Oh boy... (it's twin boys 😧)

Personally, I don’t think sharing initials is too big of a deal. I share the same first and last initial with my older sister and rarely are we ever confused for the other. There’s some inevitable risk of confusion with siblings in general, especially twins, but beyond that, I don’t think it’s a serious issue. I have never been referred to by my first initial-last name, anyway.

I have always thought that twins with the same first initial are charming! I know a set of twins (a boy and a girl) whose names both start with G. They’ve never expressed any frustration with their similar names, even into adulthood. [name_f]My[/name_f] advice is to choose for yourself as far as the first letter. Based on your older kid’s names, I’m sure whatever you pick will be fantastic!

Hope this helped! Best of luck to your family!

Callum and [name_u]Beau[/name_u]! [name_m]Long[/name_m] and classic middles? How about:
[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m]
[name_m]Isidore[/name_m]
[name_u]Florian[/name_u]
[name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_m]Antonius[/name_m]

@notcinnamon, I like [name_m]Harrison[/name_m] and [name_u]Maxwell[/name_u]!

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I also thought that if you wanted to lengthen [name_u]Beau[/name_u] then [name_m]Beauden[/name_m] is lovely.

It really depends with initials.
It certainly isn’t going to hurt anyone if one or both of the twins share initials with siblings … But once you do then it’s done.
Since you haven’t done it so far…
Pros:
-You can just put first initials on things (tooth brushes, gym bags, anything you’d embroider, above coat hooks… like with girls or boys for some things you might get jewelry with a first initial, school supplies, above their beds, the back of sports jerseys are often an initial and surname…)
-each boy has a distinctiveness about his name, I even suggest parents consider the endings and dominant sounds in the names … Like even juggling names when trying to ask one to come inside or it they need something lol… [name_m]Even[/name_m] with distinctly different names that can get jumbled lol…
-helps narrow it down, choose fave for each letter and go from there…
-no thoughts like the baby has the same initial as - why not me or? But they may be too young to over think things.
-no people thinking the twins are the two with the same initial when they arent.

Cons:
Names you might like best get crossed out- always choose the name you love best unless you have a really good reason

I think giving twins the same initial would probably be easier in a way and I like it personally, I think it gives them a nice connection for just them as twins, that’s special.
Different middle initial would be fine like JO & JR could go on things…
But in the spirit of having not used the same initial twice so far… Definitely worth considering keeping that theme or just for the twins to match initials…

Wow :flushed: congrats to you!
You are one rockstar mama.

I love [name_u]Beau[/name_u] and [name_u]Callum[/name_u].
As far as repeating initials- you haven’t done it yet… don’t start now! It’s really not a big deal either way but I do love the idea of all 8 having their own initial!

Good luck

I like [name_u]Callum[/name_u] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] best from your list.

Eight boys under 10?! Wow! Congrats mama! That is quite a surprise. [name_f]My[/name_f] grandfather grew up as the oldest of 8 boys. I remember hearing a story… right after dinner, they were all still at the table, their mother would get a loaf of bread and make pb&j sandwiches for them all, cause they were always hungry!

Your boys have great names. They had an [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] too! And a [name_m]Marcus[/name_m]. Maybe it will help u, their names were: [name_u]Roy[/name_u] [name_u]Vernon[/name_u], [name_m]Richard[/name_m] [name_u]George[/name_u], [name_m]Hartwell[/name_m] [name_m]Irving[/name_m], [name_m]Lewis[/name_m] [name_m]Edward[/name_m], [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] [name_m]Harold[/name_m], [name_m]Henry[/name_m] [name_u]Francis[/name_u], [name_m]Paul[/name_m] [name_m]David[/name_m], [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]Joseph[/name_m].

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Hi all,
Thanks for the lovely replies again, they are so very helpful! We’ve been trying very hard to narrow things down and we have come up with a few name sets that we’d love your opinion on.

Duncan & [name_m]Julius[/name_m] - instead of [name_u]Julian[/name_u], we didn’t like the -an -an ending
[name_m]Atticus[/name_m] & [name_m]Louis[/name_m] - [name_u]Gus[/name_u] and [name_u]Lou[/name_u] would be cute?
[name_u]Auden[/name_u] & [name_u]Schuyler[/name_u] - we love these names, but they’re quite uncommon compared to the other boys’ names, not sure whether we care about that though
[name_u]August[/name_u] & [name_m]Julius[/name_m] - we like that these both have two u’s, but the reference to [name_m]Julius[/name_m] [name_m]Caesar[/name_m] might be too much haha
[name_m]Atticus[/name_m] & [name_u]Julian[/name_u] - we like this, but we don’t really like that fact that we’re repeating the A initial, while adding J as a new initial (same goes for the previous combo), I know, we’re super nitpicky
[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] & [name_u]Laurence[/name_u] - we like [name_m]Augustin[/name_m] better, but we already have [name_u]Quentin[/name_u] ending in -tin
[name_u]August[/name_u] & [name_m]Louis[/name_m] - we like the simplicity of this

So, when looking at this overall, I think we’re going to repeat the A and L initials. Given the fact that we have bestowed 6 little brothers upon [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] and [name_m]Lucas[/name_m], we think they’ve earned that honour haha. We’ve also been thinking about giving the twins two middle names, so we can repeat all initials.

We’d love your opinions on our thoughts.

Thanks so much again,

TDay

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[name_f]My[/name_f] vote goes to:
[name_u]August[/name_u] & [name_m]Julius[/name_m] :heart_eyes:
[name_u]August[/name_u] & [name_m]Louis[/name_m]
[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] & [name_u]Laurence[/name_u]
:slight_smile:

Congratulations! I love [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] and [name_u]Julian[/name_u] as twin names. For middle names, since you are out of family names, have you thought of literary names, character names, or any other meaningful names to use? I love a meaningful middle!

My vote is definitely for [name_u]Julian[/name_u] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] or [name_u]Julian[/name_u] and [name_m]Marcus[/name_m]! I think these match the style and feel of your overall sibset the best and I like both equally! So it depends on what vibe you’re going for: [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] makes a great alliterative brother for [name_u]Julian[/name_u] and has a biblical touch, while [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] is a little more modern and ties in well with [name_u]Quentin[/name_u].

Some suggestions:
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_u]Michael[/name_u]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_m]Andrew[/name_m]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_u]Michael[/name_u] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_m]Patrick[/name_m]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_u]Francis[/name_u]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]

Julian [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Nathanial[/name_m] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]

I really like [name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_u]Michael[/name_u], [name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] & [name_m]Joshua[/name_m] [name_m]Andrew[/name_m], [name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Matthew[/name_m] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]William[/name_m], and [name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] & [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]. Best of luck naming!

I LOVE [name_u]Auden[/name_u] & [name_u]Schuyler[/name_u]!

Auden [name_m]Nathaniel[/name_m] & [name_u]Schuyler[/name_u] [name_m]Harrison[/name_m] make a nice pair.

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Oh my… 8 boys! [name_m]Major[/name_m] kudos and congratulations to you, Mama!

From your updated list, my favourite pairs are:

Atticus & [name_m]Louis[/name_m]
[name_m]Atticus[/name_m] & [name_u]Julian[/name_u]
[name_u]August[/name_u] & [name_m]Louis[/name_m] ([name_u]Gus[/name_u] and [name_u]Lou[/name_u] :heart_eyes:)

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Oh wow! Congratulations!

I love [name_u]Julian[/name_u] and [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] together.

Repeating initials is totally fine imo!
As long as they arent similar names…for example; I think naming your twins [name_m]Abraham[/name_m] & [name_m]Abram[/name_m] might be a bit close!! Where as [name_m]Abraham[/name_m] & [name_m]Alastair[/name_m] are very different!

Julian and [name_m]Marcus[/name_m]!! Those are such standouts from your original list.

Power to you with the 8 boys. We have friends with oodles of boys, and those are the best families around!

I think the idea of repeating all initials and with A & L for first initials is very clever.
I think [name_m]Audun[/name_m] & [name_m]Louis[/name_m] or [name_u]Laurence[/name_u] I like together maybe, I would pick [name_m]Atticus[/name_m] but I kind of like the symmetry of both having a 2 syllable name… But you have lots of excellent choices!

I like [name_u]August[/name_u] & [name_m]Louis[/name_m] for the twins but I think [name_m]Louis[/name_m] is too close to [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] to use for a sibling. I think I would choose [name_m]Duncan[/name_m] & [name_m]Julius[/name_m].

Oh I’d forgotten about that,I have to agree … Maybe there’s another L name out there that works for you?

What about [name_u]August[/name_u] (which is perfect being 2 syllables and having a different ending from your others and shares initial with big brother…) &
[name_u]Murray[/name_u]
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u]
[name_u]Laurie[/name_u]
…

I think repeating initials is a very sweet idea. I agree with some others that [name_m]Louis[/name_m] is maybe too similar to [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] – if you’re calling one, the other might come running!
I think [name_u]August[/name_u] and [name_m]Julius[/name_m] might be a little much – they are both month names and both [name_m]Roman[/name_m] emperor namesakes
I like all of the name choices, though!
I also love the match [name_m]Marcus[/name_m] and [name_u]Callum[/name_u] from your original list – lots of similar letters without a super obvious match.

Maybe [name_m]Luther[/name_m] for an L name?

Possible middles:
[name_m]Anthony[/name_m], [name_u]Jameson[/name_u], [name_u]Montgomery[/name_u], [name_m]Cornelius[/name_m], [name_m]Ulysses[/name_m],

Middles starting with other children’s initials –
[name_m]Harold[/name_m]
[name_m]Harrison[/name_m]
[name_m]Edward[/name_m]
[name_m]Edwin[/name_m]
Elliottt
[name_u]Emerson[/name_u]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_m]Quigley[/name_m]
[name_u]Quincy[/name_u]
[name_m]Solomon[/name_m]
[name_m]Stephen[/name_m]
[name_m]Samson[/name_m]/Sampson