I have considered that but the double Ls threw me off. I would def be open to it!!
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I do think itās ātoo wordyā, but that wouldnāt put me off from using it.
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YES! The skipping around and not loading properly are happening majorly for me. It is rather frustrating.
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Yes! It has be SUPER glitchy. [name_m]Even[/name_m] on my laptop. Itās usually a little glitchy on my phone or iPad but always fine on my laptop. I hope they fix it soon because Iām not able to scroll up very far to vote on polls
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very much in love with Theotime.
I did just find out that it is actually a real name that is very much not pronounced like ātheo timeā but I really love ātheo timeā so Iām letting myself have this like we collectively let ourselves have EL oh wen.
just playing around with middle names; which of these do you like? x
- Theotime [name_m]Augustus[/name_m]
- Theotime [name_u]Arrow[/name_u]
- Theotime [name_u]Eden[/name_u]
- Theotime [name_u]Reed[/name_u]
- Theotime [name_u]Francis[/name_u]
- Theotime [name_u]Beacon[/name_u]
- Theotime Doubleday
- Theotime Catcher
- Theotime Seeker
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Unisex girl (based on suggestion 
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- Carlisle [name_f]Lenora[/name_f]
- Ramsey [name_f]Lenora[/name_f]
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- Jasper
- Casper
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I go back and forth so often! Currently [name_m]Casper[/name_m] but I adore both
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The [name_u]James[/name_u] Question
James was my favorite boysā name for a very long time (over 10 years)
However, I took it off my list, erased it entirely a few months ago. There were a few reasons for this, but the main one was that I was badly bullied in school by a boy called [name_m]Thomas[/name_m]. He was my SOās best friend for over a decade as well. Turns out as a kid, [name_m]Thomas[/name_m] went by [name_u]James[/name_u] - his middle name. [name_f]My[/name_f] SO heavily ties the name to him and he just hates the name because of it.
Iāve been missing the name so muchā¦ Is it wrong to put it back on my list, and bring it up again with my SO in a year or twoā¦ [name_u]Or[/name_u] is it too far gone?
- Put it back on your list for now and revist at a later date - time may heal.
- This is a very tricky and complicated situation. Iād need more information to provide an opinion.
- Itās too disrespectful to bring it up again after your SO expressed very valid strong feelings against it.
- I have something else to say here. (@ me?)
- I have a suggestion similar to [name_u]James[/name_u] you might like! (I tested [name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m] for a while, but I donāt love it anymore. I love the nicknames [name_m]Jimmy[/name_m] and [name_u]Jem[/name_u] if that helps.)
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ETA: Sadly, [name_u]Jamie[/name_u] is out of the question. 
I love the name [name_u]Jamie[/name_u] but itās my partnerās sisterās fianceās name.
Added an option for you to say āitās complicatedā :^)
It is really tricky. Sigh. I love [name_u]Jem[/name_u], but I fear itās too short to standalone?
Surname is also quite short, and shares a lot of sounds with [name_u]Jem[/name_u]ā¦ (6 letters)
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I donāt knowā¦ Your SO probably knows how much you love the name, so they would most likely bring it up if again if their mind changes on the matter.
Maybe just [name_u]Jay[/name_u] as a full name? [name_u]James[/name_u] and [name_u]Jay[/name_u] are basically the only two J boy names I like and they both give me similar vibes. I think you could put it back on your list at least as a hypothetical, but I also donāt want that to hurt you more later either. For me, most of the names on my list arenāt ones I would necessarily use on a child. In that sense I think itās totally okay for you to display and admire [name_u]James[/name_u]. I love it!
Jemal, Jemiah, and Jemmy 
are other alternatives.
I think itās okay to put it back on your list, while acting as if you wonāt be able to use the name with your SO because of his strong feelings towards the name.
I do love [name_u]Jem[/name_u] and I think it works as a standalone. Maybe [name_u]Jamie[/name_u] or [name_u]Jaime[/name_u]? [name_u]Or[/name_u] an international variant like [name_m]Seamus[/name_m] or [name_m]Hamish[/name_m]? [name_u]Or[/name_u] something like [name_u]Jasper[/name_u], ā[name_u]Jem[/name_u]ā?
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Other than [name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m] ā [name_m]Jeremy[/name_m], [name_u]Jamison[/name_u], or [name_m]Jemuel[/name_m] could give you [name_u]Jem[/name_u]! I do think it can stand alone, though!
exactly what I thought!!
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Is [name_f]Aurora[/name_f] overused?
- Yes, and I donāt see the appeal
- Yes, but I see the appeal
- No, but soon
- No, but I still wouldnāt use it
- No, it deserves the attention its getting
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Itās entirely possible that over time the association will fade away or be replaced by better ones. It also might not, but I donāt think you have to make a definite decision right now.
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I just wanted to clarify my vote as Iām out on my own 
I donāt think youāre a terrible person for considering asking again and I donāt think it would necessarily be disrespectful to do so, but I would personally advise against it.
Could be a stretch but how about [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] / [name_m]BenjemĆn[/name_m] ā[name_u]Jem[/name_u]ā?
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I think that the surname actually sounds really good with [name_u]Jem[/name_u]! imagine [name_u]Jem[/name_u] and [name_f]Juno[/name_f] as siblings 
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