tw: spousal abuse & child being exposed to it
Nazik " [name_u]Naz[/name_u] " Seyyal Perinçek (21) is Amadea’s best friend and confident, who’s also close with [name_f]Jenna[/name_f]. The [name_m]Myles[/name_m] situation is one [name_u]Naz[/name_u] has the greatest understanding of, but wishes it would come to an end, as she fears that [name_f]Amadea[/name_f] could completely spiral given the recent turning of events, and doesn’t think her boyfriend will return to his old self. Her pessimism stems mostly from childhood: the home [name_u]Naz[/name_u] grew up in was very unpleasant, dominated by the extremely controlling and emotionally abusive nature of her father, which her mother endured on a daily basis. While [name_u]Naz[/name_u] and her brothers’ were spared - mostly being ignored in her case, while her older brother was clearly the ‘golden child’ [something that bred resentment between him and their younger brother especially, that [name_u]Naz[/name_u] ended up trying to resolve mostly by herself] - it was painful seeing their mother, who was always the supportive, reassuring and loving parent, broken down by constant criticism and accusations of being unfaithful. Until recently, she was unaware her older brother was almost roped into this, as their father tried to pressure him into spying on their mom; spurred on by his intense paranoia and need to belittle his wife at every moment. [name_f]Amadea[/name_f] was the only person who had real insight into the terrible environment [name_u]Naz[/name_u] and her siblings were raised in, as the only person she really felt comfortable confiding in, which is why she’s determined to help her friend, even if she was upset by the physical violence that transpired recently.
As the person who’s known both parties longest, [name_u]Naz[/name_u] admits she does have some bias in Amadea’s favour ultimately, but at the same time recognises [name_m]Myles[/name_m] has his own unaddressed issues that obviously are deserving of empathy - especially given what transpired. The cheating accusations are something she can’t handle though, thanks to what she saw her mom go through, and the pair have argued before about this; as [name_u]Naz[/name_u] was actually accused of helping [name_f]Amadea[/name_f] ‘hide’ her infidelity, thanks to the girls’ bond. She and [name_m]Myles[/name_m] never had a great relationship - he openly considers [name_u]Naz[/name_u] a dour, moody person who doesn’t bother with much charisma or warmth - and this is why she’s stayed away from him [granted they weren’t speaking much following their blowout row about her ‘conspiring with Amadea’], as she doesn’t believe he’ll have any faith in what help she offers.
Never one to mince her words, Naz’s brutal honesty is something her friends’ appreciate, and this has pushed [name_f]Amadea[/name_f] into accessing therapy quicker, as once [name_u]Naz[/name_u] recognised her friend needs it, she didn’t leave the topic alone. She hasn’t said anything about smoking because she’s more than aware of the absolute hypocrisy of this, and her own use of nicotine is to combat the frequent stress [name_u]Naz[/name_u] encounters thanks to memories of childhood, as well as when her brother’s have a spat: as she’s deathly afraid of it becoming the cold war that used to exist between them. Currently she’s studying sociology - with plans on specialising in domestic abuse, thanks to her own upbringing - and also works at an independent coffee shop, owned by the parents of her older brothers’ partner [who are very flexible with Naz’s’ hours, which she’s infinitely grateful for]. Her mom finally managed to get away from their dad when [name_u]Naz[/name_u] was 17 - helped by her maternal aunt, who often had the children stay with her once she learned of the situatuon - and she lives with her right now, as she wants to make sure she’s handling things on her own.
Part of [name_u]Naz[/name_u] also fears her father somehow managing to get back in their lives - as since the separation, he’s had no contact with either of his younger children, and her older brother refuses to take his calls. The divorce papers haven’t been filed yet, as they know it’ll kick off a significant war, and [name_u]Naz[/name_u] is dreading this day given what it will do to her mom. She attends therapy herself and is trying to rely less on cynicism to protect herself, but it’s even more alluring to her than cigarettes, and she acknowledges it will likely always influence her nature. What has lifted Naz’s’ spirits is adopting a tabby kitten from a local shelter, who she’s named [name_f]Margaret[/name_f] [based on a long-term in joke she and [name_f]Amadea[/name_f] started in middle school], who her friends are madly in love with, and she doesn’t even bother feeling jealous given how precious the cat is.