Hot Takes? 🤭

I think we can view naming as a parenting choice, and those should be discussed in society because not everyone will be aware of every possible consequence of a choice.
That is not to say you should go up to somebody in the store and criticise them, whether it’s for yelling at their child or naming their little girl Jane-Austen; but I do think in a broader, non-confrontational discussion, it is helpful to look at names and their usability and give advice based on that (just like it would be with other parenting choices).
Personally I find myself to be even more conservative when it comes to names than the average [name_u]Berry[/name_u] because I don’t subscribe to the idea that if parents love a name they should use it; to me, that doesn’t go together with the often very child-orientated parenting advice found on here as well.

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and i do see this side of it as well! i think you bring up a great point of the parenting side of it, which makes complete sense. it also seems that the criticism comes in different ways and forms, and i really like your opinion on that, thank you.

(also, unrelated, but jane-austen would be kinda cute without the actual person in question! :joy:)

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I do think it would be a favourite of quite a few people on here, I also could see it being popular in the US south!

And I definitely agree about criticising the names of real people, there’s no use in doing that!

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[name_f]Every[/name_f] time read [name_f]Cosima[/name_f] in my head I read it as Cosmia for some reason… the typo version is so much better :relieved:

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Is it weird that I kind of agree with your sister?

If that’s your style nothin wrong with that! It’s just very much not mine

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Okay, [name_f]Bambi[/name_f] is cute. Like I really love it. Like, it’s my NOTD.

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I absolutely adore [name_f]Bambi[/name_f], that’s a gp of mine.

[name_f]My[/name_f] hot take: I’m not a fan of [name_f]Lottie[/name_f] as nn for [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] or any other names that ends in ā€˜lotte’, I much prefer [name_u]Charlie[/name_u] as a nn.

Also [name_m]Benny[/name_m] as a nn for [name_f]Berenice[/name_f], [name_f]Benjamina[/name_f] or [name_f]Bernadette[/name_f] is super cute or even by itself

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Me either! How many people know they are variations, and even if they do, they don’t sound the same! Unless they are Izzy and Lizzy or Belle and Beth, I think it is ok.

I’ve known people with the middle Austin and a first of a 1 syllable name starting J, but only guys.

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This!

I recently saw [name_f]Daniela[/name_f] mistyped as Danilea and thought that’s a prettier name by far :grin:

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Yeah, I’m aware my name style is different than most peoples’

i actually really love [name_u]Vivian[/name_u] on a little boy :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

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same here !!! vyvyan too, like oscar wilde’s soon !!!

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To be fair, [name_m]Philip[/name_m] is supposed to be a family name for them. (Cecilia ā€œCiciā€ is also a real life family name for [name_f]Jenna[/name_f] [name_m]Fischer[/name_m]- it’s her niece!)

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yes!

YES!

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That’s Drake’s first name!

PEOPLE USING NAMES FROM THEIR OWN CULTURE IS NOT AN ANNOYING TREND I saw a comment on another forum about being annoyed by people using names of different cultures when they can’t easily pronounce it. Just cause you can’t say a name the first time you see it doesn’t make it hard to pronounce, you just have to have put in some effort

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:scream: :star_struck:

EXCITEMENT OVERLOAD

IT HAS BEEN USED IRL BEFORE

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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He’s listed as [name_u]Aubrey[/name_u] D. [name_m]Graham[/name_m] in some of the writing credits on his songs! I can see why [name_u]Aubrey[/name_u] might not be a good rapper name, though…

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