@namergirl3 Thanks, hon 
It is really hard when you know the person is well meaning, but everything that comes out of their mouth hurts. I’d really rather they said nothing. [name_f]My[/name_f] Dad literally said it was probably because I had too many sweets at Christmas… like what on earth?! No. Pull your horns in. 
The kicker being that my parents had a miscarriage, so surely he should know better!
Oh my! I can’t believe she said two miscarriages isn’t that many… 
One is too many! [name_m]Just[/name_m] one can be so traumatic. I’m so sorry she said that to you.
I can understand that frustration. [name_f]My[/name_f] in-laws have 9 grandchildren, but we still got asked when we planned on having kids. I always felt like screaming “you have a bunch - leave me alone!”
Sending hugs Family is a whole other battle.