Looking for some really honest opinions or personal experiences when it comes to being a single mother by choice (through use of a donor)
A little back story…I am getting to an age where I am heavily starting to consider having a baby on my own…I haven’t met the right person and time is moving faster then I would like it to. Im starting to realize the world isn’t going to wait for me, and even through I had different dreams for myself, I can’t imagine not being a mother. So maybe its time to consider going it alone.
Obviously this is a very big decision, but my biggest concern that keeps bothering me is ultimately, I keep thinking, am I being selfish? I’ve wanted this baby my entire life, but is that a good enough reason to have one? I can provide everything, but I cant give the baby a father. If it just ends up being the two of us forever, would it be fair to the child?
I wonder if there’s anyone out there who has personal experience with something like this they might want to share, or some thoughts if you have any. Hopefully it can help clarify some things for me.