent in your life that his own personality and identity will far overshadow the actor’s in your mind that it wont be long before you dont even think about the actor when you hear [name_u]Sam[/name_u] [name_u]Jackson[/name_u], but your own child instead.

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[name_m]Just[/name_m] because both the names are common doesn’t mean the association won’t be overpowering. Think of the name [name_u]Will[/name_u] [name_m]Smith[/name_m]. Both [name_u]Will[/name_u] and [name_m]Smith[/name_m] are extremely common, but it’s still one person who dominates that name…would be kind of a pain to have that name!

I wouldn’t use it

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Looks like I’m in the minority here but I definitely wouldn’t do it. Yes they’re common names, but as someone else pointed out, that doesn’t make the combination any less associated to him (Michael [name_u]Jackson[/name_u], [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] [name_u]Wilde[/name_u], [name_f]Britney[/name_f] Spears, the list goes on and on - all very common names but you still immediately think of the celeb). And yeah he may be older but right now he’s still very relevant and well known. He’s in literally some of the biggest franchises in the world.

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i agree with this. he’s too well known.

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To be fair I am a big star wars and marvel fan and never heard of him or at least haven’t made that connection. Also I’m not in the us if that helps. I don’t even know what he did

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