Baby Berries due October - December 2022

I had my 20 week scan today and baby is a GIRL! One of each and my family is now complete :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: undecided on [name_f]Emilia[/name_f] or [name_f]Isla[/name_f] for baby. I have to go back end of [name_u]June[/name_u] for more measurements as baby was laying awkwardly but all is good! So happy.

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How lovely @eireann :blush::sparkling_heart: Congrats!

Iā€™m 21 weeks now and heartburn, lower back ache and randomly waking at 2am have set in with a vengeance :weary: Time seems to be going very quickly and very slowly at the same time??

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Iā€™m 12 weeks today, which always feels like a bit of a milestone. Iā€™m trying my best to be more positive about this pregnancy, and to actually enjoy it, but to be honest I still hate being pregnant. I guess the result makes it all worth it, but ugh :sweat_smile: :roll_eyes:

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How is everyone doing?
iā€™ve been finding dressing very tricky with the heat. [name_f]Pretty[/name_f] much living in stretchy skirts and t-shirts. Apart from that, iā€™m all good. Slowly starting to feel more movement which is lovely.

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Iā€™ve been on vacation in the mountains which does make dressing a little easier. All leggings and roomy tees/hoodies.

I hate to be that person, but I never feel better than when Iā€™m pregnant. I think itā€™s the hormones and extra blood. The physical unwieldiness is a small price to pay. Iā€™ve even been sleeping ok on the rental bed, despite the numb carpal tunnel arms that require adjustment several times a night.

On the name front, however, weā€™re in a bad place. We had a shortlist, and I thought this was going to be a breeze. Then my husband decided he hated half the short list and I decided I hated the only one he liked. Now heā€™s refusing to discuss with me until [name_u]September[/name_u] because he (rightly) thinks I will pick any name apart if given enough time :joy:

So I continue lurking on every name board I can find in the hopes of stumbling on something new. If anyone wants to take pity on me and advise, here were our rejected names:

[name_m]Felix[/name_m] - I still like, but DH is meh
[name_m]Liev[/name_m] - DH decided he hates
[name_u]Jude[/name_u] - see [name_m]Liev[/name_m]
[name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m] - I decided I just could not go with full name [name_m]Jeremiah[/name_m], despite the fact that I love [name_u]Jem[/name_u]
[name_m]Leonard[/name_m] - we just canā€™t think of a nickname we like. Not [name_m]Len[/name_m] or [name_u]Lenny[/name_u] or [name_m]Ned[/name_m]. A friend suggested Nard-dogšŸ˜‚

Meanwhile, we have given him the fetal name [name_m]Wilbur[/name_m], which makes discussing baby things much more convenient and hilarious.

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] everyone is staying cool!!

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Got the results from our NIPT test yesterday. [name_u]Baby[/name_u] is doing well, and weā€™re having a girl :rainbow:

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Congrats @Rosebeth ! Your first girl,
right? [name_f]Lovely[/name_f] news.

@georgiegeorgie Thank you. Yes, itā€™s my first girl after four boys. Iā€™ll have to figure out how to be a girls mom as we go along, I guess :slightly_smiling_face:

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[name_m]Just[/name_m] caught up on this thread and loving hearing everyoneā€™s updates! Iā€™m 17 weeks today!

I havenā€™t felt him move yet, but Iā€™m anxiously awaiting that first kick! For those that know, when did you feel your first one moving? [name_f]My[/name_f] friends have all said between like 17-20 weeks, but just curious! Also, when did you ā€œpopā€? I feel like Iā€™m showing some but still donā€™t think Iā€™ve had the big belly pop yet.

We just made a formal announcement last [name_f]Sunday[/name_f] so itā€™s been sweet to read all the messages of support this week!

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With my first, I felt him move around 23 weeks, so pretty late. And with him I also started to show rather late, around 22 weeks.

I didnā€™t feel any movement until 23 weeks with my first.
With my second it was around 18 weeks, but only very subtly and itā€™s only becoming more prominent now at 24 weeks.

I feel like I popped around 16 weeks, but then iā€™m quite short with not much room to go but out!

I felt first movement late with my son. Around 25 weeks. Odd flutters before then (maybe from 23 weeks) but nothing major. Iā€™m 22 weeks on [name_f]Sunday[/name_f] with #2 and feel her at least a handful of times a day. [name_f]My[/name_f] placenta was anterior with my son and posterior this time. But there were issues with my son so reduced movements were regular.

I also popped around 28 weeks with my first and 21 weeks with my second! It took a while first time and maternity jeans helped me look pregnant!

We have decided on babyā€™s name! [name_f]Maya[/name_f]. [name_u]Or[/name_u] [name_f]Maia[/name_f]. Ok, so weā€™ve decided on most of it just not the spelling :joy: which do you prefer? For the MY-uh pronunciation. Middle name will be [name_f]Rose[/name_f] or [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]. Big bro is [name_m]Reuben[/name_m]. I think [name_f]Maya[/name_f] and [name_m]Reuben[/name_m] go together more but Iā€™m interested to hear if [name_f]Maia[/name_f] would be easier for pronunciation. Thanks! [name_f]Hope[/name_f] youā€™re all well.

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Awww congrats @Rosebeth!!! Girls are awesome!!

@eireann I donā€™t think [name_f]Maya[/name_f] is at all confusing to pronounce and I agree it looks better with your sonā€™s name :slight_smile:

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[name_f]Maya[/name_f] and [name_m]Reuben[/name_m] are beautiful together, and I agree, I wouldnā€™t worry about the spelling. So lovely!

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@eireann Another vote for [name_f]Maya[/name_f] and [name_m]Reuben[/name_m]! :blush: A lovely sibset and I think [name_f]Maya[/name_f] is quite intuitive for the pronunciation youā€™re looking for.

@justlikeflorida I felt both my first and second babies moving at around 17 weeks but it was very small, a bit like popcorn popping :popcorn:

Iā€™m 22 weeks now and heartburn is my only bother right now and soon fixed by some Gaviscon :raised_hands: Iā€™ve just posted a thread under baby girl names as hubby and I are really struggling to find a name that feels like ā€œthe oneā€. [name_m]Feel[/name_m] like itā€™s much harder to name a second child of the same gender because weā€™ve already used our ā€œfavouriteā€ name! :thinking:

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@eireann [name_f]Maya[/name_f] / [name_f]Maia[/name_f] is lovely. I slightly prefer the [name_f]Maia[/name_f] spelling :wink:

Our girlā€™s first name will be [name_f]Vienna[/name_f], honoring my dad. For a middle name, weā€™re stuck between RĆŗbĆ½ (love the sound and personal significance, maybe a bit boring next to her brothersā€™ names), EyglĆ³ (Vienna EyglĆ³ probably doesnā€™t have the best flow), [name_f]Mehetabel[/name_f] (my favorite, I think) and [name_f]Betsabe[/name_f] (I like it, but doesnā€™t feel like the one).

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Are you having a daughter? Congratulations! :blue_heart:

[name_f]Vienna[/name_f] [name_f]Mehitabel[/name_f] or [name_f]Vienna[/name_f] RĆŗbĆ½ would indeed suit her perfectly!

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Yes, we got the result from our NIPT (blood test) this week, and found itā€™s a girl :slightly_smiling_face: [name_f]My[/name_f] husband is delighted. Not that he wouldnā€™t have been happy with another boy, but he really wanted the chance to raise a daughter. Iā€™m still getting used to the idea of having a girl, even though my gut feeling had been telling me it was a girl all along.

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Howā€™s everyone doing?

Iā€™m 24 weeks tomorrow, baby girl is good and has a name. Bought her a personalised blanket and dummy clip so it all seems very real now! Iā€™m now buying the last minute things, more baby and me toiletries and then I need to buy her a wardrobe and chest of drawers and then Iā€™m all done. Her name will be [name_f]Lyla[/name_f], middle name [name_f]Rose[/name_f]. It was one of the first names I loved but my surname ends in L so I was worried it sounded silly. I was definitely overreacting though!

I have a staycation booked for the end of [name_u]August[/name_u] where Iā€™ll be 31 weeks, booked pre pregnancy, and Iā€™m dreading it! :sweat_smile: But once thatā€™s over with then Iā€™ll be nesting and packing for the hospital. Itā€™s come round so fast.

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Iā€™m 15 weeks now. The worst of my early pregnancy symptoms is over, so thatā€™s a good thing. Looking forward to the 20 week scan so I can see baby again.

Weā€™re going on holiday to [name_f]Iceland[/name_f] soon. Traveling with four young children while pregnant will be a challenge, but Iā€™m also excited to go back to the country I still consider my home. Iā€™m a bit nervous about flying while pregnant, but I suppose it will be okay.

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