Thank you so much for your kind words. Xx
Dropping by to say Iâm so sorry. I know you wanted this baby so much. Healing and peace
Wow. Just wow. I could knock heads together when I hear comments like that. Itâs so unbelievably insensitive and just all around unnecessary.
Thank you đĽ˛đ¤
This happened to me on [name_u]October[/name_u] 3rd. I wasnât actively trying to get pregnant but I wasnât taking any birth control. I wasnât over the moon. But I was happy to have another baby. I found out I was pregnant in [name_u]September[/name_u]. When it happened of course I was sad and cried but I wasnât emotionally wrecked. Some family and friends told me there was something wrong with me. I ended up more upset in the end because of the comments than the actual experience. I went to therapy and of course, there was nothing wrong with me.
Iâm sorry
@mommy_vlogger Iâm so sorry. The comments can really be brutal. People are so oblivious to how much pain their words cause. Hugs.
TW for a potentially triggering question regarding the event.
During your miscarriage â did anyone else get terrible nausea and vomiting during their miscarriage? Worse than the regular morning sickness?
@eileithyia I felt mildly sick for a couple of days, but no vomiting. It wouldnât surprise me if some people did experience this as a side effect due to the huge change in hormones as the pregnancy ends. The drop in iron and nutrients due to severe blood loss can also make you feel sick and weak. Iâm sorry if youâre experiencing this. Xx
I had migraine and sickness. But no vomiting. Iâm sorry if youâre going through this at all.
Thank you guys xx
No, it was a few years ago (2018). I was just reflecting on it â wondering if my symptoms were normal.
Aww ok. [name_f]Glad[/name_f] youâre not going through it again.
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I think Iâve realised this last couple of weeks that Iâve processed my grief completely. [name_f]My[/name_f] due date buddies have had their babies and I was purely happy and excited. I didnât feel triggered or have any negative emotions. Iâve also noticed I can watch baby-related content without being overwhelmed with sadness. Itâs kind of a strange feeling to know that process is complete, but I feel it is timely as my due date is this coming [name_m]Friday[/name_m]. Like the journey is about to complete itself and my soul feels settled. Today is the first day since our loss that I had the âwe should have a babyâ thought. Iâve been completely disconnected from everything baby-related since the loss that the thought genuinely surprised me, but the fact that I wasnât scared of it was the real surprise. I feel like my heart said âokay thenâ. Perhaps we will be back on the TTC train sooner than I thoughtâŚ
Oh my goodness, I am so happy for you. I am tearing up thinking about one day being in the place you are, to be able to be so happy for them
Wishing you peace and comfort leading up to your due date
Sending love to anyone that needs it xxx
I recently started attending therapy to get some support for my PTSD from the miscarriage. Itâs hard because it means truly facing what I went through, but I think itâs a much needed step. A few years too late, even!
I hope you are all feeling supported and loved. I hope you all get your rainbows soon!