Today is my beautiful daughter’s six month birthday.
Today we will give her a name. DH wasn’t won over by my dream, although I think I was… we can’t agree on how to choose, there’s so much emotional attachment.
DH and I made a ranking system based on the one you suggested (sorry, I’m forgetting who- sorry!). It has eleven categories, plus two minus categories.
We also made a little score sheet for DS, it has three categories that he created.
We will tally the votes from the three of us and, there will be her name. We made so many categories to hopefully avoid a tie. In the event of a tie, we are going to draw names. We have agreed that we will not discuss why we gave what rating we gave, only tally the numbers.
Originally, I kind of thought this was heartless, but the three of us are excited and it is going to be fun. It is almost like we are able to peel away the emotional baggage when presented with a system and just have it unveiled how much we actually like each name. Plus, DH is very, very left-brain, so this helps him to actually express how he feels about a name.
For those interested, here are are names we agreed to consider. A lot of my favs were nixed, but, that’s okay, because so were many of his.
[name]Delphi[/name]
[name]Coral[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name]
[name]Thea[/name]
[name]Nora[/name]
[name]Lark[/name]
[name]Beth[/name]
[name]Juliet[/name]
[name]Aster[/name]
[name]Blythe[/name]
[name]Juniper[/name]
[name]Zeta[/name]
[name]Juno[/name]
Here are our criteria:
- I like the name
- It fits her
- It is soft
- It communicates a feeling of happiness and joy
- It flow well w/ last name
- It has an interesting history/meaning/namesake
- It is unique, memorable
- It is easy to prounounce/spell
- It has cute nicknames
- It is feminie, yet strong
- I REALLY love the name
minus
- high teasing potential
- undesireable nicknames
Here are cute 8 year old DS’s categories:
- I like the name
- It is a cute name
- It fits her
Thank you all for your help. There were so many names you suggested that I would have loved to name her.
and, of course, I wll let you know how it goes!